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Mistress_39
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 62
Straight Male, 64
UK
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I think this is a good subject to re-dip my toes into the Forum.
I would never entertain play with someone who refused to have a safe word. Whether they chose to use it is another issue of course.
I have enough respect for myself as a dominant to cease tort...oops I mean consensual play once the word is voiced or other pre-arranged signal given. (Hard to talk with a ball gag in your mouth)
Serious talk re safe word/codes, boundaries, type of play first, then enjoy the journey.
edited for typo
I would never entertain play with someone who refused to have a safe word. Whether they chose to use it is another issue of course.
I have enough respect for myself as a dominant to cease tort...oops I mean consensual play once the word is voiced or other pre-arranged signal given. (Hard to talk with a ball gag in your mouth)
Serious talk re safe word/codes, boundaries, type of play first, then enjoy the journey.
edited for typo
Thank you Sassy and thank you Varca. Your good wishes mean so much.
Thank you too to all the kind people who have mailed me privately with some touching and very lovely messages.
I will pass on all the good wishes when I see him later today.
Once again, thank you. You are all such lovely people.
Chrissy x
Thank you too to all the kind people who have mailed me privately with some touching and very lovely messages.
I will pass on all the good wishes when I see him later today.
Once again, thank you. You are all such lovely people.
Chrissy x
Just a quickie post to tell everyone that we know, that Mr.M is in hospital with a broken hip and is very poorly with some complications.
I dont want to go into details here, but PMs are welcome.
I would just like to say to everyone to have fun, enjoy life and to have a great Christmas.
You never know what is around the corner, so live for today!
Best wishes
Mistress_39
I dont want to go into details here, but PMs are welcome.
I would just like to say to everyone to have fun, enjoy life and to have a great Christmas.
You never know what is around the corner, so live for today!
Best wishes
Mistress_39
Christmas has been cancelled!!!!!!!!!
My sexy and delicious other half has broken his hip and is esconsed in the walls of one of Bristols hospitals (Just dont start on me, Im feeling touchy!)
Im limited to 1 hour visiting this afternoon and another hour this evening which isnt bloody well enough, but due to the flu and hossie virus thats the new rules.
How did he do it? He Decided to go roller skating with his daughter. Done it a million times before with not even a graze. Then the week before Christmas there I am with all 6ft 5 of him on the ground in agony ringing the emergency number.
He isnt at all well.
Of course, I dont give a monkeys about my Christmas this year, I just want him to get well - hence I voted for a Christmas in June!!!!!!
Best wishes to all Im off to visit.
Mistress_39
My sexy and delicious other half has broken his hip and is esconsed in the walls of one of Bristols hospitals (Just dont start on me, Im feeling touchy!)
Im limited to 1 hour visiting this afternoon and another hour this evening which isnt bloody well enough, but due to the flu and hossie virus thats the new rules.
How did he do it? He Decided to go roller skating with his daughter. Done it a million times before with not even a graze. Then the week before Christmas there I am with all 6ft 5 of him on the ground in agony ringing the emergency number.
He isnt at all well.
Of course, I dont give a monkeys about my Christmas this year, I just want him to get well - hence I voted for a Christmas in June!!!!!!
Best wishes to all Im off to visit.
Mistress_39
This is definitely too far for you to travel too lol.
But there is one in the 'rest room' in the Information Centre at Lake Tahoe, US of A. I have a photo of it too, lol.
I gotta say I never expected to see one there, but since its a major pitt stop for truckers with their giant rigs, then I shouldnt be surprised.
I got one at home, but its well disguised in its everyday state. Im not sharing it though!
But there is one in the 'rest room' in the Information Centre at Lake Tahoe, US of A. I have a photo of it too, lol.
I gotta say I never expected to see one there, but since its a major pitt stop for truckers with their giant rigs, then I shouldnt be surprised.
I got one at home, but its well disguised in its everyday state. Im not sharing it though!
What you been up to then you daft bint!
Ive been away too, but thats cos Ive been on kink fest which takes up most of our weekends and also been away to the city of kinkiness that is San Francisco again....
I love this place though. People here are just so welcoming and nice and sometimes bitchy and horrid too but thats life isnt it.
I mean Im not all sweetness and light myself you know. Dont let this sugar coated exterior fool you Sassy, Im a bitch in sheeps clothing. (hey who mentioned mutton??)
Anyway, dont cancel, dont do anything. Enjoy life and your postings on here. I for one, enjoy reading them.
Big hugs and kisses
Mr and Mrs 39 xxx
Ive been away too, but thats cos Ive been on kink fest which takes up most of our weekends and also been away to the city of kinkiness that is San Francisco again....
I love this place though. People here are just so welcoming and nice and sometimes bitchy and horrid too but thats life isnt it.
I mean Im not all sweetness and light myself you know. Dont let this sugar coated exterior fool you Sassy, Im a bitch in sheeps clothing. (hey who mentioned mutton??)
Anyway, dont cancel, dont do anything. Enjoy life and your postings on here. I for one, enjoy reading them.
Big hugs and kisses
Mr and Mrs 39 xxx
Quote by Misskitty_2008
Has anyone ever known when the phone is going to ring.. or who is going to be on the other end??
I get this a lot... :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
Yes I have Miss Kitty. On many occasions I have known when a certain person was about to phone or text(without prior knowledge). Call it whatever you will.
I have predicted a number of events that have happened out of the blue and have an uncanny 'feel' for people and what is going to happen to them which is not a nice thing to be aware of at times. You may just call this intuition, but my family call me the witch!....................cackle,cackle, cackle
There is one pic on our profile of me, the female.
Its just me because I chose to put it there. My hubby doesnt want any of him there. Again its personal choice.
If someone would chose not to contact us because there is only a pic of me, then we respect their decision.
We all have different ways of assessing how we contact people.
Its just me because I chose to put it there. My hubby doesnt want any of him there. Again its personal choice.
If someone would chose not to contact us because there is only a pic of me, then we respect their decision.
We all have different ways of assessing how we contact people.
If you enjoy watching then go for it and just enjoy!! Its a very simple pleasure enjoyment.
Life is for living. I dont see that its for others to judge what your personal tastes are. If you know what you like then you cant go wrong. There are plenty of chat rooms dedicated to people like yourself and there is nothing stopping you setting up your own room of course.
Sex is multi-faceted. Sex is fun :twisted:
Life is for living. I dont see that its for others to judge what your personal tastes are. If you know what you like then you cant go wrong. There are plenty of chat rooms dedicated to people like yourself and there is nothing stopping you setting up your own room of course.
Sex is multi-faceted. Sex is fun :twisted:
Hi De Sade
Couldnt select all the boxes above :twisted: so chose the method I have used most recently........
Our bed has been built by my hubby with anchor points should the need arise to use them (cough....)which can be discretely hidden so the bed looks like any normal
7ft x 7ft 4 poster lol.
Couldnt select all the boxes above :twisted: so chose the method I have used most recently........
Our bed has been built by my hubby with anchor points should the need arise to use them (cough....)which can be discretely hidden so the bed looks like any normal
7ft x 7ft 4 poster lol. Quote by noladreams30
A bounce on my trampoline this afternoon followed by a nice glass of red...............I love Sundays.
:shock: Is this a euphemism I've yet to catch on to?!
Nola you are funny!
Its a bounce on a trampoline! Its a 14 footer if anyone wants to bounce too.
I was just going to write that its not sex related until I remembered a late night bounce with one of my friends, naked
ops: Quote by lyns
Sundays are lovely days in our home
My wonderful hubby is working like a trooper in the garden building some raised beds for me and preparing a lay a block paving path..........
Im supplying him with copious amounts of tea and approving comments inbetween surfing on the net, making family phone calls and preparing lunch.
A bounce on my trampoline this afternoon followed by a nice glass of red...............I love Sundays.
You go steady on that trampoline... Don`t want to give your self two black eyes :giggle:
Oh whatever do you mean Lyns :shock: :shock:
Its ok, no need to panic I advocate safe trampolining - I wear a sports bra!!
Sundays are lovely days in our home
My wonderful hubby is working like a trooper in the garden building some raised beds for me and preparing a lay a block paving path..........
Im supplying him with copious amounts of tea and approving comments inbetween surfing on the net, making family phone calls and preparing lunch.
A bounce on my trampoline this afternoon followed by a nice glass of red...............I love Sundays.
My wonderful hubby is working like a trooper in the garden building some raised beds for me and preparing a lay a block paving path..........
Im supplying him with copious amounts of tea and approving comments inbetween surfing on the net, making family phone calls and preparing lunch.
A bounce on my trampoline this afternoon followed by a nice glass of red...............I love Sundays.
The "artist" who decorated our garage door with various crap should be made to lick the offending paint off with his tongue.
Although irritated by this nonesense, I feel for the neighbour who has just spent weeks building a beautiful brick garage/workshop to come home, one week after completion to see some idiot had scrawled some rubbish down one side of it.
Romeo07 is a wanker IMO (thats the tag not a member of SH btw)
Although irritated by this nonesense, I feel for the neighbour who has just spent weeks building a beautiful brick garage/workshop to come home, one week after completion to see some idiot had scrawled some rubbish down one side of it.
Romeo07 is a wanker IMO (thats the tag not a member of SH btw)
Quote by splendid_
I am totally private. I have no interest in having sex with anyone who talks openly with specific details of things they have done with anything identifiable about the person they have done it with.
Every sexual reference to wor lass I have done with her permission. Otherwise I keep details general and non-identifiable. I appreciate the same things from the people I have sex with. What about discussing sexual practices... eg 'I had splendid the other night and she has this habit of snorting when she cums' etc. It is just 'icky' for want of a better phrase. I am private about what exactly I do with specific people. I am happy to talk about what I do generally.
I would hate to think that those who know that I love fucking a guy up the arse would automatically assume that I do that with every man. (mores the pity
It is just respect for the people I have sex with. I don't particularly care what others think about me. I am a long way beyond that. I am unsure whether I could actually shock anyone close to me anyway and anyone else??? nah.. it isn't an issue.
I have the same views as Splendid on this subject. What I do, how I do it, why I do it and who I do it with are totally private.
I do not have exhibitionism marked on my profile as Im not an exhibitionist.
I enjoy various practices within S & M and also have a taste for bondage :shock: but what these are.......well you will have to just come round and find out :twisted:
On a serious note though, one persons depravity is anothers normality...........so different strokes for different folks I suppose.
Like Lost, I also detest those who are less than discrete and it has made me change a decision about meeting someone through what I read a little while ago.
But as for depravity.........I would like seconds please!!
