At the time of writing, there are 6811 registered forum users who have never posted anything at all. That's about 45% of all the members. Another 2681 people have only managed 1 post.
Am I the only one who wonders what the deal is with that?
Join the most popular community of UK swingers now
Login
Mr_D_and_HotTart
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Male, 57
Bisexual Female, 62
0 miles · Hereford and Worcester
Forum
I think it's usually worth putting in a serious and considered reply to posts even if they are wind-ups (btw, I'm not suggesting that this one is!).
The archive of this board is a great resource for newbies to browse, and like all sites, there are more non-contributors reading than people who actually post, so leaving some good advice in the archive is a good thing even if it's not useful to the person who made the original post.
The archive of this board is a great resource for newbies to browse, and like all sites, there are more non-contributors reading than people who actually post, so leaving some good advice in the archive is a good thing even if it's not useful to the person who made the original post.
I'm not sure that grammar is the real issue here.
For me, it's the thought put into a post that counts. I'm only annoyed by bad grammar, text-speak or bad spelling if it's clearly symptomatic of laziness, an 'oh, that'll do' attitude to taking part in the discussion.
It's usually quite easy to spot posts where errors are present, but they are genuine unintentional mistakes, and the content is still thoughtful and interesting. We all make mistakes from time to time, especially in the heat of discussions, and sometimes it's more important to strike while the iron is hot rather than go and look up the spelling of a long word or two!
For me, it's the thought put into a post that counts. I'm only annoyed by bad grammar, text-speak or bad spelling if it's clearly symptomatic of laziness, an 'oh, that'll do' attitude to taking part in the discussion.
It's usually quite easy to spot posts where errors are present, but they are genuine unintentional mistakes, and the content is still thoughtful and interesting. We all make mistakes from time to time, especially in the heat of discussions, and sometimes it's more important to strike while the iron is hot rather than go and look up the spelling of a long word or two!
This might not be the most popular thing to say round here, but Swinging isn't for everyone. If your wife would rather cry herself to sleep than be 'unfaithful', then either she's just not the sort of person who wants this lifestyle, or she's not missing 'sex', or she's missing sex with you and a subsitute won't do.
Maybe she's worried that if it's ok for her to look elsewhere then you will do the same when you are better? Maybe she's worried she'll fall in love with the other man... there are a million reasons not to swing, which is why most people don't do it.
I don't know how you work this one out, but I'm not convinced that finding her a temporary partner is the answer.
I don't know the extent of your illness either, but with hands, a tongue, and the link on the left titled 'Sex Toys', you should be able to work out some way to satisfy her immediate needs without involving a third party.
Maybe she's worried that if it's ok for her to look elsewhere then you will do the same when you are better? Maybe she's worried she'll fall in love with the other man... there are a million reasons not to swing, which is why most people don't do it.
I don't know how you work this one out, but I'm not convinced that finding her a temporary partner is the answer.
I don't know the extent of your illness either, but with hands, a tongue, and the link on the left titled 'Sex Toys', you should be able to work out some way to satisfy her immediate needs without involving a third party.
Trains are simply not an efficient and cost effective way of moving things. They are always either overcrowded or half empty, one breakdown takes out a whole line because they can't go round each other, and it's usually cheaper to fly somewhere rather than take a train there!
If we wanted to do something to improve transport and relieve congestion, concreting over the railway lines and letting us drive on them would be good start.
If we wanted to do something to improve transport and relieve congestion, concreting over the railway lines and letting us drive on them would be good start.
:roll: 
I believe that you can formally reject a caution, and force the police to either retract it, or go to court (which they can't do as you've not commited an offence).
It might be worth looking into this, since a caution stays permanently on your record... googling didn't find me any good advice on this though.
It might be worth looking into this, since a caution stays permanently on your record... googling didn't find me any good advice on this though.
I think there are issies with the temporary 'camming thread' solution, in that it's not as well signposted as a complete forum would be, and ads there only last for 1 day, not for the 30 days that you get in the photo ads section.
I think a 'lets cyber' forum might be the best solution, where people can advertise for cam sessions (on , msn or any other IM software) AND for text-only sessions, which don't really have a proper home on SH.
Remember the 'SH orgy' thread? That would have a semi-permanent place there, I think, which might bring the cam and forum communities closer together, which would be a good thing. Also, regular cammers could bump their threads as they see fit, rather than having to repost every day as they currently do.
As for 'cluttering up the forums', this option would give our hard-working forum mods the chance to use the same'move this to the right forum' feature that they already use for inappropriately placed threads, and those of us not interested in that kind of thing could simply ignore the whole area, in the same way some of us already skip the dogging forum.
I think a 'lets cyber' forum might be the best solution, where people can advertise for cam sessions (on , msn or any other IM software) AND for text-only sessions, which don't really have a proper home on SH.
Remember the 'SH orgy' thread? That would have a semi-permanent place there, I think, which might bring the cam and forum communities closer together, which would be a good thing. Also, regular cammers could bump their threads as they see fit, rather than having to repost every day as they currently do.
As for 'cluttering up the forums', this option would give our hard-working forum mods the chance to use the same'move this to the right forum' feature that they already use for inappropriately placed threads, and those of us not interested in that kind of thing could simply ignore the whole area, in the same way some of us already skip the dogging forum.
Maybe I'm old fashioned, but I've always believed that a gentleman should offer to pay for things, and a lady should then offer to split things 50/50, and after a brief protest from the man, then this is what's agreed on, unless one party is clearly more wealthy than the other.
It's one of those manners things - like holding a door open for a lady, or wearing a tie - it's rather pointless if you analyse it, but it's 'the done thing'.
It's one of those manners things - like holding a door open for a lady, or wearing a tie - it's rather pointless if you analyse it, but it's 'the done thing'.
.