I must be a sick puppy lol I thought you'd found yourself a nice coloured hunk that you were gonna share with us girlies.
.xX Joanne Xx.
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I wish i could draw cos i have a great cartoon in my head of this scenario...
A girl laid on a picnic bench. spit roasted .... a queue of 20 men with pants round ankles and dicks in hand all lined up.. and her hubby stood at her side with a paper and pencil saying
" RIGHT THATS YOU TWO VERIFIED..... MOVE ON PLEASE WE AINT GOT ALL NIGHT!"
A girl laid on a picnic bench. spit roasted .... a queue of 20 men with pants round ankles and dicks in hand all lined up.. and her hubby stood at her side with a paper and pencil saying
" RIGHT THATS YOU TWO VERIFIED..... MOVE ON PLEASE WE AINT GOT ALL NIGHT!"
Lets face it 
who gives a damn what ya buy it's the fact some brainy sod invented Xmas so we could do more of what we truly love and thats shopping.... I can't see why they cant make an extra day a week during december dedicated for us girlies to shop .. and maybe an extra day a week during the january sales... on this extra day it would be compulsory for hubby's to babysit monsters and pets and the sink. toyboys maybe allowed with the girl to carry her huge amounts of goodies to the car. :lol:
I lurve xmas..
who gives a damn what ya buy it's the fact some brainy sod invented Xmas so we could do more of what we truly love and thats shopping.... I can't see why they cant make an extra day a week during december dedicated for us girlies to shop .. and maybe an extra day a week during the january sales... on this extra day it would be compulsory for hubby's to babysit monsters and pets and the sink. toyboys maybe allowed with the girl to carry her huge amounts of goodies to the car. :lol: I lurve xmas..
i hope you can tell i was tongue in cheek with the last bit of the post
Unfotunatly hun I aint got a + and i would be slated if I left my clique to play out of my league.... So lose ya + and I'll see about a shag.. :twisted:
There is a point to this .... that people who say dont want to be seen as a + for whatever reason can do /nick and their new name will not show a +
As a couple I'm like shireen I should only be + as my couple nick Jo_Mark_nw_18083 as i havn't ever played without my partner this nick Jewcy shouldn't have a + neither should Marks nick.
The mind boggles that a couple who swing together have one + and the other partner not. thats why i say yet again that the original list is flawed and needs to be scrapped and started again another way.
Unfotunatly hun I aint got a + and i would be slated if I left my clique to play out of my league.... So lose ya + and I'll see about a shag.. :twisted:
There is a point to this .... that people who say dont want to be seen as a + for whatever reason can do /nick and their new name will not show a +
As a couple I'm like shireen I should only be + as my couple nick Jo_Mark_nw_18083 as i havn't ever played without my partner this nick Jewcy shouldn't have a + neither should Marks nick.
The mind boggles that a couple who swing together have one + and the other partner not. thats why i say yet again that the original list is flawed and needs to be scrapped and started again another way.
As you are a + Denisebabe can i ask if you asked for verification .. the same to you MrD and you wishmaster?
Or have you logged on to find out someone had branded your ass + ?
I can see why you guys want the + it's just increased your chances of getting a shag tenfold...from the poor newbies that come in.... LMFAO.
Its slightly different for us though.. as angel said and shireen and other girls who got auto branded "who the hell has given a total stranger personal details of my private life?"
They will never know even if they ask to be removed from the list.
And so....
This system has been put on to make it easier for the "genuine swingers" to find other "geniune swingers" I think if it works in the chatroom it will work in the I dont at the moment know if some of you are genuine. Apart from the way they've initiated the + list I now think it could work. It's simple if you are + you are a genuine realtime swinger if you arn't a plus you are a fake until you prove otherwise. And if you are genuine and refuse the + then you're hiding something and don't deserve to be genuine.
the best line yet was when Denisebabe said i've been in the room and nothings changed for me apart from getting the + .... thats the point of the + it's only supposed to hit the non genuine peeps ...
works for me ....ahhhh shit i aint a + .... scatch this post i'm against it.
Or have you logged on to find out someone had branded your ass + ?
I can see why you guys want the + it's just increased your chances of getting a shag tenfold...from the poor newbies that come in.... LMFAO.
Its slightly different for us though.. as angel said and shireen and other girls who got auto branded "who the hell has given a total stranger personal details of my private life?"
They will never know even if they ask to be removed from the list.
And so....
This system has been put on to make it easier for the "genuine swingers" to find other "geniune swingers" I think if it works in the chatroom it will work in the I dont at the moment know if some of you are genuine. Apart from the way they've initiated the + list I now think it could work. It's simple if you are + you are a genuine realtime swinger if you arn't a plus you are a fake until you prove otherwise. And if you are genuine and refuse the + then you're hiding something and don't deserve to be genuine.
the best line yet was when Denisebabe said i've been in the room and nothings changed for me apart from getting the + .... thats the point of the + it's only supposed to hit the non genuine peeps ...
works for me
....ahhhh shit i aint a + .... scatch this post i'm against it. Maybe they should take the + off everyone and start it again. once people fully understand everything about it.. now that it's been seen to have a few basic fundamental flaws...
Can't see that a few days or weeks would make much difference to the amount of non genuine peeps coming in.. esp' as the R is off most days and that allows anyone to enter the room.
As the majority of peeps defending this + scheme are actually in the room as + it's never going to go away.
I'm just glad that the Forum allows people to air their views ( yes I do use the room ) without being punished for not agreeing with everything that happens..
Long live SH...
.xX Joanne Xx.
Can't see that a few days or weeks would make much difference to the amount of non genuine peeps coming in.. esp' as the R is off most days and that allows anyone to enter the room.
As the majority of peeps defending this + scheme are actually in the room as + it's never going to go away.
I'm just glad that the Forum allows people to air their views ( yes I do use the room ) without being punished for not agreeing with everything that happens..
Long live SH...
.xX Joanne Xx.
Well I'm no further than i was yesterday.
I'm trying to decide if I should be a + or not and I've deliberatly stayed out of the room and looked at all these posts to see if anything could make me decide either way.
I love SH and SteveG is my friend and as he says in an early post "known genuine members have to be a + for it to even stand a chance of working" ... these are the 2 reasons why i should probably be a + .... so it's out of loyalty i guess...
But I cant help thinkng i'm sticking a label on myself that I dont really want.... and I certainly dont want to be seen as being in a clique. or want the hassle of being a target cos it's known to the room I've shagged about in the room a bit..
When i've decided I'll stick to it.... when ......
I'm trying to decide if I should be a + or not and I've deliberatly stayed out of the room and looked at all these posts to see if anything could make me decide either way.
I love SH and SteveG is my friend and as he says in an early post "known genuine members have to be a + for it to even stand a chance of working" ... these are the 2 reasons why i should probably be a + .... so it's out of loyalty i guess...
But I cant help thinkng i'm sticking a label on myself that I dont really want.... and I certainly dont want to be seen as being in a clique. or want the hassle of being a target cos it's known to the room I've shagged about in the room a bit..
When i've decided I'll stick to it.... when ......
Some like to do the talk and the whole idea is a great turn on for em and when the opportunity actually arises... they find that the fantasy is much more exciting than the real thing.....
On the other side i've promised to goto Partners on a particular night ( not to play ) and when the night's arrived I'm not in the mood for i dont.
The main thing is that you let the person/s know... I'd rather have a call the day before saying " blah blah it aitn gonna happen" than have what happened to me.
If I ever see him uwwwwwwwwwe
On the other side i've promised to goto Partners on a particular night ( not to play ) and when the night's arrived I'm not in the mood for i dont.
The main thing is that you let the person/s know... I'd rather have a call the day before saying " blah blah it aitn gonna happen" than have what happened to me.
If I ever see him uwwwwwwwwwe
hun it happens to us all at one time or another.
I've been stood at the door in basque stockings and high heels after arranging to meet a guy who 5 minutes previously had called me to say he was on his way actually driving to my place after weeks of chit chat and flirting in the room. He never showed. 3 weeks later i got an email saying " Sorry i lost my bottle".
Kinda puts you off even trying again....
.xX Joanne Xx.
P.S. Only kinda puts you off the next guy wont get away from me so easy.
I've been stood at the door in basque stockings and high heels after arranging to meet a guy who 5 minutes previously had called me to say he was on his way actually driving to my place after weeks of chit chat and flirting in the room. He never showed. 3 weeks later i got an email saying " Sorry i lost my bottle".
Kinda puts you off even trying again....
.xX Joanne Xx.
P.S. Only kinda puts you off
the next guy wont get away from me so easy. The qualification conditions are, as per the Guideline Document:
Only those that actually have sex and it is verified by the other participant can recieve verified status themselves. One of the parties involved must be verified themselves in order to verify another.
That can't be right.... I was told that you didn't have to have sex with someone to get a +
HaHa so it was you then SexySteph !!!! and I was just gonna send Calista lots of wads of money to find out.....
Once again you are a mucky mare and you totally deserve to have your ass branded
but as it was at a meet then i'm sorry :lol: you dont qualify..
Are the toilets classed as part of the meet?
.xX Joanne Xx.
Once again you are a mucky mare and you totally deserve to have your ass branded
but as it was at a meet then i'm sorry :lol: you dont qualify..
Are the toilets classed as part of the meet?
.xX Joanne Xx.
Really!!! no playing at a munch !!!
NW munch 1 a certain sexy lady in the guys gents giving mucho "active" pleasure.
followed by 75% of us going a couple of doors up to indulge in "active" muckyness
I missed NW munch 2 :cry:
NW Munch 3 lots of snogging and boob groping was had by many and lots carried on the "active" muckyness to a club....
next time you goto a munch hun stand with me cos you seem to have missed all the jewcy bits.
.xX Joanne Xx.
NW munch 1 a certain sexy lady in the guys gents giving mucho "active" pleasure.
followed by 75% of us going a couple of doors up to indulge in "active" muckyness
I missed NW munch 2 :cry:
NW Munch 3 lots of snogging and boob groping was had by many and lots carried on the "active" muckyness to a club....
next time you goto a munch hun stand with me
cos you seem to have missed all the jewcy bits..xX Joanne Xx.
MrD hun
Thats the point. Everyone has to click the big button... and in an ideal world no one who wasn't a swinger would click it .... and if they didn't then the + wouldnt exist.
Clicking that button doesn't mean you are to be divided into sections ... It means the opposite it means you are entering a non judging enlightened adult envoirement where you can feel at home without predjudice or favour..... does the + in chat destroy the whole ethos of this ?
unfortunatly now once you click the big button you now have to start on a ladder from the bottom rung. Not sure if it's good or bad or if it will work or not.
.xX Joanne Xx.
Thats the point. Everyone has to click the big button... and in an ideal world no one who wasn't a swinger would click it .... and if they didn't then the + wouldnt exist.
Clicking that button doesn't mean you are to be divided into sections ... It means the opposite it means you are entering a non judging enlightened adult envoirement where you can feel at home without predjudice or favour..... does the + in chat destroy the whole ethos of this ?
unfortunatly now once you click the big button you now have to start on a ladder from the bottom rung. Not sure if it's good or bad or if it will work or not.
.xX Joanne Xx.
.........I don't know why people are so offended that they are being verified.
Maybe cos it implies that they are "active" and it will gain unwanted attention esp if your a female
Maybe cos it implies that someone without your consent has emailed the "anon" and told em they've been "active" with you.
Maybe it's cos the "anon" havn't bothered to ask the person if in fact this person's email is valid
Maybe cos it's still a free country and if they want to keep there "active" life a secret they are entitled to.
Just a few of many thoughts...
.xX Joanne Xx.
Maybe cos it implies that they are "active" and it will gain unwanted attention esp if your a female
Maybe cos it implies that someone without your consent has emailed the "anon" and told em they've been "active" with you.
Maybe it's cos the "anon" havn't bothered to ask the person if in fact this person's email is valid
Maybe cos it's still a free country and if they want to keep there "active" life a secret they are entitled to.
Just a few of many thoughts...
.xX Joanne Xx.
We were in Switzerland the other week and my hubby tried the reindeer he may have liked the meal but he never got his nooky that night.
Why cant you guys stick to the traditional stuff like strawberry jam and fishpaste ?
( you have to have seen " sex life of a potato man" to get that )
.xX Joanne Xx.
he may have liked the meal but he never got his nooky that night. Why cant you guys stick to the traditional stuff like strawberry jam and fishpaste ?
( you have to have seen " sex life of a potato man" to get that )
.xX Joanne Xx.
The beauty of the Forum is that it allows all members to voice there opinion. I'm sure there have been lots of posts in the topic from non chatters. One wonders if that comment would have been made if Neil had been for the + , This is the whole idea of the forum where comments.. views... and yes even critisisms can be aired. The plus is that constructive feedback will help to work out teething problems and the minus is that it may be thrown back in SH's face. This is the place to have your say... It's much better to talk about it in the open without fear of retribution than to push this underground. Lets keep this non personal as the thread will get locked if it turns into a slanging match. I'm sure many people are reading these posts and drawing there own conclusions from them so it would be a shame to lose it.
.xX Joanne Xx.
.xX Joanne Xx.
