We have just joined the site :smitten: and are wondering if some of the more experienced members could help with explaining what are the do’s and don’t We’ve read a good few ads and have picked up a couple of pointers e.g no random friend requests, winks etc. We also have clearly defined within our ad what we like as well. We also understand that there is a HIGH percentage of gentlemen on here as to be expected We’re not too keen yet on the club scene as we also don’t know what to expect :eeek: Is it a case of looking at ads sending messages and just getting to know people via the forum and chat rooms ? I understand this question may have been asked 100's of times and apologies if we sound like a broken record
Speaking as a “newbie” couple , I cannot understand this question either it’s a bit like asking how many people do you know it maybe they are trying to “break the ice” but there’s better ways , I mean would you walk up to a stranger and ask “how many people have you slept with” :doh:
The reason we’ve joined (hello everyone ) is because my partner (the Mrs) has wanted to try it for a long time and we’ve been recommended this site by a couple who are already members on here. We feel that if your strong enough in your relationship then there’s no issue because we are not making love to the third person we are fulfilling “an itch” It actually makes us realise how much we do love each other and how strong we are. We’ve discussed it for a long time and we both want to try it……..so we’ve joined the site and now we’re excided about getting to know a few people on here and if we “get down to it” and we’re not ready then at least we can say we tried and didn’t sit there thinking what if