I lost a very good mate some years ago, to a drunk driver, I still miss him- he was a great character- I sometimes find myself thinking-'Terry would love this--' or 'wonder what Terry would think of this??' I guess that some of the hurt never goes away, time just makes it bearable- but I feel that as long as we remember loved ones that have passed on- then in a way- theyre still with us---
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Kenluvslucy
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Male, 64
Straight Female, 63
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Hello all! As total newcummers to all this, see previous post-, we're finding it difficult to 'get aquainted', pressures of work/ kids/ dog/ diy etc mean we cant spend a lot of time either in chat, or perusing the forums- we'd love to try the notts munch, but understand that we need to serve a 'probation' (as such), it seems really hard (!!??) to make the early 'inroads'. So - I was wondering if any of you regulars would consider 'taking us under your wing' and pming us with any helpful ideas--??? If Im handling this the wrong way, then you can tell us that too!
Hiya! Welcome! Me and my good lady are in a similar position- HOWEVER- you should not have to persuade her! We have discussed it often, before, during and after sex, ( so Im not led by desire!!) and it was only when she expressed a wish to maybe 'try it' that we've looked and found this site- as for the future-- who knows?? I think it should be a true joint decision. Just my 2 pennorth- wot do other ppl think???
Welcome! Me and my good lady are in a similar position- HOWEVER- you should not have to persuade her! We have discussed it often, before, during and after sex, ( so Im not led by desire!!) and it was only when she expressed a wish to maybe 'try it' that we've looked and found this site- as for the future-- who knows?? I think it should be a true joint decision. Just my 2 pennorth- wot do other ppl think??? 
As newbies- the original comment by wibbly strikes a chord- both myself and Loosy could not be mistaken for Brad Pitt and Jenny Aniseed (we're not obese or mingers either, mind), but that is one of shared 'hangups', and personally if someone feels like that about me/us then thats their problem- but it is a worry--- :(
Anybody else seen the article ref staying power?? Boffins reckon its in the jeans, er genes- I reckon its more to do with- 1 the lady you're with, 2 the amount of alcohol imbibed, 3 general 'ambience' ie the mood you may be in-- any views?? (this is men Im talking about, tho another topic is- why do some ladies get sore?? Loosy never has???) No matter how busy- the hero can always park right outside-
No-one goes to the loo-
Ppl always pay in shops with the exact amount-
Rounds from firearms cant go further than 20 feet-
-and bounce off EVERYTHING-
Cars always breakdown with the same 'ke-chunk, ker-chunk' noise-
Cars are always fixed from underneath-
Barmen are always wiping a glass with a dish-rag-
Fast food joints never have a queue-
Ppl never finish the aforementioned fast food-
Or a cigarrette.
No-one goes to the loo-
Ppl always pay in shops with the exact amount-
Rounds from firearms cant go further than 20 feet-
-and bounce off EVERYTHING-
Cars always breakdown with the same 'ke-chunk, ker-chunk' noise-
Cars are always fixed from underneath-
Barmen are always wiping a glass with a dish-rag-
Fast food joints never have a queue-
Ppl never finish the aforementioned fast food-
Or a cigarrette.
Greetings to all at SH!!. The title describes how I/we feel- like most 'established' swingers (I expect)-we've talked, and fantasised, looked at the (expensive) websites, glad we found this one!, and my lovely other half actually said-'are we going to try it then?' yesterday---
So what now??-- Apart from hopfully getting to know some of you lovely people (bin 'lurking' for a few days), how best to make our first tentative steps into this sport??
Thats not to mention all the 'hangups' that need sorting out-( am I too fat, too short, etc)- so, any help/ advice gratefully recieved--- Ken and Loose
