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HJ
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 122
0 miles · West Midlands
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Orgasminator
Yes it is !!!!!
But you have to work at it – forum postings, chatrooms, socials ….. Make sure that people know you as much as possible. Perhaps expand on your profile to show your other interests, because very few women on here are interested in ONLY sex – they usually like to know a little more about you as a person.
There is a lot of competition – in what way do you stand head & shoulders above the rest ?? – find out and then make sure it shows !!!
Basically, do all the usual things advised for single guys on here and don’t give up hope.
Orgasminator
Some people like to let others know their business, sometimes to the point of displaying their meets on cam. Some are more private. As long as all parties are happy for everyone to know who and when they meet I don't have a problem, but if it's just one half of the equation saying "Oh I met xxxxx last night" I consider that totally out of order.
Orgasminator
(Giving away my age lol) I was just 15 when they first made the charts here and wow did they make an impression -- I got a "reel-to-reel" tape copy of their Hamburg gigs and played it to death ( yeah - file-sharing was around then too lol) Favourite track "things we said today" off the "Hard Days Night" album....
Orgasminator
The reason there are so few serious comments Lrgck9 is that the topic has been done to death so many times, along with the "validation" issue, that it really isn't newsworthy any more. Admin have clearly stated their position that they are NOT going to do it, so end of story really !!!
Orgasminator
If you have a hundred friends and a house that can only hold thirty, someone is bound to be disappointed !! Its not something to get heated about if you don't get invited - you just learn to live with it and hope there will be an invite another time. If you really wanted to you could make an entire career out of moaning about the parties you weren't invited to, but hey get a life -- this one's too short to waste on grumbling !!
Orgasminator
Google is good, but I mostly use Copernic Agent Basic - - It has the advantage that it stores your searches so you can come back to them later and also orders the results in what it thinks is the most effective order. You don't need to make it the default search engine, or download the toolbar - just have it as a desktop icon, and set it up to open a new window for the results -- that way it doesn't "take over" your browser.
Orgasminator
Yes indeedMods edit - please do not advertise other sites -- but the chatroom is pretty poor by comparison to SH, and from the point of view of downtime, SH has been fairly good of late -- if you joined in May Kay, this is probably the first real problem you have encountered. Be patient -- its worth it.....
Orgasminator
(with a resigned chuckle) – I have the same problem – I’ve certainly had more invitations from bi guys than from women, especially in chatroom whispers!
…….. half of me takes it as a compliment that they'd be interested and half of me thinks why can't they read? - H.x
I agree H-x, but I do get a little confused when I get attention from a guy with “straight” on his profile !!!
…….. half of me takes it as a compliment that they'd be interested and half of me thinks why can't they read? - H.x
I agree H-x, but I do get a little confused when I get attention from a guy with “straight” on his profile !!!
Orgasminator
Because he’s the son of Oswald Mosely who was a brit who openly supported Hitler in 1939 and organized Nazi "brownshirt" rallies in Trafagar Square on the outbreak of WW2, Max Mosley was always going to be a tabloid target. Because of the family connection it’s the Nazi angle that is contentious and the BDSM issue is really just “icing the cake”
