Whip's it is good that you have found some one that you can have the confidance to share and live out your fantasies,some thing like this can only work properly with some one that know's you and your need's, that is one reason I prefer to play long term with my partners and not just one off's, planing and total trust are the key to success.
sorting a calor gas heater for the back of that bloody van :twisted:
If most are honest, I think most young lads have tried the tooth paste one at that age, all you think about is your next wank, and how to make it better, and every cupboard in the house get raided, along with most item's of clothing for added texture, but some years back I used to run night club doors and one night, one of the lads rang up and cried off work, his reason, wait for it,,,, was himself and his wife had been experimenting and she had put on a pair of marigold glove's and wanked him off with a bunch of nettle's, now even now I like to self indulge but I draw the line at nettle's.
It's only take three and a half years to get to this point in this thread so Im sure there will be much more to be said on the subject yet, how ever thankyou for the kind word's also Splendid. I don't see it as brave, but honest, no doubt some one some where will be chuntering through gritted teeth, and sooner or later will come back with some thing, but I afraid I stand firm this about two grow up people having fun, and not a serious diabolical act of hate and deprivation.
Bite, you have hit the nail right on the head, some thing I have preached for many years is that the submissive partner is the on in control at all time's, they set the limits, they give themselves to you in order that you can play your role, we as Dom's never take any thing, no matter how it may look to the outside world, we must work with what we are given, and with that sevitude offered and our trust returned there is no reason on earth why two consenting adult's can not live out any fantasy they can come up with,remember play safe play controled, and boundaries are not there to guide, but they are there to be pushed, only you and your partner should be the ones to set them NO ONE ELSE.
And Im so glad I missed out on that one, isn't that right Penfold, Penfold what you doing, get out of them stock's
Yes there as to be an element of fear in the role play it wouldn't work if it was all smiley, but that is where trust come's into play as with any sub Dom play, you need to know as the "played victim" that although you have the fear of the unknowen,that there will be nothing happening that you have already agreed to, and yes ground rules must be laied and stuck to, and ofcourse a safe word,but that fear of the unknowen and surprise of any thing that happens only highten's the play.
As for the name of the fantasy, people will always take the easy route and it's a term every one know's and roll's of the tongue, so Im sure will continue to be used, by the time you ask a guy to play out a loss of contrll fantasy, and he say's what's that, you explain, he as lost his hard on and any intrest, he may have had,now say I want to live out a fantasy, every one know's where they stand. At the end of the day it's a name, it's a game, not a reality.
Over the last couple of days I have read this thread,there are obviously two definate camp's here, but the main problem seem's to be the word " " being used in the fantasy, as you can guess from my name Im a dominate male, this dose not mean to say I can not make love, or be gentle and caring, some thing I have no problems with, now over the years both on swinging site's, BDSM site's, and in general life outside in the big wide world, I have been asked many time's to help out with , no loss of control fantasies, now the reality of , like everone else is no turn on what so ever, as roleplay, I have found women form all walks of life do enjoy having controll taken from them, and some of them really forcfully with very few limit's, some of them feel ashamed of the fact that this kind of thing turn's then on, others who are confident with themselves have no problem at all with it, and that's the way it should be, after all we have all heard of far worse fantasies.
I have as I say played this kind of fantasy in many form's over this time, from breaking into some one's home to kidnap ect. ect. ect. I could fill a book, as for the number of men happy to carry out such a fantasy, that is some thing I have never before now thought about, but I also have had a number of couple's come to me to play in the dungeon because the husband say's he can not doninate and beat his own wife, so may be there are men out there who would run a mile if asked to preform such a thing.
At the end of the day this fantasy is being acted out by two consenting adult's in private, and no one is getting hurt, well not unless they want to be, many time's I have questioned the act of this fantasy in my own head,and feel if a woman has controll removed from herself it helps in some case's to have all guilt/responsabilty removed from them, in the same way as if they were restrained in a BDSM scenario, once the controll is handed over to another they feel free to enjoy what ever come's, so yes I have found it to be a common fantasy among women, but can understand why some men would have a problem with it, after all as young men we are programed to look after the women in our live's.
Don't know really,,,, let me think
It's -2 outside freezing cold and I have just spent some excellent time having fun in the back of a works van outside a country pub, did I enjoy the cold, NO. have I got a smile on my face, YES,
If Iam chatting on MSN, then all else stop's, I feel it is only good manners, after all I wouldn't talk on the phone to someong then go and do something else and ask them to wait around till I come back, but that's just me.
For a hot and steamy hard fuck
for a slow passionant lovemaking warm glow time
or most of the UB 40 slow tracks
Yes but being a tart it won't a normal welly it would have to be a royal hunter at lest, but better a Le Chameau
Putting the finishing touches to a double sided St Andrews cross, knowing what I have in store for it, thats not a smile it's a very wide smile :twisted:
Well Trigg, none of us men are going to disagree with any thing you have said there, my last fond memory is of a lady on saturday night straped into my St Andrews cross, in a beautiful pair of heels and not much else, she looked exquisite, a sight to behold, I don't need to know what it is that attracts us to them, or why they look so good, just that they are always going to be there. :twisted:
Well Trigg, none of us men are going to disagree with any thing you have said there, my last fond memory is of a lady on saturday night straped into my St Andrews cross, in a beautiful pair of heels and not much else, she looked exquisite, a sight to behold, I don't need to know what it is that attracts us to them, or why they look so good, just that they are always going to be there. :twisted:
If I was in a remote place I would be happy to hump a knotty branch, but when I get to chose well!!!!
this smile should be here for the rest of the day 
