maybe so, but how did the 'normals' assume you were in the company of swingers?
someone must have raised the'normals' suspicions.
I never got asked that question. I was talking to some girls who were dancing on the tables next to me. funny how swinging never came into our conversation...
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Jo__Jo_J
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 55
UK
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I was there
I think the main issue here is NOT the fact that it was held in a public bar. we all knew that and everyone was cool with it, else they wouldnt have come.. and its not the fact that we were dresssed up provocatively, as Plymouth is well renowned for Saturday night is dressing up night, wether it be sexy nurses or police women on a hen night. so no we diddnt stand out like sore thumbs
the problem was the pure FACT that some people find it necessary to tell the whole world and his uncle that they are swingers who have met through a swinging forum and are on a night out. Why? why cant you just say we are all friends on a night out?
So what, you swing, big deal,..... but why do certain people feel the 'need' to always have make such an exclaimation about it? to 'impress' or 'shock'?......to eye up 'new meat' and hope to convert them? its quite sad, how some people seek the attention they crave rather than just enoying each others company on a night out. why make an exhibition of themselves? im not impressed by these types in the least. in fact id go as far as saying 'youre boring'...yawn. why dont you pay more attention to the folks that actually did come to the munch?
i met some lovely people, who i enjoyed having normal civilised non swinging conversations with. I also 'met' some people at the munch who never even acknowledged me all evening.....their loss.
it dosent matter that we were a bunch of swingers on a night out, or railway enthuisasts..no one else is particulary interested, if they were they would be enjoying the pursuits themsleves.
incidentally, on the last PLymouth munch. i know for a fact that someone, went over to a group of vanilla ladies and told then who we were... purely for shock value !......come on grow up.
I think the main issue here is NOT the fact that it was held in a public bar. we all knew that and everyone was cool with it, else they wouldnt have come.. and its not the fact that we were dresssed up provocatively, as Plymouth is well renowned for Saturday night is dressing up night, wether it be sexy nurses or police women on a hen night. so no we diddnt stand out like sore thumbs
the problem was the pure FACT that some people find it necessary to tell the whole world and his uncle that they are swingers who have met through a swinging forum and are on a night out. Why? why cant you just say we are all friends on a night out?
So what, you swing, big deal,..... but why do certain people feel the 'need' to always have make such an exclaimation about it? to 'impress' or 'shock'?......to eye up 'new meat' and hope to convert them? its quite sad, how some people seek the attention they crave rather than just enoying each others company on a night out. why make an exhibition of themselves? im not impressed by these types in the least. in fact id go as far as saying 'youre boring'...yawn. why dont you pay more attention to the folks that actually did come to the munch?
i met some lovely people, who i enjoyed having normal civilised non swinging conversations with. I also 'met' some people at the munch who never even acknowledged me all evening.....their loss.
it dosent matter that we were a bunch of swingers on a night out, or railway enthuisasts..no one else is particulary interested, if they were they would be enjoying the pursuits themsleves.
incidentally, on the last PLymouth munch. i know for a fact that someone, went over to a group of vanilla ladies and told then who we were... purely for shock value !......come on grow up.
hi all
Well i agree it was a good night. and was lovely to meet the locals.
( hope to see you again soon)
Im sending out big hugs for the gorgeous girls that were there with us especially Fem4taboo,
Misspussinboots,Cuddlebunny,Skimpy, Devondelight, Mr Sams wife
and for the boys, the lovely Devon1, andyjonny (loved your tail)
and of course the magnificent Marcuso the hula heshee !
(although, I know the Polynesians are hairy but i never saw hula girls with hairy chests when i was in Oahu ! )
Well i agree it was a good night. and was lovely to meet the locals.
( hope to see you again soon)
Im sending out big hugs for the gorgeous girls that were there with us especially Fem4taboo,
Misspussinboots,Cuddlebunny,Skimpy, Devondelight, Mr Sams wife
and for the boys, the lovely Devon1, andyjonny (loved your tail)
and of course the magnificent Marcuso the hula heshee !
(although, I know the Polynesians are hairy but i never saw hula girls with hairy chests when i was in Oahu ! )
havent been around much lately.....been sunning ourselves on a little island in the Med, but we will be there. Nice shorts Marcuso..........Im sure your legs inside them shorts, would be Scarey enough on their own to wear as a Halloween outfit 
and Skimps is right. us girlies will deal with the naughty boys as we see fit.
If they need to be taken in hand...well then, Im sure we're the right girls for the job :shock:
I think my Halloween costume should change to:
Madam JoJo Super Nanny Dominatrix.
and I will send all the naughty boys to sit on the naughty step.......or maybe on Skimpys naughty Lap
he he....I wonder..............how many boys will be naughty on purpose Just to sit on the lovely Miss Skimpys lap?
and Skimps is right. us girlies will deal with the naughty boys as we see fit.
If they need to be taken in hand...well then, Im sure we're the right girls for the job :shock:
I think my Halloween costume should change to:
Madam JoJo Super Nanny Dominatrix.
and I will send all the naughty boys to sit on the naughty step.......or maybe on Skimpys naughty Lap
he he....I wonder..............how many boys will be naughty on purpose Just to sit on the lovely Miss Skimpys lap?
Hiya Les
Good on you mate for standing up for yourself. If you know 100% it wasnt you, then you have the right to defend yourself.
and a big Rasberry to them who can only take the Piss for his lack of punctuation.
why cant you help the situation, rather than aggrivating it?
However we do need to know, who is letting the side down.
But it could have been someone who diddnt turn up at the munch.
a fair number of people were supposed to come, but lots diddnt.
I reckon one of them chickens may be getting too big for their boots, and becoming a lould mouth.
Good on you mate for standing up for yourself. If you know 100% it wasnt you, then you have the right to defend yourself.
and a big Rasberry to them who can only take the Piss for his lack of punctuation.
why cant you help the situation, rather than aggrivating it?
However we do need to know, who is letting the side down.
But it could have been someone who diddnt turn up at the munch.
a fair number of people were supposed to come, but lots diddnt.
I reckon one of them chickens may be getting too big for their boots, and becoming a lould mouth.
Hi ya Hun
t'was good to meet you on Sat night.
I see youve been persueded to join in ere, just like I have
keep naggin Dev1 about the October munch, were both looking forward to the Halloween do....plannning our outfits already in anticipation
now...naughty devil, wickkid witch?...hmmmm
Hi to all the Devon crowd
XXX
JoJo
t'was good to meet you on Sat night.
I see youve been persueded to join in ere, just like I have
keep naggin Dev1 about the October munch, were both looking forward to the Halloween do....plannning our outfits already in anticipation
now...naughty devil, wickkid witch?...hmmmm
Hi to all the Devon crowd
XXX
JoJo