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Heather
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 60
Straight Male, 77
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The pic you want to add to your ad needs to be located on your computer. When you click to attach a photo to your ad, the software asks you for the location of the pic on your hard drive or floppy...
You can't create an ad via email - it has to be done whilst online and hooked up to the site.
That's about all I can tell you, Russell..
You can't create an ad via email - it has to be done whilst online and hooked up to the site.
That's about all I can tell you, Russell..
Ooh! :shock:
Mind you... you can never judge a book by it's cover - now where have I heard that one before this week?
Cheer up, Helen. I know it's not nice but having seen some of the filth that gets directed at me in 'Mod' mode sometimes when people are not thinking straight, all I can say is he'll soon realise what a dork he's been and apologise.
Mind you... you can never judge a book by it's cover - now where have I heard that one before this week?
Cheer up, Helen. I know it's not nice but having seen some of the filth that gets directed at me in 'Mod' mode sometimes when people are not thinking straight, all I can say is he'll soon realise what a dork he's been and apologise.
... this is a picture of Barry, my baby duck.
Hosty lives near a nature reserve and one morning we spotted Barry's mum sitting on her nest while on our morning stroll. Over the next week, Hosty visited the nest every morning and this pic was taken when Barry went for his first swim.
Barry and his sister, Helena, are both doing well but are very shy and not used to humans. We have to be very quiet and only get to see them now and again... But I still love him all the same...
It's like being a grandmum!
Hosty lives near a nature reserve and one morning we spotted Barry's mum sitting on her nest while on our morning stroll. Over the next week, Hosty visited the nest every morning and this pic was taken when Barry went for his first swim.
Barry and his sister, Helena, are both doing well but are very shy and not used to humans. We have to be very quiet and only get to see them now and again... But I still love him all the same...
It's like being a grandmum!
Inspired by a link Lucifer left, it made me ponder the following...
Outdoorfun, aka, The Kent Host and I have been 'seeing each other' for nearly five months now. We talk on the phone at least twice a day and spend as much time together as is practical... and we STILL haven't had a tiff - not even a minor misunderstanding - not even when I shower his bathroom floor with talc, or forget to put the milk back in the fridge or when he throws his arm across me when he's asleep and nearly knocks me out of the bed.
Is there something wrong..? Am I some kind of deviant?
Outdoorfun, aka, The Kent Host and I have been 'seeing each other' for nearly five months now. We talk on the phone at least twice a day and spend as much time together as is practical... and we STILL haven't had a tiff - not even a minor misunderstanding - not even when I shower his bathroom floor with talc, or forget to put the milk back in the fridge or when he throws his arm across me when he's asleep and nearly knocks me out of the bed.
Is there something wrong..? Am I some kind of deviant?
:shock: :shock: :happy:So, have my actions been vindicated, then?
You wanted a debate, you got a debate - of sorts - and in the process have been subjected to a plethora of opinions; most of which dissagree with you and are quite vocal. But then, I could have told you all this from the start. Been playing this game a long time, you see!
I think the bottom line in forming people's opinions - both from those you've met, and those you haven't met - is your lack of tact in asking for what you want. You've attended a party in someone elses home, accepted their hospitality, then turned around and announced that - for want of a better expression - most of the other attendees were all 'mingers'. And you were then Royally told, sometimes more eloquantly than others, that the world doesn't give a stuff about who you find attractive anymore than it does about who dings my donger.
So back to the start with you... and good luck. Can I suggest a reworded ad and a careful think about the impression gleaned from what you're saying?
Hxx
You wanted a debate, you got a debate - of sorts - and in the process have been subjected to a plethora of opinions; most of which dissagree with you and are quite vocal. But then, I could have told you all this from the start. Been playing this game a long time, you see!
I think the bottom line in forming people's opinions - both from those you've met, and those you haven't met - is your lack of tact in asking for what you want. You've attended a party in someone elses home, accepted their hospitality, then turned around and announced that - for want of a better expression - most of the other attendees were all 'mingers'. And you were then Royally told, sometimes more eloquantly than others, that the world doesn't give a stuff about who you find attractive anymore than it does about who dings my donger.
So back to the start with you... and good luck. Can I suggest a reworded ad and a careful think about the impression gleaned from what you're saying?
Hxx
Quote by ccr
It's curious to see that surreycouple wanted this thread unlocking in the other forum, but have yet to contribute to it now that it is open in here......
In fairness to them, they've had less than 24 hours to respond.
Perhaps you good folks can take a mo' and read back through this thread and perhaps you can begin to understand why I locked it before? It'll all end in tears... However, for the record, I will not be told when to lock, unlock or sticky a thread and neither will any other Mod - but you can always ask nicely just as Paulnsusie did.
We will not open certain people's minds to the fact a party, ANY PARTY, doesn't flow without a good mix of age, personality, looks and opinions. Who you take into the play room is your own affair, but not many of us wish to discuss Posh's latest hair do or the council latest traffic scheme with anyone the ENTIRE evening.
Do carry on with your mud pies!
The thread was locked because nothing new was being added to the debate and was only going to decend with yet more people climbing onto the bandwagon... and life's too short, frankly. You've stated you've found the peeps you're looking for, so good luck.
So by all mean open up a debate in the Cafe about what you're definition of beauty, etc. is... but this forum is for arranging meets.
Hxx
You've stated you've found the peeps you're looking for, so good luck.So by all mean open up a debate in the Cafe about what you're definition of beauty, etc. is... but this forum is for arranging meets.
Hxx
I am still ploughing on with my decorating, but I've come up with a Mondo notion to get the job done quicker...
I'm bribing my eldest's mates into a 'Wall paper stripping party' - I supply a few cans of bear and crisps, give 'em a scrapper and a bucket and get THEM to do it! Neat, eh?
The thought occurs I could also turn this into an Adult Party theme - make everyone take off their clothes, givem them a tin of paint and a brush and tell them to go for it... Well, some of it is bound to end up on the walls, isn't it?
Hxx
I'm bribing my eldest's mates into a 'Wall paper stripping party' - I supply a few cans of bear and crisps, give 'em a scrapper and a bucket and get THEM to do it! Neat, eh?
The thought occurs I could also turn this into an Adult Party theme - make everyone take off their clothes, givem them a tin of paint and a brush and tell them to go for it... Well, some of it is bound to end up on the walls, isn't it?
Hxx
Quote by Clare_Lincs
I know lots of big words, according to MissC
Personally, and I recognise my opinion is inevitably the result of a certain amount of subjectification, I do not believe my verbosity is unnecessarily multisyllabic.
Now can we dim people have that in Simple English please?
Yeah... Ice Pie says, he wouldn't know if he is talking big words or not, but he doesn't think he is...
Some folks seem to be confused as to what they want from this site, or what it's intentions are. So, a few questions for you guys...
Did you come here in the hope of finding a life partner?
Did you come here hoping NOT to find a life partner?
What would you do if you found yourself - quite by chance - teaming up with a person on a traditional swinging basis, then realising that the idea of a more commited relationship is the way you want to go?
I think it's worth time pondering these questions as we seem to have 'sparked off' a few 'relationships' via our merry band.
In short... what DO we want from Swinging Heaven?
Hxx
Did you come here in the hope of finding a life partner?
Did you come here hoping NOT to find a life partner?
What would you do if you found yourself - quite by chance - teaming up with a person on a traditional swinging basis, then realising that the idea of a more commited relationship is the way you want to go?
I think it's worth time pondering these questions as we seem to have 'sparked off' a few 'relationships' via our merry band.
In short... what DO we want from Swinging Heaven?
Hxx
Guys...
Sorry to dissapoint, but owing to a lot of grief (all of which should be fixed in couple of weeks or so), I'm going to have to bug out...
I shall be droping our host a line to apologise, and I feel bad about this - really I do. Hopefully, we should be able to get this on again after sometime in September.
Thanks to all those that wrote to me and replied via this thread.
Hxx
Sorry to dissapoint, but owing to a lot of grief (all of which should be fixed in couple of weeks or so), I'm going to have to bug out...
I shall be droping our host a line to apologise, and I feel bad about this - really I do. Hopefully, we should be able to get this on again after sometime in September.
Thanks to all those that wrote to me and replied via this thread.
Hxx
I am taking a break from the decorating (which I need to do because I'm trying to sell my Croydon house), to inform you guys why I'm being quiet...
As you know, my boyfriend lives near the lovely Kent coast and I've been spending more time sunning myself than is prudent.
On Sunday, we went to the nature reserve to check on our baby ducks - Barry and Helena - whom we have watched grow on an almost daily basis since they were hatched. Then, in the afternoon, we went on a lovely walk down to the local beach for a dip in the sea. (We won't mention Hosty taking us on a wrong turn that took us 30 mins out of our way. )
Then, after lazing among the sand dunes and gazing at the sky, we hiked back again and had beans on toast for tea. We then tried awfully hard to watch the telly but we were too knackered and turned in and sort of passed out each other's arms.
And do you know what...? We didn't even realise until breakfast we had been having so much fun, we clean forgot to have a shag... :shock: :shock:
Back to the decorating.... I don't suppose we have a decent Estate agent or conveyancy specialist among us, do we...? Or a decorator come to that...
Hxx
As you know, my boyfriend lives near the lovely Kent coast and I've been spending more time sunning myself than is prudent.
On Sunday, we went to the nature reserve to check on our baby ducks - Barry and Helena - whom we have watched grow on an almost daily basis since they were hatched. Then, in the afternoon, we went on a lovely walk down to the local beach for a dip in the sea. (We won't mention Hosty taking us on a wrong turn that took us 30 mins out of our way.
)Then, after lazing among the sand dunes and gazing at the sky, we hiked back again and had beans on toast for tea. We then tried awfully hard to watch the telly but we were too knackered and turned in and sort of passed out each other's arms.
And do you know what...? We didn't even realise until breakfast we had been having so much fun, we clean forgot to have a shag... :shock: :shock:
Back to the decorating.... I don't suppose we have a decent Estate agent or conveyancy specialist among us, do we...? Or a decorator come to that...
Hxx
