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Melting_pot
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 47
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Quote by Freckledbird
methinks he's having all the fun he was aiming for when posting the OP, since you're giving him all this attention

Yep, he's a troll.
yeah..and tipically, he'll be back posting as soon as interest in this topics starts to dwindle
love:
QI
top gun
across the world in 80 faiths
bbc documentaries
24
scrubs
family guy
mock the week
that alzheimer thing done by pratchett (simply because I adore and revere the man)
two pints
reluctantly admit to watching shameless...weirdly enough I don't particularily like it, but if I chance upon it I'm hooked
grownups
hates:
soaps
endlessly repeated movies...in the 13 months I've been exposed to english freeview I must have seen (and after a few times switched off the telly) the same 20 movies about a dozen times each. seriously guys..there are scores of wonderfull movies, and new ones come out every year..why repeat the same movies over and over again?
and where are the disney classics?? mad :x I WANT the disney classics, and tom& jerry!!!
ok, rant over.
methinks he's having all the fun he was aiming for when posting the OP, since you're giving him all this attention
for someone who was 28 when he moved to the uk, he's taking it a bit far.
also, he's a councilmember, which makes the whole thing smell of political stunt. methinks he was after his 15 minutes in the spotlights.
what would happen if a tourist came in and asked for something? I'm a bit particular when it comes to speaking languages (I guess it's in the family) but I also know that some people simply don't have the talent for it., my father speaks several and has lived for 13 years in the netherlands...even so, his dutch has always been crap.
in any country in europe, you'll find that most offices also carry instruction leaflets and similar "informative aids" in english, to help the foreigners that live there, maybe only for a couple of months.. why should england be different and consider it their right to pretend everybody else to learn english when more often than not anglophones (ok, americans mostly, but britons too) are upset when they're abroad and facing someone who doesn't speak english?
(of course I agree that whoever moves into a new country should try and adapt to this new country, and the language is the first thing to learn...but still..on this occasion the guy is taking it a bit far.
besides the sillyness of it all, I wonder if it was his legal right to apply such a ban at all. the postal service does not require the customer to speak english in order to be served, and I doubt this particular postmaster has the right to disregard this policy. methinks his publicity stunt might backfire, unless the royal mail decide not to pursue the matter, for fear of sparking a political debate.
and yes, had it been a white man pulling the same stunt, the postmaster himself declared during his interview on the bbc news, he would have faced severe criticism...since he speaks and feels he's talking as a true englishman, he should face the same sort of criticism..
Quote by fluff_n_stuff
No cos I keep thinking of the other song 'Aint got no...(I got life)' by Nina Simone, from the Muller adverts :shock:
great song..but I'm starting to hate it, because of the sheer number of times they're showing that add.
Quote by flower411
Simples lol

I do like alexander the meerkat...lol
thought I was alone in that :lol:
I had a piss, but I'm not a pistol (or a pisspot)
I have hair, but am not harebrained
I've had fun but am not a fungus
I know how to cook, but I'm not cuckoo
Quote by Resonance
Baseball seems to only be popular in the US, Cuba and Japan for some reason. Quite how those three came together to nurture the sport is beyond me.

that one I can answer..
the americans..well..it's obvious. the japanese learned it from them during the post ww2 years, when american troops were all over japan,
as for the cubans...I reckon fidel must have woken up one day and gone "let's see, what can we do to piss of the americans?..I know, let's beat them at their favourite sport!"
Quote by foxylady2209
The idea of dual nationality just doesn't make sense to me. It's about home and (unless you are an MP claiming expenses) surely you only have one real home?
Whether you are English, Scottish, Spanish etc is all about genetics. And you could be 1% of 100 different origins.

I understand where you're coming from but no..from a personal view, I can't agree.
I was born in the netherlands, raised there until I was 8, and had the rest of my education in italy. most of my schooling of course was in Italy, but I still am not prepared to let go of my earliest years, my earliest memories...I use a dutch passport and have used my mother's surname for the first 10 years of my life..half my family lives there..so being of two different cultures is very much ingrained in me.
even more so now that I have myself moved to a third country.
I appreciate however you have to be born like this to understand the dicotomy of supporting 2 national teams...at times I feel like I've been missing out by moving about so much.
apparently cricket is the main divide between continental europeans and the uk..(because you folks tend to make the distinction and talk about "you europeans" forgetting that you're part of it on several levels lol )
I do know a fair bit about baseball, but I haven't a clue about cricket..
bolt away before the slating starts for comparing the two.
Quote by Cubes
Is >>this<< what you want? If not, like the latex-loverly up there said, try the contact us link, or open a support ticket. :thumbup:
not sure what "this" is as it brought me to the main page of the "cafe" section of the forum
not sure it's the right thing to do, if not I apologize in advance..
I thought I'd up this topic, for the mods and site developers..in case they hadn't noticed it
it seems a good idea, so they might want to look into it.
if it's not, they just need to say so, and I'll shut my trap lol
the only times I am awake at dawn (except for jobrelated traveling reasons, that is) is when I haven't gone to bed at all..which means I probably had a good night, one way or the other, and I'm enjoying the dawn to cap it off, before going to bed.
definitely a night owl.
witchy..why am I not surprised you wrote this in the morning? lol :lol: :lol:
I've been told I either sleep like the dead in that I don't move a muscle from the position I fell asleep in, or I go the opposite way, flailing about with arms and legs. either way I'm sound asleep and can be woken only by phyisical contact or cannon salves.
as for hours...anything from 3 hours a night up to 9-10, depending very much on the season, my daily activities and so on.
I am definitely night owl..but not overly grumpy in the mornings either.
sodding online forums (kinky and less so) probably keep me awake more than is healthy...but what can I say? I'm addicted
it goes to show though..the fact you haven't given up on him and he is now "back on your good side" so to speak, does mean that on the whole he is not a bad person, which I assume to be true in quite a number of these cases...and which makes it all the more difficult to judge, let go or, in some cases, even believe
uhm..let's see...
from father's side, italian and catholics as far as family knowledge goes..which is only back to the 19th century..but I have no reason to think the previous generations ever moved about..which at some point in history must have made them french too, given that italy only has a history as a nation, a few centuries old.
dutch and jewish from mother's side, but her father, even though he spent his entire life in benelux, was born in bielsko biala...which was and still is in poland at the time..but HIS mother, who was born in the same place, was born citizen of the austro-hungarian empire.
so, basically, if we go back only 2 generations, half italian, a quarter dutch and a quarter polish
I consider myself half dutch and half italian, by education and mentality, which seems to me more important than the "bloodline" (hence my nickname, btw)
as these are totally different heritages and I've been around a bit, I like to think of myself as a citizen of the world rather than identify myself as a "true" something.
the percentage of english blood in my veins is a big fat nought lol
I don't know, of course.
it could be anything, selfish interest, focus on her son at the expense of others, posing to "advance" the cause of those Downs who are capable and able to mix on a par with society..it could be anything. I'm just not prepared to discard the possibility that she's acting with the best interest of her son in mind, to the best of her ability.
this doesn't make her actions and words right in an absolute sense, but..there you go, maybe in her specific case, she's doing what Otto needs her to do.
or maybe not..
since we're talking hotels ...check out "hotel sex" on sky 3
all about naughty antics in hotels...recorded and witnessed by staff ;)
I've bought 3 times over the same model (had it nicked off me twice mad :x :x :x )
the cheapest tomtom model available at tesco's... at around 100 pounds
tomtom one europe (there is also a cheaper version that only carries uk maps).
it hasn't failed me once yet.
this is by no means a dig at england or the social costume here...it's just my experience as fairly recent immigrant.
when I moved to England, I was very surprised by the figures related to childbirth (my line of job requires me to have at least a broad idea of what those figures are)
it seems that the "single mother" phenomena is much more common than in other countries, and the same applies for underage mothers, children leaving school to give birth...
other social "phenomena" such as endemic binge drinking and "going on the pull" on a drunken fuck and casual sex at a very young age seem on average more common here than in other countries.
given this general picture that, I'm sure, is incomplete and debatable, I'm not so surprised that sex takes such a big role and assumes such relevance.
I haven't listened to the interview so I'm speculating, but I'm not so surprised that Otto was fixating on te sex aspects of the whole interview..after all that's what horiginated the whole buzz and I don't mean to be discriminating, but his words should be filtered through his "disability" and not just taken at face value.
as for the mother, I can only immmagine that the she wants to face one issue at a time, in the delicate and difficult matter of educating her disabled son.
I'm still not condoning the fact she is riding the media wave..but I do understand where she's coming from.
Quote by Theladyisaminx
I AM working
multitasking is the trick :giggle:

:shock: But you are a man, they can not do such things, who are you trying to kid? lol
it's a skill :lol:
take a last minute flight and go somewhere nice..paris, prague, lisbon, spanish seaside, venice, florence, rome..
if you check on and similar sites you can find nice offers.
Quote by Nicekat
I think that what the woman said in the news paper article is sick Mothers don’t normally try to get their sons laid and would do not take their son to see a prostitute. The mother is getting fame making a name for herself in the newspapers , maybe that’s what she wants but I think maybe social services ears should be picking up at this point and they should be involved getting involved as she has a younger child.
Well I don’t know where to start but here goes. I have a son who has severe learning difficulties I am aware that my son has sexual feelings and wants a girl friend but at the same time he does not have an understanding of the complexities of a relationship. I would not encourage or discourage my son to have a relationship it is his desision, but I would try to help him understand what a relationship entails. Relationships between people can be difficult, for people with special needs relationships will happen but to me they could cause more problems than they could solve. I know a girl with special needs who needs a lot of sex and emotional education. She will have sex any man old or young she has no understanding that they are using her for sex. She could end up pregnant or have a STD. She tries it on with any man even if they are sitting next to their girlfriend or wife, which could end up with her getting physically hurt by someone.

don't these last statements sort of support this mother's position? she might very well want to be monitoring the whole thing (not the actual sex of course) simply to avoid her son being taken advantage off.. or getting an STD because he has no understanding of the risks or maybe the capacity to evaluate the "girl" he might meet.
it's a cruel world out there...and none of us has any idea of the maturity and "social skills" of the guy..he might very well end up being a victim of a dare, or been taken advantage off not differently than that girl you mentioned. if that's a possibility, I'd rather have him work it out of his system in some sort of supervised fashion than letting him "loose on the street".
from my experience with Downs, I remember one girl that was very keen on showing her affection towards me (in a totally childish and innocent manner, might I add)..and the other girls weren't very far away from her attitude.. if I had been some twisted fuck, taking advantage of such a thing would have been easy.
I don't presume to know if this guy is like them or different..but I can understand his mother's worries about him falling in the wrong arms.
truth is we don't exactly know how this story ended up in the newspapers, who's doing that was. before accusing her of doing it for the fame, we might want to see things from her side. for all we know, someone else leaked it and the mother decided to give her side of the story before someone else made the situation worse...
not saying that's what happened...just that it's not all black and white.
about parents not wanting to "get their children laid"... in quite a number of countries, untill right before WW2 it was not unheard off for a father to bring his son to a brothel, for his first time with a woman. ok, this is a different century, and I agree that it could have been handled without it ending up in the papers..but again... who knows who leaked the story to the press?
Quote by Willwood
to find your nearst boot fairs get your local weekly news paper and turn to adds section im sure you will find what your looking for good luck

ah..yes..newspapers..lol..haven't bought one in a while.
thanks