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Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Male, 68
Straight Female, 68
0 miles · Surrey

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Quote by Mike2mike
The subject of introducing a single male into our playtime has been a serious discussion point between Lily and I. We looked at our experiences with single males on the scene, not just how they were with us but how they acted with our friends, their behaviour at clubs, parties and their online attitude when we used to accept mail from them. Pretty much all our recollections were negative. After weighing up our options we decided that adding a lone male to our relationship was unecessary on account that I am fucking awesome at everything.

:laughabove: Mike the Awesome!!!!! worship
I'll remember that. lol
Quote by BIoke
It was around December 2005 that the site went commercial - anyone who joined before this should have a free account I thought? I know because I deleted mine like a dunce so pay for this one smile
You'll pay for Extras though which I see you have but all other aspects should be free to you.

16th November 2005 to be precise lol
So, that means on the 16th November this year it's the 5th birthday!! Let's have a PARTY!!!! :bounce:
Raise a glass to the memory of Mark, celebrate the success of St3v3, Madmax and the crew @ SH Towers.. drinkies :cheers: :beer:
It's all down to 'Mojo' - sometimes he wants to come out and play, sometimes he's too busy scoffing a cream cake.... lol
Quote by Kaznkev
sorry st3v3 n crew...i aint puttin the moccas on it or nothing...........
but the bit about it`s as fast as yr pc can handle.........can some wizz kid pop in n make our all singin dancin pc work!!!!!!!!!!!!!!promise......no funny business till its fixed..............
:twisted: :twisted:

One of the issues with the current version of chat is that its based on a flash application on your PC which has to communicate constantly with our servers, any disruption can cause disconnection issues, not to mention the affect that some firewalls can have, also we have not been able to add any new features due to this unstable nature.
So whilst the new chatroom will be similar in many ways it has been written in a different language to allow us to add things later on such as the ability to block certain people from whispering, this will come after we are satisfied that its stable for everyone. Flash will still be used to display the cams, but everything else will not rely on flash, so if a person has an issue running flash only the cams will stop, everything else should still work.
The cams can be set to display pretty much as they are at the moment, but there's options to make them bigger and better resolution which will work ok if your PC is up to it and if your connection allows it, also the connection of the person on cam could limit the quality of the display, but when connections allow it should be a whole lot better.
The pop out is an option, the cams can either be viewed in line as there are at the moment, or popped out and moved around, it should be handy for some with large monitors.
There's a fair amount of testing needed yet and we will be seeking feedback to make it as good as possible.
is this why when i try to expand the screen it sometimes does that bloody adobe script error?
The 'work around' for this is to Clear Chat before re-sizingthe chat window. It works 99% of the time.
It's not what you've got - it's how you use it that counts!!:giggle:
So anyone with a VVVWE and the girth of a mature Oak Tree and knows how to use it - drop us a mail.... rotflmao
Quote by Steve
Just been browsing the profiles and saw a profile stating that if you have no SHREP activated and no feedback dont bother contacting me....
Looks like the rot is setting in ....

If that's how they want to use it - so be it! Plenty of others to choose from..dunno
Quote by Geordiecpl2001
Think Carlsberg already did.........It's called Fun4two, but the stupid Danes built it in Holland instead of the N.E. of England.
John & Shel

WKD :thumbup:
Aww Guv,
Our deepest sympathies. :therethere:
Winston was a great character and will be sadly missed.. :angel:
B&A xxxx
A hard one to try and explain, so here goes..
Depending on your search criteria, the saved search searches the member database at the frequency you've set (daily / 72hrs etc) and will send you an email to your external email address if any 'new' members meet the criteria you've set. If there are no new members meeting the criteria then no email.
eg. If you saved the 'default' search engine criteria and set the notification at 24hours then you should get an email with all 'new' members that joined in the last 24 hours...
Don't know of any 'Swingers Clubs' that are open but you could try Kestrels or Rio's - details in the Clubs section....
Well yet again another let-down (although not unexpected!).
No doubt the FA inqust will blame the ball, the grass, the sun, the ref, FIFA, the bus driver to the stadium, the fans and anyone else they can think of.
Having just watched a number of the 'players' saying we 'played well', 'were in control of the game' etc., one wonders where they were playing, obviously not Bloemfontain...
Against the USA, we were 'nervous' (understandable nobody wants to loose the 1st match), nearly everyone but the Germans / Argentinians and Brazilians looked 'jittery' in the 1st round. The second round - WE WERE APPALING - no excuses can / will / were / are acceptable for that performance against the Algerians. 3rd Round and a 1-0 win againsts another 'weaker' team and one does really have to call into question the Manager's tactics and the single dimension on a 4-4-2. Tactically 'inept' at this level of the game?
One thing I have noticed though, is the total lack of any FA 'big wigs' facing the media - usually you can't get rid of them appearing on-screen when we're doing 'well'. so they'll come back, sack the manager, blame the ref's decision on Lamp's goal being a 'turning-point', retire a few players from 'internationals' appoint another 'wally' to take the heat and retire to the inner sanctum of the FA for a stiff Brandy and a Cigar and congratulate themselves on yet another job 'well-done'.
Well that's the Dutch for you!! Of course the British would never be that promiscuous. lol
One of our good friends on the site went to leave us a SHrep (SiteRep), unfortuately, she checked the 'negative' instead of the 'positive' box..... smackbottom
As our SHrep are automatically added it went straight onto our profile and we now have
THE RED BADGE OF SHame :scared::upset::violin::giveup:
We can't delete it - she can't edit it........
Now feel like a site 'lepper' - oh the shame of it, I'll have to walk the streets with a bag over my head, I'll be banned from Tesco's let alone having our Swinging club memberships withdrawn, no more cozy nights in the Chatrooms. - life as we know it has ENDED!!!
:doh:
UPDATE:
Now reset to GREEN - life returns to normal, Tesco's here we come! lol
Our Council Chief Executive will still be earning more than Prime Minister!!
Our Council Tax is now FROZEN AS THE HIGHEST IN THE COUNTRY for 2 more years.....
Our roads are shite...
Our Services are crap....The bin b'stard's still can't put the damm thing back on the drive after they've emptied them!
We'll still be paying for 'hobby-bobbies' rather than 'real' plod....
Nope - they're still rubbish!
1 goal against one of the weakest teams in the tournament - still more questions than answers.
OK, we won, we should have won by more ( a lot more)
OK, we've qualified for the next round ( in 2nd place by only scoring a total of 2 goals)
I've known IVF couples fire less 'blanks'!
So next we face the old enemy - the Germans
Therefore my prediction for Sunday is:-
Full time 1-1 - England loose 5-4 on penalties!!!! lol
Quote by essex34m
Although when the anal lube's run-out one might have to resort - I think we should consult B1oke on this...... lol

According to one person here, engine oil is not a bad substitute.....
Wonders if WD-40 has the same effect.......? :evil2:
Quote by tweeky
Without quoting anyone else or the rules it seems quite obvious that there is a gap.
I as some above envisage the meet rep to be intended for people who meet up for a sexual encounter rather than a social. However I also feel those who attend a social or munch should be given something more than just a vouch when vouches dont even rely on face to face meetings. The easy answer is shrep needs a new section for event attendee's dunno Leave it to the organizer should they wish to confirm whom attended and attendees can get an event attended badge lol No feedback just confirmed events attended 5 for example.
Just an idea.

A 'meet' is a 'meet' it does not necessarily have to be a sexual encounter.
If this is the case - what if you arrange a first meet purely to see if you 'gell' with that person/couple...... does this not 'count' as a Meet? Or, you turn up but then have second thoughts later in the evening...... does this not count as a meet? What if it's a party - u may attend but not shag everyone there.... does that not count as a meet?
When we hold socials or parties in the future (as the organisers) we will send Meetrep's to those attending (and have SHrep active), so that they can have the benefit of a positive feedback if they attend or a negative one if they don't...
We're not worried about someone's performance in the sack - but I do get royally pee'd off at people who don't show and don't have the decency to send their apologies before hand - if they do then I delete them from the Meetrep.
Ewwww - with you on that one Tweeky - gross a real turn-off...
Although when the anal lube's run-out one might have to resort - I think we should consult B1oke on this...... lol
And maybe Brucie - he was dribbling on women on the tube this morning.... :lol:
Quote by tweeky
We're going camping at the weekend :bounce: and there are about 80 people off this site going. I've been talking to the organiser about creating a meet for a shep but we're unsure how to do it.
Do we all have to create a meet for everyone going or can just one person create the meet and then everyone can do a meet rep about everyone else after the weekend?
Can anyone advise please??

Not sure at all but the way I understood it from that you would vouch for people rather than do it by the meet rep dunno Was thinking along similar lines for the munch.
Think I need to swat up on this whole thing.
Go to SHrep > SHrep Home > Create Meet (tab) > put the date and time of your meet/munch/social/party > add members as required (as soon as u add the first one another line will be created for the next username > when finished 'CREATE' and the meeting mails will be sent to all provided they have SHrep 'active' for them to accept.
Once they have acceted the meet it's placed in their calendar - once the date has been reached you will get a system request asking for your 'feedback'.
RED CARDS:
two-4-more word did not follow previous.
fluff_n_stuff word already used.
The Rules:
The word must have a sexual connection.
The word can be OED or 'slang'
Once a word has been used, it cannot be used again.
The next post must start with the last letter of the preceeding post.
e.g.
PRICK the next post must start with the last letter of the preceeding post.
Knickers
so, away you go......
Next post a sexual word starting with ..... S
Be it Football, Rugby, Cricket, Tennis or Athletics, it seems that we always big-up the National Teams in the big events.
The ‘fervour’ built-up by the media, the marketing hype bods, the expectation of the population – does it create an unreasonable pressure ‘to perform’ in front of the camera?
Contrast this by some ‘minor’ sports where Team England get very little ‘media’ coverage and we have world-champions (e.g. Real Tennis, Stock Car Racing etc). Never in the ‘limelight’ but always deliver the goods time after time.
Or…
Do we have a ‘right’ to EXPECT Team England to do its Duty and win everything?
Some may take the view-point that the vast amounts of money put into these teams by both Sport England, big business and the ‘fans’ gives us the right to expect that at every event we are at the least ‘Finalists’….
Let the debate begin.....
The Sun's headline for tomorrow morning:-
CRAP-HELL-O!
lol
for those wanting to hide their England association now this may be the safest place in Britain to watch football:-

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