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Dragonlovers
1 day ago
Straight Male, 68
Straight Female, 68
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discretion is not only very important - it's also impolite!
it can depend on your job - 1 type of discretion and it can,
2 depend on your personal lives.
whatever the circs though - no one should be 'obvious' about other people unless the other person is happy about it.
just because this is a swinging site - it does not mean any and all need know about your life. Swingers have rights too.
at the end of the day - it comes down to common sense and politeness.
it can depend on your job - 1 type of discretion and it can,
2 depend on your personal lives.
whatever the circs though - no one should be 'obvious' about other people unless the other person is happy about it.
just because this is a swinging site - it does not mean any and all need know about your life. Swingers have rights too.
at the end of the day - it comes down to common sense and politeness.
Quote by wild rose and the stag
beware the guys with cameras, seems its a new sport, hide in woods take pics and run, now im not quite sure how this will effect the number of couples that go to the regular haunts,personaly i can see it being detrimental to the fun, :cry: but maybe doggers that hear bragging of other doggers pictorial sneakyness, may want to point the fact out it will drive couples away!
wrats
xx
we was up there today (Friday) and didn't see anyone luckily, is this a new thing and happening lots? if so, we'll wander even further away.
Just a thought - but we thought it'd be interesting to see other people's point of view.
We're thinking of going to a local club - to dip our toes so to speak - on a Sunday initially, to get the feel for the place, and due to my shift work we can't go on 'normal' nights for a few weeks yet.
Question is, do many people go to clubs on a Sunday, or is it limited attendance due to the fact most folks go to work on a Monday. And is this concept carried over to other nights clubs are open (except for Fridays and Saturdays when most people have the next day not at work?)
We're planning on going around 5 ish - is this a good time do you think?
Thanks
We're thinking of going to a local club - to dip our toes so to speak - on a Sunday initially, to get the feel for the place, and due to my shift work we can't go on 'normal' nights for a few weeks yet.
Question is, do many people go to clubs on a Sunday, or is it limited attendance due to the fact most folks go to work on a Monday. And is this concept carried over to other nights clubs are open (except for Fridays and Saturdays when most people have the next day not at work?)
We're planning on going around 5 ish - is this a good time do you think?
Thanks
as newbies - we welcome the 'older' members as without you the place would lose it's track in the vast cosmos of life.
without you, no one would know how to 'behave' and the comunity as a whole would lose out. the only danger with this is that cliques could form where newcommers find it hard to break-in - but - the common sense of more experienced members would/should off-set that.
there - hope that makes sense :shock:
without you, no one would know how to 'behave' and the comunity as a whole would lose out. the only danger with this is that cliques could form where newcommers find it hard to break-in - but - the common sense of more experienced members would/should off-set that.
there - hope that makes sense :shock:
Quote by well_busty_babe
i have spent a large part of two whole days trying to do this, when you fail you get sent right back to the very start, its driving me mad, but i refuse to give up.
i keep failing at question 61.
if anyone else famncies taking on a new addiction its............
if you get past 61, let me know!!!!
I really really wish I hadn't clicked on that link.....
:doh:
as total - and very nervous - newbies - this thread is excellent for us who want to attend a munch in the near future.
It's so very difficult for a newbie to break into any established group, so we'll be reading this thread again when we get back from our weekend away - and maybe asking more questions about what to do lol
It's so very difficult for a newbie to break into any established group, so we'll be reading this thread again when we get back from our weekend away - and maybe asking more questions about what to do lol
Well, we’ve been lurking long enough now and we’ve decided that we’re going to come in out the cold and introduce ourselves a bit more and hopefully go to a munch and chams in the near future.
As total newbies to the munch scene, and chams, any advice etc is greatly appreciated – we know that everyone on here is friendly, and its this that has made us decide to finally emerge out of our little shell and come out to finally meet and greet. However, it is scary for us newbies – so bear with us ay lol
A+D
As total newbies to the munch scene, and chams, any advice etc is greatly appreciated – we know that everyone on here is friendly, and its this that has made us decide to finally emerge out of our little shell and come out to finally meet and greet. However, it is scary for us newbies – so bear with us ay lol
A+D
cheers folks - I can see the problem of being the only woman in the place could be rather .. err overwhelming to say the least lol.
believe it or not, but the wife is rather shy of new places but we still fancy giving it a go - we'd thought of or Foxy Lady, any tips advice etc on what it's like inside etc and things to be careful of - greatfully appreciated.
believe it or not, but the wife is rather shy of new places but we still fancy giving it a go - we'd thought of or Foxy Lady, any tips advice etc on what it's like inside etc and things to be careful of - greatfully appreciated.
years ago - we used to go to a cinema showing porn films - and we'd have a good time. But, there seems to be little talk about the modern cinema and what's the better ones to visit.
we used to go to in Brum, they had a couples only lounge and a 'anyone' lounge. Funnily enough, it was never packed out and this meant a relaxing atmosphere and some excellent 'cuddling' times - we've also had some rather excellent voyeur times, both watching and being watched.
For one reson or another, we've not been to one for years, do they still hold the attraction for attending that they once did?
So, what do others think? Are they still worth visiting, how off-putting are they? Or are they really friendly to the couples who may decide to visit them.
And yes, we are thinking of taking a trip out one day to see if we can re-kindle the fun we had in pre-dvd days lol.
we used to go to in Brum, they had a couples only lounge and a 'anyone' lounge. Funnily enough, it was never packed out and this meant a relaxing atmosphere and some excellent 'cuddling' times - we've also had some rather excellent voyeur times, both watching and being watched.
For one reson or another, we've not been to one for years, do they still hold the attraction for attending that they once did?
So, what do others think? Are they still worth visiting, how off-putting are they? Or are they really friendly to the couples who may decide to visit them.
And yes, we are thinking of taking a trip out one day to see if we can re-kindle the fun we had in pre-dvd days lol.
