Quote by Freckledbird
Obviously a private event??
I like private events :twisted:
I prefer public ones :twisted:
TJ
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Aww! Sean! Hope you feel better soon, but in the meantime try asking your chemist for some of this - Ultra chloraseptic anaesthetic throat spray.
Dulls the pain whilst working to kill the bugs which caused it. If not gone within a few days, I'd go for the anti-biotic options, but give this a try first
TJ xxxxx
Dulls the pain whilst working to kill the bugs which caused it. If not gone within a few days, I'd go for the anti-biotic options, but give this a try first
TJ xxxxx
Sex God
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: Although I must confess I did buy one of my dogs a Santa's reindeer outfit several years ago, complete with gold sparkly horns and bells hanging from them
:roll: Needless to say, what seemed funny at the time, was acutely embarrassing on delivery, so the dog never got to wear the thing
:lol2:TJ
Sex God
Quote by sexytam
i am crrrently serving a 24 hour ban from the chat room for offensive behaviour,
So what purpose does coming on here moaning about it serve?
If you have a genuine grievance, please go through the appropriate channels and contact one of the chatroom op's or admin.
Perhaps if you had reported the person who you felt made unsuitable comments, rather than resorting to abuse, you would not have been banned in the first place
TJ
Sex God
Quote by louise_and_joe
Well you definately cannot get 1/2 penny sweets anymore. Or penny sweets.
Ooh! We have a lovely shop near us which still sells old fashioned penny sweets
They do seem a lot smaller nowadays though
Have a look here and set your self up to dribble and drool your way through your childhood all over again
Petrol! that has got to be one of the biggest prices hikes over the years. I can remember my dad moaning at it being 35p a gallon back in the early 70's :shock: :lol2:
Sex God
Quote by lust4life02
pay a membership fee for extras like the chattroom
You don't pay extra for the chatroom. Access to chat is a standard feature of a fully paid membership, or a free membership if you are one of those who have one.
As has been said, the new chatroom is now being tested and will be with us fairly soon, so hang on there
TJ
Sex God
Quote by funfor2sw
when will the new system be here someone said it was under test
and was rolling this week or last week?
The new chatrooms are currently being tested by the op's and admin. They were rolled out to us last Monday for an approximately two week trial for us to test and find any blimps that may still be on them.
Hang on a little longer guys - they are on the way - honestly
TJ
Sex God
Quote by Shadowrider1963
most people on this site are experienced and follow the rules I don't think you need the aid of bodygaurds as you dictate what happens.
That may be so (debateable) but what about other guys who may be out there and do not know or wish to follow any *rules* ?
Not everyone is a member of SH and abides by the *rules* of dogging. In this day and age lone women need to be careful, so taking a guy along incase things get out of hand is no bad thing is it? :confused:
TJ
Sex God
Quote by DeeCee
am i missing the point............???
is there one?
The original poster most certainly is
The *no fees fun* refers to charging for sexual services or activity - ie, this is a swingrs site, not a prostitution service :?
Paying to be a member *of this site* is a different kettle of fish altoghether - it's all about the context in which that phrase is read and tweeky clearly is reading something which is not there
TJ
Sex God
Having recently worked on a research project which covered consanguinity laws, I found it complex and changeable.
Consanguinity laws are based on the teachings of the Bible and this one may relate to the case in the original post of this thread - a tad extreme don't you think? :shock:
However, rules which were changed in 1907 and again in 1921 and 1949, mean that a son can marry his husband's previous wife, *provided* that as a child he was not bought up by the husband's wife as one of her own children - thus if Dad met and married a woman when the son was an adult - son and wife could then legally carry on a relationship - *but* if Dad married the woman when the son was a child and he was bought up by the new wife, then his relationship would not be legal in terms of having a relationship with her, since she would then be considered his step mother and not just his father's wife - confused? Aren't we all :silly: :lol2:
Basically it's not illegal, it's not immoral, but it may be a bit close to home for most of us :lol:
TJ
Consanguinity laws are based on the teachings of the Bible and this one may relate to the case in the original post of this thread - a tad extreme don't you think? :shock:
Leviticus, Chapter 20, verses 11-21
11. And the man that lieth with his father’s wife hath uncovered his father’s nakedness : both of them shall surely be put to death ; their blood shall be upon them.
However, rules which were changed in 1907 and again in 1921 and 1949, mean that a son can marry his husband's previous wife, *provided* that as a child he was not bought up by the husband's wife as one of her own children - thus if Dad met and married a woman when the son was an adult - son and wife could then legally carry on a relationship - *but* if Dad married the woman when the son was a child and he was bought up by the new wife, then his relationship would not be legal in terms of having a relationship with her, since she would then be considered his step mother and not just his father's wife - confused? Aren't we all :silly: :lol2:
Basically it's not illegal, it's not immoral, but it may be a bit close to home for most of us :lol:
TJ
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Quote by Kiss
for all the couples who don't want the singles, it just means more singles for me :twisted: :grin:
TJ
You tart!
:smug: :smug: :evil2:
Quote by Kiss
Or should couples advertise for 'dogging' fun for couples only int the LMU? I'm not being pedantic - I am actually asking, as I don't wish to cause offence in future.
Well IMO they are asking for outdoor swinging so it should be in LMU, not dogging since that is not what they are asking for, but since more and more couples are now taking up an interest in their version of dogging, I daresay it's probably best to leave all outdoor persuits in one place, rather than all over the forum just for simplicity.
However, I AM being pedantic and saying outdoor sex, doesn't necessarily make it dogging :wink: :grin:
All that matters is that we all have fun in whatever form it takes :twisted:
TJ
Sex God
Quote by Kiss
I have to disagree. It's up to the 'doggers' themsleves as to who they want to go dogging with.
The doggers ARE the single guys
Showing couples is what you mean
I don't get the "We don't want single guys" bit either, but hey! for all the couples who don't want the singles, it just means more singles for me :twisted: :grin:
TJ
Sex God
Quote by Phil_dorset
We fancy doing a bit of 'light' dogging / outdoor soft swinging in the same area but don't fancy turning up at the publicised sites, having read here that some of these may have lots of single blokes about
Unless you can find another couple to arrange a soft swap with, you are *very* unlikely to come across another couple just by chance and even if you do, there is no guarantee that they will want to swap with you.
Dogging is about couples showing to single guys. Couples showing to other couples is not dogging, it's outdoor swinging
Jon and I have been very active over the last three years, but I can count on the fingers of one hand the amount of other couples we have seen dogging in that time in this local area.
Up until recent weeks, we were often out 3 or 4 nights a week, so if there were couples out there, we would have seen at least a few of them by now :?
If you don't want single guys, then I doubt dogging is for you, because to be honest you will find them by the cart load at almost every single car park around, but you won't find other couples.
As I have already said to you in pm, just because the single guys are out there, it doesn't mean you have to feel pressured into doing anything you don't feel comfortable with.
Just open your windows and speak to some of the guys. Most of them are human and will be more than happy to watch a show only. They are not all sex starved beasts expecting a shag from anything that has a pulse :shock:
We've met so many really nice guys and since some of them are still dogging with us after three years, which goes to show that they are not all dick heads out there lurking in the trees at night
If you want soft swap, you may be better to try arranging a meeting with another couple at a travel lodge or something because I doubt you will find what you want in car parks and even if you did, there would be hoardes of single guys all wanting to watch :wink:
TJ
Trojan you have a pm :wink:
Sex God
Quote by peterdw
There is the possibility that they were setting up another innocent couple by giving you the other people's street address. Perhaps they hoped to induce them to start swinging or maybe it was a nasty way of bullying the other couple.
That all sounds a tad extreme. Besides if the other couple were *innocent*, why would they not answer the door?
Unless you were avoiding someone deliberately, I'm sure most of us *would* answer an unexpected knock at the door - you never know it may be the man from Camelot with a big fat cheque for you
Sounds to me that they got cold feet. Liked the idea of swinging, but couldn't actually go through with it. Some people find the fantasy aspect much more thrilling that the reality :?
Sad really because not only does it give them a bad name, of course it also causes disruption to other people involved.
I wouldn't give it another thought. They are not worth your time and they are certainly not worth any more effort that you have already put into it.
TJ
Sex God
Maybe it's the neighbourhood posse :shock:
Last summer one of the car parks we used was *stacked out* by locals who were tired of the cars driving in and out all night, so they staged a protest . . . .
It is near a quiet retirement area so lots of oldies turned up, wrapped up warm against the cold night air, carrying flasks of coffee and standing around chatting in groups, they stood in the car park for several hours and shining their torches into the faces of every car that drove in - which is not a good idea when you're trying to see the area ahead and try not to knock someone down
They even shocked themselves by staying out well past 9pm and their usual bedtime ;-)
There were one or two Police there as back up, but sadly for them it failed to have the desired effect apart from the one night 'cos there's loads of doggers still going there every single night :grin:
TJ
Last summer one of the car parks we used was *stacked out* by locals who were tired of the cars driving in and out all night, so they staged a protest . . . .
It is near a quiet retirement area so lots of oldies turned up, wrapped up warm against the cold night air, carrying flasks of coffee and standing around chatting in groups, they stood in the car park for several hours and shining their torches into the faces of every car that drove in - which is not a good idea when you're trying to see the area ahead and try not to knock someone down
They even shocked themselves by staying out well past 9pm and their usual bedtime ;-)
There were one or two Police there as back up, but sadly for them it failed to have the desired effect apart from the one night 'cos there's loads of doggers still going there every single night :grin:
TJ
Sex God
Why would you want to log out and straight back in again? :dunno:I'm not sure why your button doesn't work, but maybe you're not giving it enough time to log you out? It takes a few seconds.
If all else fails and you want to log out, just close the chatroom window. That will log you out and make you wait for five minutes before you can log back in again, so at least you won't have that annoying feeling of still being logged in when you really wanted to log out . . . . . or did you?
:grin:TJ
Sex God
Quote by felixx1416
does and one have any experiance with or know of latex free condoms
I also have severe latex allergy and use Durex Avanti. It is the most commonly available one in supermarkets and chemists.
Mates also do a latex free one, but I found those tore very easily when being put on, so not very good for their intended purpose :shock:
Latex free condoms are actually a fair bit more expensive than their latex counterpart and whilst they are a bit thicker than *normal* condoms, I've never had anyone say they lost sensitivity with them - certainly they are easier to put on with your teeth than latex ones :twisted:
I'm not sure if they are available in clinics, but certainly my local practice only supply bog standard condoms, not latex ones at all :?
Latex allergy is certainly no fun, but it needn't mean you have to stop shagging
TJ
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Quote by haylan
ok,i would like to say that (name removed) was warned not once but twice that if she lowered the cam she would be kicked out of the room. as like most people i like to see a NICE yes NICE pair as much as the next when the chat is about cake making and roast lamb dinners the last thing i want to see some bristols
Simple solution to that is - don't open the cam link then :doh: No one forces you to watch the cams . . . .
Whether SW7 warned people or not is irrelevant - he seems to have abused his authority as room host by kicking them out of his room when they were not breaking any site rules, if what you say is correct
One thing I can see from a personal perspective is that there appear to be many people from that room who have an axe to grind . . . . and doing your dirty linen in public is not the way to go in my opinion
TJ
Sex God
Quote by Young_Swingers
Dont no what the answer is but guard dogs attack, thats y there there to attack and to warn off intruders, guard dogs dont get walks, treats, love and attention,
Quote by da69ve
This isn't purely a problem with guard dogs only!
That's true. My neighbour's child was attacked at the age of 20 months and scarred for life after the family pet tore half her face off in an unprovoked attack.
It was a Border collie and subsequently destroyed, but the child will carry the scars forever, both mentally and physically.
When she started school just over a year ago, she went through hell with all the other kids asking what was wrong with her face and it bought it all back to her
Dogs can never be trusted whether they are pets or otherwise. A dog is an animal and as such unpredictable, no matter how much love, attention and treats they get given
TJ
Sex God
Quote by EagerSlut
She just struck me as having an 'attitude' which came across as confrontational.
Pots and kettle here IMO. Maybe her attiutude was in retaliation to that which she was plainly receiving from some of the drivers out there? :undecided:
Quote by EagerSlut
You'd be suprised (unless you've driven a truck) how, even when you leave a safe braking distance between you and the truck in front, your forward vision of some obstruction ahead like that is masked until very late in the day. That can be compounded by someone who's too close to the one in front so has to swerve at the last second as they come into their vision. That obviously exaggerates eveyon'e reactions. Maybe that's what kicked off this chain reaction.
I have and at a guess, I would say that is exactly what went on, as I pointed out in my first post
TJ
Sex God
Well I'm sure you appreciate that when people are on cam showing their bits and pieces, there will always be one or two who keep on asking them to do or show a bit more
Directing in a room can be irritating and disruptive to the general chatter going on in there.
Besdies, you have opened rooms before with "no directing, no pudding pulling" etc in the titles
Same goes for the rooms as well as the cams - if you don't like them join another one - there are plenty of them out there and of course you could open one of your own again
TJ
Directing in a room can be irritating and disruptive to the general chatter going on in there.
Besdies, you have opened rooms before with "no directing, no pudding pulling" etc in the titles
Same goes for the rooms as well as the cams - if you don't like them join another one - there are plenty of them out there and of course you could open one of your own again
TJ
