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Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 63
Straight Male, 65
UK

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If you have a specific complaint, please pm one of the chatroom op's (names in purple on front of forum) and we will deal with it directly.
Thank you.
TJ
Our thoughts are with you at this terribly sad time sad
Tracy-Jayne & Jon xxxx
No snow down in the sunny south, but it is flippin' freezin' :shock:
According to my car dashboard it's only 2 deg . . . . . brrr!!!
TJ
Quote by Manolishi
Apparently you cannot snore and dream at the same time, it's a medical impossibility........

That would account for why Jon seldom dreams then :lol2:
TJ xxx
Quote by sexkittenhfx
....... i dont think we have a vomiting icon lol

We don't - but you can have this one :lol2:

TJ ;-)
:bounce: A Very Happy Birthday! to the op's room tea boy :bounce: ;-)
TJ & Jon xxxxx
To the man who pervs my profile more than any other person on this site -
:bounce: HAPPY BIRTHDAY! :bounce:
TJ ;-) xxxxxxxx
Quote by Puntoben1986
so we up for tonight then are all u older ppl wink

Mature Ben, not old!! smackbottom
We're like fine red wine - mature, full bodied and go down well with a little meat :twisted:
Are we on for tonight? You bet ya! :rascal:
TJ ;-)
Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
Dont worry about us old farts

They do say, many a good tune is played on an old fiddle :twisted: ;-)
:lol2: :lol2:
TJ - happy to be still fiddling and playing a tune innocent
Quote by Linkin27
freedom of speech any1?!

There is no such thing as freedom of speech. It's a myth and in any event - what is being referred to in this thread is downright abuse of members.
Freedom to chat is one thing - freedom to be abusive and be rude is quite another rolleyes
TJ
We're way past the *needing a babysitter* stage, but we know a bi fem who went for a meet with a couple - only for them to stop half way through the *event* for the woman to go and breastfeed her baby :shock:
Personally speaking we had built in baby sitters in the shape of my parents who lived with us, but had not yet discovered swinging or I would probably have returned home with a red face, knowing my mother would be up reading in bed redface :lol2:
She always used to wait up for us to return home safely - even when we were in out 30's :shock: Bless her!
TJ
:shock: :shock:
redface surprisedops: Sorry Sarah. I thought it was my dirty little secret . . . . . not that I have a drink problem *hic* you understand wink
I notice the mods are lightweights though and sticking to juice rolleyes . . . . . . . . Ah well, all the more beer to go around then :giggle:
TJ ;-)
Quote by Missy
if I start my diet now, lose 2 stone by Saturday

:shock: If you find a diet that would work THAT quick - for feck sake send me a copy of it - PLEASE :grin:
TJ xx
:bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: A Very Happy Birthday!
Love TJ & Jon xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Emoticons do not come in a pack - you have to type them manually.
The list is shown in on the *sticky* at the top of the threads in this forum - find it here biggrin
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/85897.html
TJ
Quote by mazandden
Anyway, last night we thought it would be a good cheesy night,

Following on from Londonplaything's post, I am wondering if this is where the crus of the matter lies?
Perhaps your idea of a *cheesy* night, may have been perceived by other club members as taking the piss? dunno
Let's face it, if a group of lesbians went into a straight bar, they would have jibes and snide comments thrown at them all night long, hence their preference to stay in their own clubs and bars, without the hassle of *outsiders*.
For various resons, some people prefer to segregate themselves in these bars - and who are we to blame them, when in general attitudes to alternative sexuality are so poorly perceived?
TJ
The rooms showing o occupants are ghost rooms and not actually there, if you get my meaning :lol2:
If you log on to another server and go back to server one, you should in theory bring up a list of the rooms which are actually there.
If not, you'll just have to chose from the rooms on servers two and three and join one of those - or you could always open your own of course if none take your fancy ;-) lol
Server one has been having some blimps again since yesterday. Admin are aware and working on it.
TJ
Quote by lucyweebaps-cpl
I was wondering if either of us want to be on Cam by ourselves is this allowed??

Yup!
Quote by lucyweebaps-cpl
just curious as I was told it's not allowed as we are a cple and need to be on at the same time!..

Load of old tosh Lucy lol
Although having said that I do know that some room hosts in couples rooms often ask that both parties be on cam, to cut out the single men posing as couples rolleyes
One of you, or both of you on cam is up to yourselves - not the room host or anyone else for that matter ;-)
TJ
Quote by BiWelshMinx
can I just ask why at the bottom of the forum we have 'forum', 'lets meet up' and 'dogging' dunno not the chatroom forum :dunno:

Just to make us work for it ;)
can tell you work hard hun in them servers you have to lol can see why peeps post chatroom stuff in the forum though now. At first I didn't know where to post until I pm'd a nice mod kiss
Obviously that wasn't Jon then :giggle:
:kiss:
rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :mrgreen:
Quote by thewet1
If these persons are found out is it wrong of me to think they should be outed??

In my opinion, yes it is very wrong to suggest these people are *outed* :shock:
You may chose not to get involved with such folk, but at the end of the day, what the heck has it got to do with you anyway?
What other people get up to is entirely their own business. They make their own life choices, good or bad, as do we all.
I should hate to think other people are sitting in judgement of others on this site. Surely as a sexually liberated group, we get enough of that in the outside vanilla world don't we? confused
I might also point out, we do not condone naming and shaming on this site, in any shape or form :?
Oh and what has this got to do with the Chatroom? rolleyes
TJ
Quote by Tom29uk
Stop trolling if you have no interest in the topic. Bit pointless.

:shock: :shock: :shock:
Ooh! Better look out mate . . . . . .
bolt
Quote by Shireen

I was just going to say Sarah - 7000 miles - is that all? confused
:giggle: :giggle:
TJ

Never look a gift horse in the mouth TJ wink :giggle:
rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Quote by Shireen
Ok
Cooked beef casserole and herb dumplins last night and that has all gone as well lol

rolleyes We had that last night too - if I'd known you were cooking some I'd have sent Jon round to your's and saved myself the bother :grin:
TJ
Send him round, just remember I am 7000 miles away :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
That might just be far enough eh TJ?? wink :lol2:
I was just going to say Sarah - 7000 miles - is that all? confused
:giggle: :giggle:
TJ
Quote by Sarah
Ok
Cooked beef casserole and herb dumplins last night and that has all gone as well lol

rolleyes We had that last night too - if I'd known you were cooking some I'd have sent Jon round to your's and saved myself the bother :grin:
TJ
Quote by little gem
Surely if it's anyone is welcome in any room then why allow specific categories to be written in the first place? dunno

People open rooms to express their preference of whom they would like in there - couples wanting other couples for example - otherwise there would just be multiple general chat rooms.
At least by making it clear in a room title about who the room is aimed at, you would at least get some of the type of people you wanted to chat to in there - as well as a few others ;-)
Allowing members to open their own rooms gives more freedom of choice unlike the old mirc room where everyone was all in one room smile
TJ
/edit - minxy beat me to it - must be the speed of youth ;-) :lol2:
Quote by Medic_1
wink
This may help to clarify the problem >>>>
Was trying to keep this one from you just to torment lol >>>>>>

It was opened in error and found to contain the following items :-

3 servers
6 clusters
1 maintenance engineer (pissed)
Stolen from another post in the "Cafe" :lol2:
Phredd

Oi! Phredd! That was mine!!! Chinese giver evil
rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
No racist remarks intended :wink: lol
The facility to ignore whispers will be a feature of the new chatrooms biggrin
TJ