Well done Sassy, I just hope there is no backlash from some human rights lawyer claiming youve scared them for life and deprived them of something
I guess we all know the ethos of swinging is share and share alike without emotional attachment, but have you ever met someone who you feel so strongly about you cant possibly share them with someone else?
If so, what did you/are you doing about it?
Do you throw caution to the wind and get involved knowing your probably going to get hurt or do you stay well away?
I cant possibly comment Maz, its not something thats part of my single life and as a romantic who is denied the pleasure of partaking, I dont even wish to be reminded of Valentines day, it just rubs my nose in it.
You lucky people who have a loved one, cherrish it
I was the ultimate tomboy
Did the rugby, shooting, fishing, skydiving, diving, welding, (years before irene Cara in Flashdance) didnt shag my first bloke till 4.5 yrs ago, didnt have a period till I was 17, several yrs after i first drove a JCB, got my HGV at 21, always wore tight tops, jeans and boots. Sensible m&s boring cotton knix. Ive still got size 10 waist, pert ass and perky tits
Now im an engineer, i can beat quite a few guys at work armwrestling, prefer pints to halfs, hate shopping and sadly i want a lot more sex than im getting, so I try not to want it but the urge is there and driving me mad
I do have occasional attempts at being totally girly and patheticaly useless but good old practical me shows through.
I have an ex gf who is such a bloke i thought she was a trannie the first time i met her, yet shes so sexually sensual, im still smitten with her and she drives men and women wild.
We are all individuals, so never judge a book by the graffiti on the cover
Over the years as a single girl ive had many offers from well off men who quite frankly have little to offer other than a small fortune and ive always turned them down.
Ive got my own money and it may not be as much as they were offering buy its mine with no strings attached.
Money cant buy what i want, so why try, and if it could be bought it wouldnt be worth having.
If you watch the opening scene in the first Bridget jones film where the taxi takes her to the parents home in the snow, the driver is an ex of mine.
His mate asked if Rich wanted a few days work and he had to use his own car.
The reason i knew this is i asked him what all the mess was in the back of the car and he said it was artificial snow.
Rich and Rennee sat in the car all day waiting to do several takes and Rich didnt know who she was so they sat in silence
By the way, yes i shagged him in the back of that grey cavalier just to i could say i did it where Rennee had been sitting
I have and still do meet a single guy on my own at his place.
I use gut instinct in the pub or meeting place first to judge whether i not only fancy him but whether i feel safe and that i can trust him.
The bottom line is, ....if he does something to me against my wishes then he is dead meat
I think we all understand the question and know the answer.
It doesnt matter if we think its right and proper or not, this is real life and this is how its done
France already have, next scotland, just kicked off and wales tomorrow
Prefer uncut, but there again what the hell would i know? ive only sampled 12 in total, i think?
At the end of the day 99% of swingers want single bi fems, couples want them, men want them and other women want them
In that case........fking call me PLEASE
Oh yeah, and i hate the illiterate jerks who use text talk when they have the luxury of a proper keyboard in front of them and could type it out in full English
Im not impressed with bad spelling and punctuation and think its a real shame if someone cant master their own mother tongue.
One liners from kids are a no no
'hi babe, wot u doin?" or "u ok?"
im starting to sound like some of the peeps from grumpy old men and women, but I know they are right
These are basic standards which most of us grew up with and by which we judge others, ........rightly or wrongly, they give me a good head start in knowing where I stand with someone.
Im on my soap box now, ive had a few gins, come home from a hard day at work, had exams all day, ..pass mark- 100%.....I passed with 100%
Bad breath, spitting, dirty fingernails, greasy hair and copious body hair
And thats just women, ......god knows about men !!!
Well I do seem to be outgrowing mine at the moment
Its not easy getting a quart into a pint pot or in my case 34DD into a 34D and expect them to stay in all day, im comfort without trying to make a break for it whilst bending over, and its always when some one is watching
Coming from a gay background where peeps are catagorised by sexuality, i find it funni to think straight peeps here also catagorise by vanilla and swinging
So the lady is vanilla, it doesnt mean she is celibate, she might be horny too but you cant just jump in and say fancy a shag, you have to go through the time honoured vanilla fashion of "courting' till you get a green light
im wetting myself thinking about all this.....its new rules for a new situation
Its a little outside the january window of oppotunity but my first long term relationship of 10 yrs split up 17 yrs ago next week.
We had argued all over new yr but held things together through january.
I guess its all psychological. As the song says, "summer time, and the living is easy"
That proves it
I just posted...........Is it personal.........and this proves it
Am I imagaining it or are my posts being locked deliberately?
Once on Saturday night and again just now I wrote a post and hit the submit button only to see the message....this post has been locked
Cant see that I was posting anything controversial or offensive, so why the block?
