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Mr_D_and_HotTart
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Male, 57
Bisexual Female, 62
0 miles · Hereford and Worcester

Exactly... I'm a libertarian, so I believe we should have as few laws as possible. It's a great pity that the current revisions didn't go further and remove the ridiculous ban on dancing in pubs. Can there be any real resason for this law apart from 'thou shalt not have fun'?
There's one very sensible way to integrate a (paid or otherwise) gay dating site to SH, and that's to set it up somewhere else and use the banners in the 'men for men' and other relevant photo-ads sections to advertise it. It would certainly be a lot more relevant than the current straight oriented adverts that appear there, and people's natural reluctance to follow off-site links could be assuaged by a tag line in the advert saying the site is related to SH. I'm sure there are people wandering round the very blunt and graphic adverts in men for men who want something more loving and long-term, at the moment thay are probably just leaving.
Eargasm (noun)
The tingly-scalp nipplestand feeling one gets when cleaning out one's ears with a Q-Tip.
'AAAAAAAAAAAaaahhhhh ... eargasm."
There really was no case at all there, the girl admitted that she didn't even know she'd had sex until the man made a voluntary statement that he had consensual sex with her. There is not one shred of evidence that he didn't get her consent, so I am astounded this made it to court. The Daily Mail wants everyone to be scared that if they have a drink they will be , and are twisting this allegation to try and support their blinkered point of view, that alcohol is bad and sex is bad.
can scar victims for life, and needs to be punished accordingly. Drunken events that the woman can't even remember happening have not scarred that woman for life - and it's certainly not done as much damage to her as this court case did to an innocent man. How do you think he's going to feel about having sex now? Out there in the vanilla world, it's next to impossible to have sex in non-alcoholic situations, so every time he'll be having the spectre of those allegations hanging over him.
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Anybody fancy a shag? I've got condoms, consent forms and a breathalyser. wink
I Mister_Discreet do solemnly declare ... that from this day forward ... I will continue to take the piss, keep my humour ... get slightly huffy when I see an ellipsis consisting of more than 3 periods, but not mention it because I'll look silly ... hold my head up high unless invited to put it somewhere more intimate ... and fight, but not on the seas and the oceans because I get seasick when I walk across large puddles and have a pathological fear of boats, but anyway, I shall never surrender unless asked to by someone in a skimpy black pvc policewoman's uniform, brandshing a large ... er, where was I?
:high-smile: :high-smile: :high-smile: HAPPY BIRTHDAY! :high-smile: :high-smile: :high-smile:
Actually, this is exactly the sort of thing I think the new owners should be doing with the site... using the traffic that they already from an unaltered site, but making better use of the existing banner spaces to do something that generates revenue.
Personally, something in my adblock list is already catching it on my browsing computer, but the one I make adverts on shows it... so I haven't seen it very often!
Isn't the internet wonderful?



No Spangles, Old English or otherwise, though sad
I know.... they brought back Spangles in the 1990s for a bit, but not the Old English ones. I didn't really like the ordinary ones that much.
The only reason we had this ridiculous law is to stop workers in first world war munitions factories from turning up drunk.
The police (and taxi frms for that matter) simply can't cope with the 11:30 chaos, but by spreading out leaving times. the potential for trouble wil be reduced.
I disagree with those who say people will drink more - once we've got over the initial celebrations, the hard truth that drink is expensive and staying up all night drinking makes you a mess in the morning will hit home. On the continent, where 24 hour driking is the norm, there is no problem, so why should there be here. If there is a tendendcy to keep going at 'binge drinking' speed, it's the old law that gave rise to the problem that's to blame, not the new one!
I head on Radio 4 that 3/4 of pubs and clubs are going to be opening later than 11 now.
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It is certainly not my friend ! ! !

Aww, don't be nasty to the cute little button, it only wants to help!
Wave to Dammie, little button...

hmm.... maybe you're right?
The purple bar levels are:
0-10 posts "Just popped in"
10-20 posts "Finding my feet"
20-30 posts "Getting there"
30-40 posts "ooo this is exciting"
40-50 posts "Look at meee"
50-100 posts "You looking at me?"
100-200 posts "Boy, can I type!"
200-300 posts "I need to get out more"
300-400 posts "A slave to my art"
400-500 posts "I've got chair sores"
500-1000 posts "Super human rambling"
1000+ posts "Godlike"
you also get a free 'full up' bar if you are a site mod, or administrator.
I was trying to revise my logo idea with something that didn't just represent the female form but still looks attractive to the male newbie crowd... how does everyone feel about having Marmalaid's previous avatar as a logo? lol
Isn't 'Vanilla' (along with 'Munch') a word we've borrowed from the BDSM community? If you don't like it, go blame them.... and watch out for the whips!
Clearly someone who hasn't got that song running through thier head then!
"Well I'm aware that the guy must do his work
But the piledriver man drove me berserk.
He said captain
I said wot
He said captain
I said wot
He said captain
I said wot
He said captain
I said wot d'ya want"
etc.
and right at the end of the fade out of the 12" extended version "Wot the fuck do you want?"
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To my mind Flash has always been a bit sexless and I think the sex bit is obviously an important part of the site. Having said that I also found the lumpy 'slightly unnatural' arty original suggestion to be unsexy too.

Have to admit I agree, but I found it very difficult to do 'sexy' in under 142 pixels without being very gender specific, too graphic (!), or a going bit 'wishy-washy'. There's a lot of high impact stuff going on around the logo, so I went big and bold to shout loudest, and sacrificed the sexiness.
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...I'm told there's a few graphic designers here so feel free to post your alternatives.

Never one to resist a challenge....
Here's a first attempt at refreshing the site logo. I've restricted myself to something that would drop very simply into the current site design, so the size and background are carried over from the current logo. From what's been said in this thread (well, the serious bits, at least!) I think something big, bright and bold is needed, maybe to match the larger than life personalities we have round here. I've kept to the angelic theme, but concentrated on readability and simplicity. While design by committee is rarely successful, I'm more than willing to revise and redo based on comments in this thread if people want to chip in!
Actually, the same idea could be used to measure male size in cubic centimetres, simply pop your todger into a full 1l measuring jug and see how much water has been displaced.
Taking this a stage further, we could combine the male and female measurements to match up 'perfect fit' partners!
It's the future of net dating sites, I tell you!
Quick! To the patent office! bolt
You can't legislate personal preferences - if a particular skin colour, gender, size or shape is what you are looking for, then no amount of politically correct arguing is going to change that.
Would you say it's sexist for a man to adverise for a woman not another man?
It'snotracist to ask for someone who fits your preferences, which is why there are some ads that specify black only, and others that specify no blacks. All races are treated equally here, because all races have the identical right to say yes or no to any other.
Posts or adverts that are racially offensive (which is an entirely different matter), are not tolerated here.
As for your comment on cock size... you went and checked everyone, did you?
There's no real substitute for watching over the shoulder, but a good place to start researching is ... you might recognise the logo!