What food, drink or situations cause you to dream and can you remember them clearly afterwards? What do you dream about?
OK, so the consensus is privacy.
So why is there such a strong feeling in Britain against a section of society covering their faces when they go out in public.
Surely they are entitled to privacy too?
Gemini..........are you open to eveyone about your membership here or do you just keep it to the people that you know you can trust?
Yes im open, i tell some who might be interested in swinging and im happy to admit to others if they were to ask.
I wonder what the percentage of swingers to adulterers is?, both are flip sides of the same coin?, yet adultery goes on in much higer numbers, so why would anyone want to condemn a self confesed swinger?
Now that i seem to have a reputation for being controversial (unintentionally i might add), lets see what you all make of this:
ive been in the chat rooms for a few weeks now and noticed that the majority or people set the cam angle so their faces cant be seen.
I think its amusing that people have no inhibitions with showing the most private of body parts and sexual actions yet wont show a face.
In the animal kingdom, the primates/humans are different to all other species because of our facial expressions and the importance they have on communication, hence the opposition to muslim women wearing a full veil.
Humans are also fairly unusual in as much its the female of the species who puts on a show by the use of makeup and clothing where as with animals its the male who has the bright plumage
Why? Wheres the shame of showing your face? Sex isnt dirty, neither is keeping company with others, and as a mate used to say, if your doing something you cant tell others about, you shouldnt be doing it.
In my experience as an employer, some young people are unemployable because they havent been shown how to behave responsibly, how to get up for work, how to stay focused on a full days work, how to conduct themselves at work.
Im sure this is a generation problem, maybe Thatcher is to blame, maybe it was her "greed" get rich quick culture thats made some youngsters now shy away from traditional work.
Dont you hear the reports from the CBI stating that even young people with degrees now days dont have the first clue how to communicate effectivly, how to time manage, how to behave in public? They have all the gear and no idea
Yes kids want jobs, but many arnt ready for work, and as Prince Charles controversially said, we cant all be celebs. Hes right, there arnt enough Posh and Becks type lifestyles out there, some of us HAVE to sweep the sreets, wipe the asses in old folks homes, wait tables etc. And thank God some good people do these less than glam jobs or were all in the shit and society breaks down
Just to come full circle, this is some of what I wrote, so ive no idea how the post got hijacked into sending teenagers to war, giving them guns, asking them to shoot kiddies in the back, soldiers and shooting civillians?
Is it time for some form of National Service in modern Britain?
Do we need a compulsory national service type "finishing school" for teenagers who need educating, guiding and moulding into shape by valued role models?
I wasnt thinking of national service in the 1950's sense of the word, but certainly some compulsary personal training to instill all the good qualities that seem to be lacking in majority of the youth of today.
The original topic was to ask if some form of national service was needed. As pointed out, this could be in the form of community service. Either way, the important basis should be to teach acceptable behavior, respect for self and others, responsibility, duty and to enable young people to have a better start in life.
It could be paid for by central government. the cost of arson, drugs, crime, lawlessness, etc is huge not to mention the cost in people terms to both offenders and victims alike.
Oh the police must realy love taking women into custody with bags like these. Can you imagain having to catalogue every item before getting the owner to sign.
Tabboo subject................your not here to settle down, its a swinging isnt it?
My first post was to ask if anyone finds love here and i was slagged off for suggesting such a thing.
Is it a vanilla subject?
Well Darkfire, no matter how angry inside i am and whotever i write here, i havent been rude or lost my temper with the kid, ..his mate however got an earfull and with good reason. Ive just been downstairs to tell another door banger to bugger off. For all i know, the kid is a drug dealer, hes only been here 68 hours and his druggie mates are calling. JB and I have just got over the hassle at xmas.
Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh LP, ive come over all feint now, what with those eyes and your stern manner
Can we play drill and manoveres later?
Most of my "men" have been military. I dont conciously check to see if hes military before i decide to manouver......( a man chases a woman till she catches him), but i guess the way they behave attracts me and its all because of the training and discipline.
I wasnt thinking of national service in the 1950's sense of the word, but certainly some compulsary personal training to instill all the good qualities that seem to be lacking in majority of the youth of today.
I was raging inside but didnt blow my top. I remembered how my step dad would handle the situation and applied accordingly. As much as i hated step dad, he taught me, ....through beating and punishment....how to behave and do the right thing. Well there is a right and wrong way to do things, he was wrong, but same end result.
Im not advocating beating and harsh treatment unless its a last resort with the real hard nuts who cant learn any other way.
I treated the kid as an adult, asked for his help with "our" problem, and made it clear though superior attitude and posturing that he had to find the solution.
I had hoped he would see the importance of acting resposibly, but when he pissed on the seat this morning, i knew the lesson wasnt learned, so the stick has come out and ive evicted him.
Is it time for some form of National Service in modern Britain?
I live in a shared house. Ive shared with JB, a 30 yr old single guy, a reformed bad boy whos now found God and changed his ways. Hes quiet, respectful and good company.
On Wednesday, all hell let loose when the landlord moved 2 kids in. Shes late teens, sheepish, hes late teens, cropped hair, gelled down, pasty white skin, constantly sniffing no doubt due to his sinuses rebelling at the nicotene cloud he lives in and looks shifty. ( yes im sounding like my mum i kno)
First the stench of nicotene, the loudess of music, the constant bumping of walls, stamp stamp stamp up and down stairs at all hours, then finding the front door unlocked at all hours, the mess left in the kitchen.
Last night i had not long got in from work, just logged on to here actually, sat reading and WTF. I thought the front door was coming off the hinges. I looked out the window and some spotty faced kid with a tin of beer was bashing down the front door. I settled back into reading mail and the noise continued. I snapped and went down stairs in my tee shirt and knix, opened the unlocked door and told the kid to fk off, he started pulling faces and i stepped out into the road and told him to run while he could, ....and he did. Man over the road looking through curtians was impressed!!
I went down stairs for a wee at 7ish to find a big lump of green snot on the tiolet seat. Stormed up to the kids room and asked for some of his time, marched him down and asked him to identify the lump on the seat. Mumbled grunts followed, and he cleaned it off, appologied and swore it wouldnt happen again.
I later went out to get a take away, ....door unlocked, so i locked it, went up road, came back 10 mins later, ......door unlocked again. Deep breath, dont over react Amy.
Went to the loo at 8 this morning and checked the loo seat before sitting, .... dirty little **** has pissed all over it. The kitchen is trashed, washing up left, a lump of cheese on the floor, the bin stinks of fag ends.
Just called landlord, said i wasnt paying rent for every day the kid is in the house, explained why and he said 'OH no, we had to give him a chance but i will move him out today"
It seems the kid has a history and clearly doesnt know how to live in civilised company.
Whos fault is this?, i know hes got a dad, possibly a mum too, so why is he a wild animal.
Yeah, i know some of you are parents of teenagers and your going to say they can be a handful, but im sure they dont behave like this?
Do we need a compulsory national service type "finishing school" for teenagers who need educating, guiding and moulding into shape by valued role models?
I dont use a handbag unless is a formal evening. I have my phone and wallet, and a pocket full of change. Whats In my wallet is another story but includes a condom, 2 bank cards, drivers license, Ceasars club membership card, ski lift passes from 8 yrs ago, passport photos, toothpick/floss, building trade cards, fluff, reciepts, and..............PAPER CASH
I think carrying a bag is an advert to mugers, it has been forgotten in the past and left behind and it gets in the way. Besides, where does one keep it while at work? Hang it on a nail? If im wearing a jacket, i keet it in an inside pocket, but it does spoil the shape of my size 10 ass
3 main injuries, an embolism after a diving accident has left me with a perforated lung and scar tissue wont heal, hence the cough, same ankle broken twice, once skydiving, once on site,( only injury after 143 freefall jumps) and 2 collapsed discs L3&4
Better to wear out than to rust out
All this talk of a bi fems "role" puts this image in my mind of a cross between a hooker/olympic athlete/ sex therapist whos on a mission to provide a night of unforgettable passion.
Is she expected to sleep all day before and fill up on carbs so shes awake and perky with lots of stamina? Does she then have to judge the moment to sneak out of the room and leave discretely so as not to disturb the couple?
To me, this is one stop from prostitution without the money passing hands
On my first and only so far club experience, i was in the club for 7 hours, most of that time playing and chilling with "my" couple and another couple who are friends of theirs.
Come 4am ish i got dressed and was saying my goodbyes when a guy said he had been watching me all night and it was such a pity we hadnt had time to chat.
FFS, if 7 hours isnt long enough for someone to say hi then what hope is there.
Over the yrs ive joined several dating agencies and had a date arranged with well over 60 men. Many stood me up, some turned up, pissed to the eyeballs for dutch courage and some turned up innapropriately dressed- stinking dirty clothes straight from work or dressed over the top for a pub.
A fair few were sober and well presented but were like frightened rabbits in the headlights, some had nothing to talkabout, one guy brought his 11 yr old daughter cos he couldnt get a babysitter, some wanted counselling and talked all night about the ex wife.
Its a lottery, but not helped by men who loose their bottle.
Just cos its a man, dont go thinking hes a confident man about town or Swiss Tony.
Now theres an oxymoron
Jaymar, when did many people have COMMON sense?
Its very UN common
But to those of us who have a conscience , a heart, and are aware of our surroundings its the natural thing to do
I still get dozens of messages from single men, i still get wispers, even when i blow my top and bollock them, so i guess THEY are the types who treat SBF's in this shameful way. Selfish, ignorant and pathetic