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5 Apr 2007

Quote by Mr-Powers
sorry i dissagree....all gingers should be put on a island and forgotten about!

Quote by Mr-Powers
there is no place for gingers in our society...send them all to Scotland!

:shock: :shock: :shock:
Send us back to Scotland - some of us prefer to stay here in England and annoy the shit out of people with a red hair predjuduce :smug: :evil2:
:giggle: :giggle:
TJ innocent

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4 Apr 2007

If it is the same or similar article that was in last Saturday's Independant magazine, then the author's name is Ewan Morrison.
From a vague skim read of the article it did appear to put swinging into a more balanced view, explaining the terminology, etiquette etc.
The novel is titled Swung and published by Jonathon Cape on 5th April price
No affiliation with it, never met the guy, just happened to find the magazine lying around at work and read it yesterday :lol2:
TJ
Oh and if I'm not allowed to post those details here, pleae feel free to give me a Jag's slap and edit my post ;-)

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3 Apr 2007

Quote by Maria_tgirl
Shouldn't longer notice be given or do ops have something against the cd/tv room?

There are no set time limits for room closures - most of us work to a self regulated 30 second rule of thumb, but if we are busy and have lots of things going on at the same time, we cannot possibly sit and count the seconds down on a timer - it is neither practical or possible in such cases confused

We could just boot a room without warning if we felt it absolutely necessary - doesn't happen often, but it is something that may be done if appropriate.
30 seconds is actually quite generous - it gives ample time to leave for another room and you will find the new chatrooms will only give a 10 second warning when the host leaves and the room will close automatically.
Having said that, even after posting a 30 second warning, by far the majority of room members will completely ignore the warning, carry on chatting as if nothing had happened and then look suprised when they find themselves booted into another room on closure of the one they were in :?
Not suggesting this is the case for you, but it does happen all the time rolleyes

cv/tv rooms are not treated any differently than other rooms, which I am sure you will find out if you happen to frequent any of them.
Phone requests are not permitted anywhere on the chatroom servers, as set out in the rules.
People may face being banned from the site if they are found to persistantly ask or offer phone sex in chatrooms.
TJ

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1 Apr 2007

Quote by flower411
Well !! with all the misunderstandings in here, I hope nobody interpreted my comment as meaning Woo was girly :shock: :shock:
Cos if they did, I really am in trouble this time !!!!!

Well isn't he? dunno

:bolt:
Luvs ya Woo kiss

;-)

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1 Apr 2007

Quote by flower411
Well Flower
I've got my eye on you, so watch out mate,............

And anyway, Mrs f isn`t one for the macho type, she likes her men a bit girly :giggle: :giggle:
Now, now lads, calm down or it will be handbags at 20 paces :lol2:
TJ ;-)

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31 Mar 2007

Quote by flower411
I`m not really a bad person ... honest

'Course you're not - just a little misunderstood huh? :grin:
passionkiss

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31 Mar 2007

Quote by flower411
OH BTW please don`t tell Red that I said we don`t pay attention when we hosting a room :lol: :lol:

Some wise words from you Flower - makes a refreshing change ;-)
TJ :lol2: xxx

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31 Mar 2007

Quote by Stormwalker
Nice to speak to all the old hands and virgins who put in an appearance

Ahh, so you noticed me then :smug:
:P wink

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30 Mar 2007

Quote by vodka_babe22uk
passes red a and some biccys
you have been busy
cant find a pouffe for you to put your feet up tho
will search for a hunk instead for you :giggle:

Quote by vodka_babe22uk
passes red a :coffee: and some biccys
you have been busy
cant find a pouffe for you to put your feet up tho
will search for a hunk instead for you :giggle:

So is that two hunks for me? :twisted: :rascal:
Cheers Voddy :giggle: kiss

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29 Mar 2007

Acts between consenting adults on cam are fine as long as they are LEGAL - nothing involving animals, minors, drugs etc
TJ

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29 Mar 2007

Quote by Ukwineman
you said you cant boot someone for their gender so as a single male you CANT boot me out of a couples room?

That is correct. Single males should not be booted unless thay are causing a problem.
Having said that, if a title clearly states its a couples room, it is slightly ill mannered of single guys to go in there for a nose around when there are many other rooms they can chat or cam in without being made to feel like a leper. Not having a dig at you btw smile

Strangely enough, when logged in with my non op account a few days ago (its a couples account), I got booted out of a room which was titled *couples and bi fems* - because my profile states that I am not a bi fem confused

Even we get some stick at times, but on this ocassion it was not a good move :lol2:
Sooo, if anyone does get booted on account of their status or gender, please let one of the ops know and we will pop along and deal with it.
TJ

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29 Mar 2007

That's correct - rooms with no directing in the title means no directing. Anyone directing in such rooms will be warned and then booted if they persist.
Persistant directors will also be banned from the site for a period of minimum 24 hours and anything in between that and permanent.
Regarding whispering in rooms, which some people may not object to receiving whispers, by far the vast majority of members find it intrusive, so this is taken directly from the guidlines of hosting a room
Whispering without permission is not acceptable in ANY room. Do not put whispers accepted in the title of your room as you will find that the room wil be closed without
warning!!!!
So if you want a room with no whispers in it, say so in the title.
If a room does not have it in the title, then whispering is permitted provided the member wishing to whisper asks first.
All admin rooms - Beach Bar, Jacuzzi, Pool, Overflow etc are automatically no whispering without permission rooms as per the site rules.
So basically, if a room says no whispering that means no whispering - even if you ask first :lol2:
All other rooms are to be considered ask before you whisper rooms ;-)
TJ

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29 Mar 2007

Quote by Marya_Northeast
Excellent! I'm off to the "No singles" room then

Good idea Marya - all the singles will be in the couples rooms and all the other rooms will be packed to bursting with couples ;-) :lol2:
TJ

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29 Mar 2007

To be honest room titles mean very little - for instance, you can put "No single males" "No pudding pullers" etc and they would still come into the rooms, purely to see what they might be missing confused

However, the rules state that you cannot boot someone on account of their status or gender etc.
So whilst you may prefer not to have a certain element of members in a room, it is best not to boot them out unless they are casuing problems with harrassment or whatever - otherwise you may risk a ban being placed on your own account for abuse of the room host facility.
TJ

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29 Mar 2007

Some people set their status to show them as off line.
Others may show as off line if they have not been active on the forum for a time of around 25 minutes, after which, the systems automatically logs you out of the site, but not of the chatrooms.
TJ

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29 Mar 2007

Quote by Marya_Northeast
So that guy who had his mates on cam with him, got kicked for no good reason?

I am not aware of the incident you refer to, but it may well have been if his mates were acting irresponsibly or not within the guidelines of the AUP, that the room host/op made a decision to boot them from the room.
It is not unknown for guys to bring their mates back from the pub late at night or sign in on their work pc/cam during daytimes and start acting like idiots at the first sight of a fem on cam.
Believe me, I have witnesses such behaviour and it is not only degrading and often abusive towards the fem, it can be disruptive to the whole room.
Members should be aware that such behaviour will not be tolerated and they are at risk of a ban if things get out of hand.
TJ

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28 Mar 2007

You can have other people on your cam, providing they are aware of the rules and agree to stick to them.
You cannot use the cam in an internet cafe or at work, where people may be in the background and without their knowledge of being on your cam in a swingers web site :shock: lol

What you cannot have is someone else using the pc to type on your account, even if you are there with them on cam.
Only the account holder can use the account - even if you are both members under seperate accounts etc
TJ

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27 Mar 2007

Please pass the details to me by pm only and I can deal with it for you and confirm or not if the person you spoke to is gen smile

TJ

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25 Mar 2007

Quote by flower411
Ffs red what are we gonna do about those conspiracy therioists !!!
Maybe they should all be banned :giggle:

:shock: :shock: But there would be no one left!
Besides it's amusing to see the variation on conspiracies - it makes you wonder where the heck they dig the ideas up from :lol2:
wink

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25 Mar 2007

Several rooms have crashed tonight, one of which I was in lol

I also had an irrate member accuse me of closing their room when that one crashed too confused

It's no conspiracy - just server blimps smile

TJ

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24 Mar 2007

Quote by AtomCom2001
Problem is though I do not like the idea of hanging around in a carpark with loads of other men wait for a possible couple or female to turn up. This to me is like old men in macs.

Sorry Andy, but that is what dogging is all about - hanging around on the off chance of seeing a good show etc.
If you feel it all about the dirty mac brigade, then I doubt this pass time is really for you confused

TJ

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20 Mar 2007

For your information the kind of people who have been banned for activity in panty rooms are *wrong* in both legal and social terms.
I'm not sure that being cd/tv/ts is either socially or legally wrong rolleyes

TJ

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19 Mar 2007

How about the humble *grub screw* . . . . . is that when you nip home at lunch time for a quicky? :twisted: :lol2:
TJ

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17 Mar 2007

Server two is having some technical problems, but admin are aware of it and doing their best to sort it out as we speak smile

TJ

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15 Mar 2007

I won't go into specifics, but suffice to say we have had some serious matters arise in relation to panties and their various fetish uses, which are not welcome on this site.
Anyone who opens such rooms will now be advised of this new rule.
Continued opening of such rooms will result in a ban from the site.
TJ

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12 Mar 2007

:lol: :lol: I shouldn't laugh, but it reminded me of the time my sister tried to dye her hair from mousey brown to a vibrant shade of red . . . . her hair turned orange and when she tried to bleach it out, her hair turned GREEN
She was such a cocky madam and it made my day - well my week actually 'cos that's how long she had to take off school until she could find a dye that would eventually cover most of it up :giggle:
Sorry Missy, it's a lost cause trying to be super mum to teens - they just think you're sad for trying to hard - and if she is anything like my sister - she will go to school and tell them all her mum did it on purpose to ruin her life because she's old and jealous of her :silly:

:rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Oh and not sure if it will work on bleached hair, but Boots sell a hair dye remover. Cost about £5, but may be easier just to re-dye her hair ;-)
TJ

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6 Mar 2007

Quote by Too Hot
but there is a secondary question why are so many Swingers also smokers?

Probably because they are first and foremost, part of the general population that smokes - swinging being secondary ;-)
TJ

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6 Mar 2007

Quote by Drewxcore
Due to a few individuals i will no longer be opening forum chat as an open chatroom. I will be making it password protected and only sending it out to slected people.
Pisses me off that its come to this.

If you have any specific complaints, please let one of the chat op's know.
There were several of us on line last night. Perhaps next time you could contact us and we can deal with it right away ;-)
TJ

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5 Mar 2007

Ooh! poor Mr NE kiss

Hope you soon feeling much better and if you want a bed bath, give me a shout :twisted:
TJ xxxxxx

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4 Mar 2007

I have a rare blood group (B-)and used to give blood four times a year and plasma twice a year.
Clocked up 24 units and was presented with shiny badge as a trophy :P lol

However, after the birth of our twins I had to receive a transfusion of 6 units.
This means I am no longer eligable to give blood as one of the criteria is that you can't give blood if you have had a transfusion since 1980.
I can understand caution being the key, but in the case of a rare blood group, you would think they could screen each donor so that they could still donate as necessary.
I have had several transfusions after surgery and am thankful that some people are able to give blood . . . . .
They must be Nuns or Monks though if they fit all the criteria laid down for donors - no sex with bi men, no this, no that, certainly none of the other ;-) :lol2:
TJ

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