Quote by Medic_1
For interest I am the one on the right of the pic holding the spade.
Phredd
:shock: You mean they actually HAD cameras when you were a lad Phredd?
Love the trousers btw - you certainly knew how to dress to impress ;-) :lol2:
TJ xxx
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Quote by earthchild
tuppence a bag?
Cor blimey! Bird food is cheap where you live (pretending I'm not old enough to remember those immortal words ;-) )
We spend around £30 a month on various food stuffs for birds, mealworms, dried insect mix, seeds of various kinds (they especially like Thistle seeds), peanuts and peanut cake, cheap sponge cakes from Asda crumbled up (no icing), cooked beef mince, grated mild cheese, dried raisins and sultanas (soak them overnight in a little water) as well as a few table scraps.
So despite having four cats, we get many different varieties of birds in our garden all year round. They are wonderful to watch and it gives a nice warm glow to know you're helping them through the year, especially during the colder months
TJ
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Quote by Pete_sw
any sign of a dog on the premises and they avoid it like the plague.
Its not 100% foolproof, but it really does cut down the odds on being burgled.
We once had a young lad climb over our back garden wall. He is well known in our local area for helping himself to other people's property
What he didn't reckon on was one of our dogs being in the garden. Standing at a mighty five inches high, 10 inches long and with a total body weight of around 6lbs, he dashed to the bottom of the garden, barking for all he was worth (about £450 actually :lol2
and the lad soon shot back over the wall and raced away like a scolded kitten :grin:Doesn't have to be signs of a big dog necessarily, the suggestion of any dog would probably work as well ;-)
TJ
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Most people don't bother to read rules or suggestions on behaviour, but if they wanted to, we already have this in place - it's at the top of this forum ;-)
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/30801.html
Besides, many guys out dogging do not frequent the net for rules on how to behave. They just go out to a car park and try their luck.
If they don't behave, they won't get lucky - simple as that really
TJ
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/30801.html
Besides, many guys out dogging do not frequent the net for rules on how to behave. They just go out to a car park and try their luck.
If they don't behave, they won't get lucky - simple as that really
TJ
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I can say in all honesty, I have never seen guys getting it on when out dogging. Had a queue waiting for my mouth to open, but never seen them go down on, or handle each other
A guy did once reach out for Jon's cock whilst watching, but he pushed him away before he could get hold and said no thanks, and the guy carried on with no offence and we all had a good time.
The only time I have ever seen guys interacting is on cam on here :lol:
TJ
A guy did once reach out for Jon's cock whilst watching, but he pushed him away before he could get hold and said no thanks, and the guy carried on with no offence and we all had a good time.
The only time I have ever seen guys interacting is on cam on here
:lol: TJ
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Quote by Jags
:shock: :shock: :shock: Quick Jags get your arse over here and slap me - hard
. . . . . please :twisted:
:giggle: :giggle: :giggle:
:kick: :kick: You should know better!
I know. I consider myself suitably chastised . . . . . . . but it's fun to be controversial sometimes innit lammy? :grin:
TJ :wink:
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Quote by BiWelshMinx
Vote Lammypie for room op... you wanna, you know you do, and we is good now, we is real good, we promise, we like eveyone we do, just ask around
T-J!!!! Now look what you've done!!! :shock:
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: ;)
:shock: :shock: :shock: Quick Jags get your arse over here and slap me - hard
. . . . . please :twisted:
:giggle: :giggle: :giggle:
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Quote by Jags
i dont think im alone in this situation , and wondered how many other people turn to swinging to find human contact.?
NOPE - this was the question which no-one has even tried to answer yet!!
Jags beat me to it :lol2:
Now where does this ask for advice? He's asking how many other people try swinging for some human contact.
I would say a vast number and from the amount of married people I have seen join over the last three years or so (and yes they have almost all been chastised by the lynch mobs
) then even someone who loves their wife/husband will eventually feel the most basic of human needs - a warm and kind embrace and some sexual contact.I know people will say it is cheating - but isn't the partner who denies any form of loving or sexual contact also denying their partner of the most basic instinct?
Why should the wife/husband who doesn't want or need sex anymore have the controlling factor in a relationship?
Monogamy is a Religion based ideal, thrust upon us by centuries of doctrine, not a natural human or animal one.
We who are supposed to be open minded on this site, often show our true colours when condeming others so quickly, whilst knowning little or nothing of their situations.
TJ
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Quote by sercher01
bet you cant guess
Would we want to guess? Does it really affect you personally that you have to be so judgmental? :?
Give the guy a break. As long as it doesn't affect you, I can't see that it's any of your business quite honestly
TJ
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Quote by lammypie-cpl
Sorry RedHot. That was not at all our intention, that's why no names were or will be mentioned. I'll retract the statement with immediate effect, and make thenecassary apologies to anyone that ws offended.
I was. Thank you.
Quote by lammypie-cpl
For the record though, if you'd like to know the details, I'd be happy to let you know.
I wouldn't. Idle gossip is not something I indulge in - ever.
TJ
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Quote by lammypie-cpl
Whilst we're sort off on the topic of chatrooms and ops, is it fair that certain memners seemto hv "influence" over some ops and use this "freindship" to get members they don't personally like banned? :shock:
:shock: :shock: :shock:
I can hardly believe what I am reading :!:
FFS! I have never read so much bullshit in my life
If you cannot substantiate this statement, and I have no doubt at all, that you cannot, I would like to see a retraction of it on this forum and SOON!
You are casting aspersions on each and everyone of the op's with that snide and groundless remark.
What a bitter and twisted view of things some people have
TJ
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Quote by GnV
An Op would have just closed it because they don't have the time to be interactive and calm things down. I measure our performance against being able to run a room without having to kick anyone - no matter what is going on.
:shock:
You have no idea how offended I am by that remark GnV As for your own performance as room hosts . . . . . Shut your mouth TJ and don't say a word :dry: :gagged:
TJ :undecided:
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Quote by 36openminded
Good point.
Could make some of the forum chat regulars into chatroom ops... (fire already is, but another might counteract the issue you describe).
Fire is an op for ALL rooms, not just the Forum one
Making forum room members an op, just to control that one room is a ridiculous suggestion - all op's have to float amongst ALL the rooms :?Besides, if members want to use a room which won't be closed, then they could use the admin rooms, Beach Bar, Jacuzzui, Pool, etc.
Once a certain group of people start suggesting they have a room which remains open after they have left, everyone would want it and since we often have as many as several hundred rooms at any given time to keep an eye on, it is beneficial to close those which do not have a host to control them, thus lightening our workload.
Easiest way to do it is if the current host wishes to leave, someone else can set up a new Forum room and host it. That way the chat can continue without interruption apart from the few seconds or so that it takes to open and move to a new room. Not hard really is it?
TJ
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Quote by Kiss
of course safe sex is my thing....but theres nothing wrong with getting head without a condom on when you know both of you are STI now is there x
What people do is their own choice of course - but when you talk about it in a forum you can't expect people not to have an opinion.
I think on this one I'll just :gagged:
No, say what your thinking....
Why?
For a debate to have any point people have to be open to listening or at least willing to listen.
I thought this thread was a little bit of light banter? I don't see the first post asking for opinions on whether it is right or wrong to use condoms?
Why does everything have to turn into a moral debate on this site?
TJ
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Quote by Mal
love to watch and play when invited
dying to try my camcorder on night vision
Knowing you have a 'night vision' camera is certainly not going to endear you to any doggers!!
Descretion!!
Mal
:wink:
Bloody right Mal :shock:
The only time anyone attempted to get me on a nightvision cam was an interesting event. He and the various bits of his machine left the car park in rather a hurry . . . . pity really 'cos he missed a fabulous show afterwards :grin:
TJ
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Quote by mr_york
the poll is to stop single guys getting a bad name on this site. This is the 5 couple to have cancelled with an hour to go before a meet.
If you have been let down by five couples, I would hazard a guess that at least a proporiton of those is actually a single male pretending to be a couple. It's far from uncommon.
I would also suggest you are either trying to rush into arrangements and not sussing out the other people well enough, or they are rushing you and then get cold feet?
Take you time and things will happen, but coming on here moaning isn't going to help you much
Get over it and move on. I'm sure someone will turn out to be right for you one day ;-)
TJ
