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Whilst the title and location may not be specific to within a given map grid reference, the rules do state that loctions must be kept out of titles.
Because we have rooms with titles such as the one this thread is referring to, it gives other members the idea that they too can use locations too and it would not be the first time rooms have been closed with such specific locations as to pin point an actual address, street name, car park etc - everything except the post code :shock:
Sure we don't all know the area in the thread, but that does not make it acceptable to use.
I didn't know the street or car park in the other room I mentioned, but it didn't stop me closing it
TJ
Because we have rooms with titles such as the one this thread is referring to, it gives other members the idea that they too can use locations too and it would not be the first time rooms have been closed with such specific locations as to pin point an actual address, street name, car park etc - everything except the post code :shock:
Sure we don't all know the area in the thread, but that does not make it acceptable to use.
I didn't know the street or car park in the other room I mentioned, but it didn't stop me closing it
TJ
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Quote by LoadedShotGun
things are very quite where i have been going. thanks.
Gotta agree with that
We tried four places in the forest are last weekend on an unplanned trip out and apart from one with it's resident white van man (I'm sure that guy *lives* there :shock: ) no one else was around
The only place we didn't try was one that is known locally for a lot of problems and that one was full of cars when we drove past, but we didn't go in due to it's reputation :lol:
Maybe the cold snap has kept forest dwellers indoors at night? Other places seemed pretty much as normal, so it may be worth you venturing out of the forest
TJ
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All our sons are in their 20's now, but when they were that age one of them steadfastly refused to go out on *family outings* - shopping, cinema anything from the age of around 13 or 14.
We never pressed him into going and to be honest I thought it would push him away if we did.
However, by the time he got to 18 he had grown out of the *I wouldn't be seen dead with my parents in tow* thing and quite happily came along to the pub, family get togethers, parties etc.
It's their way of showing their independance and will blow over, but sadly it's the parents who feel the loss of the family unit as they have known it and is inevitable they will grow apart, at least for a time.
Let him have his wings. He will come back and be all the better for it
TJ
We never pressed him into going and to be honest I thought it would push him away if we did.
However, by the time he got to 18 he had grown out of the *I wouldn't be seen dead with my parents in tow* thing and quite happily came along to the pub, family get togethers, parties etc.
It's their way of showing their independance and will blow over, but sadly it's the parents who feel the loss of the family unit as they have known it and is inevitable they will grow apart, at least for a time.
Let him have his wings. He will come back and be all the better for it
TJ
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Quote by varca
I find it un-nerving that someone/people will do this and there is nothing that I can do about it should my desire be such that I don't want he/she/them to be able to.
I'm not really sure why you would find it un-nerving
Even if they contacted you and you subsequently blocked them from contacting you again, they could still view your profile.Maybe a lot of people are like me and just click to have a nosey at people's profiles
The only way to get around it is to clear your profile completely and have as little as possible showing, although that may be a disadvantage to you in the end, but if you're feeling that worried about it, just clean the slate and hope who ever it is stops looking.
Everything in the public domain is scrutinised all the time, but because we can't usually see who is doing it, we don't worry about it
Or you could always send a friendly pm to him/her/them and say you have noticed how often they look at your profile - might scare them off doing it again if you really don't want them doing it
:lol2:TJ
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Quote by Mal
Don't forget, 'he' is also a site member!!!!
Mal
Is he :eeek: :lol: Who is he???? I'm banning him
Only from the Chatroom!!! :lol:
Actually we do have the ability to ban from the whole site, for necessary cases - not that I am suggesting this is one, or that Fire meant it as anything more than a joke :wink:
TJ
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Quote by Tania
Also there is the matter of infection risk if the fister is not using gloves and even with gloves, there could still be infection through pushing dirty matter from the outside of a woman's genitals to the inside.
Dirty matter? :shock:
Surely if the womans genitals were *dirty* then even having a good old shag would push this *supposed* dirty matter inside too?
I'd also like to think that most people pay attention to their own personal hygiene and I find that remark mildly offensive tbh
I would imagine fisting whilst pregnant would have to be done extremley carefully and certainly not early on in the pregnancy.
I was pregnant with triplets and almost immediately after having sex one night, I began bleeding and lost one of the babies so I would not recommend fisting at all really, certainly not early on. It is easier than you think to miscarry
However, I suppose it would depend on the woman involved and how used to doing it she was. If she was able to relax enough to do, then perhaps a little later in a pregnancy, but would there be enough room to do it comfortably in the later stages when baby is pushing down into the birth canal?
TJ
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Quote by Shireen_Mids
Apparently you can pay a pount to get one drag of the razor on his legs etc, but a shot at his genitals :shock: :shock: :shock:
Whey hey put me down for a tenners worth :giggle:
That's another typo you missed as well TJ
:lol2:Aw shurrup you, I'm too busy queuing up for a tenners worth :twisted: :lol2:
TJ ;-)
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We don't watch it all night now, but when our kids were young it was quite an event and they loved to watch it.
We used to get snacks and party nibbles and they used to have a mini party atmosphere all night, but only one of them ever managed to stay awake to the end - other two were usually fast asleep on the couch :lol2:
Still love to see the silly and whacky things people do to raise money and a guy local to us is having his whole body shaved :shock: at the pub tonight for Children in Need
Apparently you can pay a pount to get one drag of the razor on his legs etc, but a shot at his genitals :shock: :shock: :shock:
Bet he's got a few razor cuts in the morning and I bet they don't show *that* live on TV :giggle:
TJ
We used to get snacks and party nibbles and they used to have a mini party atmosphere all night, but only one of them ever managed to stay awake to the end - other two were usually fast asleep on the couch :lol2:
Still love to see the silly and whacky things people do to raise money and a guy local to us is having his whole body shaved :shock: at the pub tonight for Children in Need
Apparently you can pay a pount to get one drag of the razor on his legs etc, but a shot at his genitals :shock: :shock: :shock:
Bet he's got a few razor cuts in the morning and I bet they don't show *that* live on TV :giggle:
TJ
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Quote by Juniper_couple
Ok - I will be the Guinea Pig :giggle: but only if i get the title of "mistress of pain" afterwards
Of course you will. We'll call you anything you like . . . . as long as you tell the truth and don't come on here saying it didn't hurt *too* much, when in point on fact you have no skin left on your shins or elsewhere :shock: :shock:
Newbies - don't you just adore how gullible some of them are?
;-) :rotflmao: :rotflmao: TJ
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Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
Juniper-couple and Redhot, please give us an update tomorrow night on the epilady.
BUT before I risk it, want to hear someone elses experience of having their hairs ripped out from the roots :shock: :shock:
:shock: Juniper we know who our friends are now - when they offer *us* to be the guinea pigs before they take the plunge ;-)
. . . . . actually, it's not a bad idea . . . . so if *you* don't mind going first juniper . . . . . I don't mind letting you :grin:
TJ :lol2:
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I'm watching with interest as I too have been toying with the idea of getting another epilator.
Had one about 20 years ago and after using it once, I threw it away because it hurt too much :grin:
I have tried Shireens choice and tried plucking, which does hurt a bit, but not overly so, but it leaves me with small red spots, which I'm sure would do nothing anyone venturing *down there*
Epilators basically pluck out the hairs (or do they RIP them out? :shock: ) so do they cause spots too?
I have tried exfoliating first, moisturising after, but still I'm plagued with feckin' spots
I'm off shopping tomorrow, so hopefully after reading this thread I may convince myself to go for it all over again, but like some others, I'd like to hear your recommendations please - we can call it the "Swinging Heaven Which Consumer Product Shall I Buy Only to Throw it Away After One Use" thread :giggle:
Thanks
TJ
Had one about 20 years ago and after using it once, I threw it away because it hurt too much
:grin:I have tried Shireens choice and tried plucking, which does hurt a bit, but not overly so, but it leaves me with small red spots, which I'm sure would do nothing anyone venturing *down there*
Epilators basically pluck out the hairs (or do they RIP them out? :shock: ) so do they cause spots too?
I have tried exfoliating first, moisturising after, but still I'm plagued with feckin' spots
I'm off shopping tomorrow, so hopefully after reading this thread I may convince myself to go for it all over again, but like some others, I'd like to hear your recommendations please - we can call it the "Swinging Heaven Which Consumer Product Shall I Buy Only to Throw it Away After One Use" thread :giggle:
Thanks
TJ
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Quote by de_sade
So, before I give my own testimony about bullying I would like to ask anyone out there in forum land who honestly believes that my behaviour to them (so that doesn't mean someone piping up "yeah, but what about when you said so-and-so to whatisface..? ") I will personally apologise to them.
Surely if someone felt bullied by you, then they would be unlikely to send you a pm asking for an apology?
Victims of bullying seldom confront their bullies, but as a chatop we deal with such behaviour all the time.
People will approach someone they know will help them, not the bully themself because it may turn in their face and future behaviour will escalate further to cause more upset in my experiece.
TJ
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After a break of several months, Jon and I are finally back in action :twisted:
However, a last minute chance to pop out last night meant that we re-visited a few places, one of which we had not used for almost a year.
:shock: My God! We were horrified at the amount of rubbish left behind by some of the people there
Tissues galore, wet wipes, condoms, drink bottles, take away boxes, cigarette packets etc . . . . . FFS!
What is wrong with these people: :!:
We met with several guys up there and it would appear there are one or two new couples on the local scene in that area - but none of them take home the trash
Is it too much to ask that people carry a small bag (we use perfumed nappy sacks) to dispose of the rubbish afterwards?
When we last visited that particular place it was over run with Council wardens, Forest Rangers and the Police, which is hardly surprising if the doggers and showing couples leave all the trash behind and make it blindingly obvious what goes on there at night :roll:
Come on people - some of the local spots are also places that families go during the daytimes to walk dogs, children playing etc.
How would you feel, if your small child was playing in a patch of grass/sand/ whatever and came across a used condom or pile of dirty tissues/toilet roll?
Most public places have a bin or two (this one has FOUR!!!) - perhaps we could all try using them - and make dogging a better experience for all of us
TJ
However, a last minute chance to pop out last night meant that we re-visited a few places, one of which we had not used for almost a year.
:shock: My God! We were horrified at the amount of rubbish left behind by some of the people there
Tissues galore, wet wipes, condoms, drink bottles, take away boxes, cigarette packets etc . . . . . FFS!
What is wrong with these people
: :!: We met with several guys up there and it would appear there are one or two new couples on the local scene in that area - but none of them take home the trash
Is it too much to ask that people carry a small bag (we use perfumed nappy sacks) to dispose of the rubbish afterwards?
When we last visited that particular place it was over run with Council wardens, Forest Rangers and the Police, which is hardly surprising if the doggers and showing couples leave all the trash behind and make it blindingly obvious what goes on there at night :roll:
Come on people - some of the local spots are also places that families go during the daytimes to walk dogs, children playing etc.
How would you feel, if your small child was playing in a patch of grass/sand/ whatever and came across a used condom or pile of dirty tissues/toilet roll?
Most public places have a bin or two (this one has FOUR!!!) - perhaps we could all try using them - and make dogging a better experience for all of us
TJ
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Quote by northwest-cpl
As far as I'm aware you do not have to post an ad on this site. We have never posted an ad on this site.
Part of the join up process for new members means that they must fill in an ad - hence some of the ads show random letters with no content, just to get past that phase of the join up process - which then allows the membership process to be completed.
In other words if you don't fill out *something* on ad when joining, the system won't let you complete the process
TJ
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Quote by tigersgobounce69
The other issue is that RH said that you can have other people on cam with you but they cant use my/our account so in the heat of the moment and im say getting a double BJ and her hubby decides to type something that means an automatic ban cause someone else used my account.
Well then I would suggest you make it plaint to whomever is on cam view with you, that no matter what happens, bj's all round or whatever, that they don't use the pc.
It's an account holders responsibility to ensure the use of his/her account is only for own use - besides surely if the bj's were free flowing I'm sure the other hubby would have far better things tp do that type in the room :twisted:
TJ ;-)
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Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
i think im reading it right, i can have third parties on cam with us ... I have also read it that way but Im sure one of the experts from Chat will be along shortly to answer in more detail (I was only showing off cause I knew where the T&C's where) BUT I do think the important part of the sentance is the 'With Us' part ie not allowing anyone else to access your account
wrats
Correct NWC - you can have people on cam with you, but they cannot use your account - allowing someone else to use your account will result in your account being placed on a ban.
TJ
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Quote by gingerjo-lee
im going to arange a gang bang on cam all the guys will be members of this site and know that there going to be on cam
is this allowed ??
thanks jo
As long as they are all consenting to both the cam and the rules, then yes it would be permitted.
Usual rules would apply - nothing illegal, under age guys etc, but apart from that - enjoy yourself :twisted:
It might be a good idea to get someone else to host the room for you though - you of course won't be in a position to keep control of it ;-)
TJ
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Quote by mazandden
The men who fought in WW1 and WW2 to help preserve freedom and create peace deserve all the respect we can give them.
I might point out that Remembrance Sunday is not only about the two world wars - it is one day in which servicemen and women who have died within any military conflict are to be honoured and remembered by the two minute silence.
TJ
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Quote by Jags
He told Mal I was 'horrible' to him. :shock: :shock:
*Horrible*
: I though you were rather fair given that none of us could get a drink because of his twatty antics . . . . . and incase you're interested he had hairy toes and manky toe nails :!: EEUUUWWWWWW!!!!!!!!!!!!! :scared: :lol2: 
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Quote by Jags
MORE worried about Richard's knees though.
:lol: :lol: Didn't you see him the following morning? He got chucked out of the restaurant for having bare feet :shock: :giggle:If you thought he looked bad the night before . . . . next morning was - ahem - not a pretty sight :P
