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26 Sep 2006

You haven't said she was actually doing anything wrong apart from being on the road confused

Maybe if the other drivers had taken a little more care and attention, they would not have had to brake so hard when they eventually noticed her? :?
As you say, she had every right to be there, so where is the problem? dunno

Oh and the little discs of metal are usually reflectors - so drivers can see them in bad light and give them a little more room ;-)
TJ

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26 Sep 2006

Quote by Johnjanenw
dont know if it was just a quiet night but the females we saw were just looking at the cam
or just showing their boobs, not very exciting,

Well you may not have realised that not all women feel they are on cam to become performing seals confused

Some of them *gosh!* even keep all their clothes on and just CHAT :shock: Now there's a novel idea cool

Yes you can show penetration shots. Lots of people do just as you hope to do. As long as there is nothing illegal on cam, then sexual activity is fine and welcomed by many poeple who like to watch. Such shows go on day and night in some rooms lol

If you want people to direct your cam action, please open a room of your own or join one of the rooms which allows directing in.
Site rooms - The Pool, Beach Bar and Jacuzzi are No Directing rooms, so if you don't want people asking or telling you what to do, join one of those rooms ;-)
Enjoy your cam action biggrin

TJ

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26 Sep 2006

Why not try and pm her to find out? confused

TJ

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26 Sep 2006

How old

: :!:
He lied to me . . . . . said he was only 69 . . . . . or was that an offer rather than his age? :angel: ;-)
Happy birthday anyway kiss

TJ

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24 Sep 2006

Quote by GnV
Is there a Duty Op system in place? Sometimes you can never find an Op but 5 minutes later, just like the proverbial number 9 bus, 5 seem to pile in all at the same time.

In short no there isn't. We all do this job on a volunteer basis. We fit it in as and when we can. As you say, sometimes there are many op's on, other times none, but since we all have real lives to live, we can only fit in our opping when we can.
If we were expected to work our duties in shift pattern, I am sure it would not work at all. Since we do this job for free, we would hardly expect to be *told* when we must be on duty confused

At the end of the day, if someone is causing problems and no op's are about, make a note of it, report it and if necessary join another room is all you can do.
TJ

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24 Sep 2006

The best thing to do in such cases is either report it to admin through the usual channels or pm one of the op's. We would deal with it as soon as we come on line, even if it is several hours later.
Room title, appx time and server, along with relevant nick and any details you may have copied from the room logs, although that is not strictly necessary since admin will check the logs anyway.
PM boxes are open all hours, even if the op's aren't ;-)
hth
TJ

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24 Sep 2006

Quote by Tania
I would say that rain makes me yearn for a man's cuddles and intimacy. Not dogging, however, never done it, never had the wish to.
It is so sad to know that you will be alone yet another winter :cry:

Well if you don't want to be alone Tania - go dogging in winter - believe me, you'll get lots of offers of cuddles and more :twisted:
. . . . . . no more loneliness - see problem solved wink

:angel:
TJ

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22 Sep 2006

If anyone has a specific problem and can't find an op on line at the time - Please either let one of the mods know or send one of the op's a pm and we will deal with it as soon as we log on.
Most of us are on several times a day and you can find a list of the op's names in this forum on the *Sticky* at the top of the list.
Even if the event has passed and you feel it may have already been dealt with, it is still worth reporting things which cause concern - if no one else had reported it, it will have gone unchecked.
A few basic details would help - room title and appox time, server number, member nick and any relevant convo you may have copied. If not we can have the logs checked anyway and then anyone who needs further action being taken, will be dealt with right away.
Thanks biggrin

TJ

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22 Sep 2006

Don't worry about the weather - seasoned doggers won't mind a bit and will come well prepared - we've often had guys standing round the car with large golfing brollies so that none of us gets wet - well not from the rain anyway :twisted: lol

Bad weather also has the advantages of keeping those who may be a problem at home too - boy racers will stay in and play games machines, pushy guys will stay at home with the wife and watch tv and Mr Plod won't want to get out of his nice warm dry car either, leaving everyone to get on and have some fun wink

Good luck and enjoy ;-)
TJ

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20 Sep 2006

Of course none of us can say how your intereview went, but I'm keepng my fingers crossed for you kiss

It is a very worthwhile job and must be a strain at times, but the dedication required is absolute and for that I admire anyone who wants to do such a job.
When my mother died, the person who carried us through was a very young lad of 19 years old. He was one of the technicians and I have to say he was a remarkable lad. Caring, compasionate and more than helpful. He said he had been doing that job since he left school at 16 :shock:
Very good luck to you and do let us know how you got on biggrin

TJ xx

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19 Sep 2006

Quote by Elliot
I sent you a PM the day you contacted me. It is in my sent box but is still unread by you? All the info you need should be in there.

Quote by double_deluxe
Sorry Elliot, I didn't get it!
xx

Have you blocked single males account from sending pm's to your box? If so, that may explain why you didn't get the mail from Elliot ;-)
TJ

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16 Sep 2006

Quote by Redhotcouple
I'm guessing you've had your share of timewasters, picture collectors and muppets. Welcome to the club! Though I think it's unfair to tar everyone to the same brush.
Yes there ARE plenty of genuine, honest and real people on here, I've met quite a few of them and chatted to even more.
Don't judge eveyone by the actions of the few

they have only been using the site for 6 days......not even enough time for that yet....i think they are just a little impatient!
Only 6 days on THIS site - well spotted, but weeks and months on others .......
So what has other sites got to do with this one dunno

Surely if you have gripes and moans about other sites, you do it over there, not come on here suggesting we're all timewasters and non gen rolleyes

Personally I'd quit with the moaning while you're ahead. Suggesting members of this site are not gen is a fruitless task. They won't all be beating a path to your door to convince you they ARE gen if that is what you're hoping for?
You get out of this site what you put into it and after only 6 days, that can hardly be a great deal. It's not an instant shag stop as many have found out before you.
Personally after three years here, I can honestly say I have never had problems with timewasters and have met a lot of very genuine and friendly people, both sexually and socially.
If you want to moan, do it elsewhere. However, if you want to join in here and have some fun, feel free to do so, but don't suggest we are all piss takers just because you have been let down :undecided:
Get over it and move on. It happens on all sites, so this one is not especially prone to it. Besides, if you don't like it here, you can always go back to the other sites that are apparently not full of timewasters confused

TJ

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16 Sep 2006

Well if nothing else, it maybe shows that bragging about one's conquests should be avoided. Perhaps if he had been a little more discreet he would still have his job ;-)
TJ

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16 Sep 2006

Quote by Redhotcouple
Or are you all a bunch of pisstakers ?????

Yup! Some of us are quite happy to take the piss, but it depends in what context you are talking about. wink

Of course we could ask YOU the same question - are you real and genuine - or are you here simply to take the piss? confused

TJ

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10 Sep 2006

You will find them on the *Sticky* - Chatroom Emoticons - at the top of this forum - here's the link for you ;-)
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/85897.html
TJ

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9 Sep 2006

Depends on what she is after - the orange would certainly make an impact, but the blue would probably be a bit run of the mill and boring . . . . says me who has just taken delivery of a CitroenC4 . . . . in blue rolleyes

I wanted the *Rampant Red* colour but they had none in the country available and I didn't want to wait 10 feckin' weeks for one :cry:
Go for the orange girl! Make a statement when you're driving into town :twisted:
TJ xx

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9 Sep 2006

It is not *the little hitler* as you put it rolleyes

It's the servers again and it's happened to most of us on line tonight. I've had it twice, once in op's room and once in a site room (Pool)
Live with it or log out until you feel the servers are more stable confused

:? :?
TJ

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9 Sep 2006

Quote by gordon
If it happens again then i think that i need to go to othersites that are more freindly to thare paying members .

What has payment got to do with all this? dunno

All members are treated the same on here, whether they pay or not. Breaking the AUP is what it's all about, not the dollar in your account confused

Besides you are NOT a paying member, your account is a free one :?
TJ

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8 Sep 2006

If you have a particular problem, please pm me and I will try to sort it out for you smile

TJ

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7 Sep 2006

Quote by Kiss
I thought that this was meant to take place on the 9th??????????

Nope, the message we had on the mailbox stated it would take place from the 6th, so if you've not been *chopped* yet, you need to go and save any items which you want to keep before the mailbox harvester send them all into cyber space ;-)
TJ xx

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4 Sep 2006

Hi guys and :welcome:
Hope you have a blast biggrin

TJ

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4 Sep 2006

Quote by Kiss
I don't wish to sound petty, but I am a paying member of this site, and if a 'free' member uses the adverts and tries to break the rules and contact other people by 'hiding' their contact details on their profile/picture/advert - I report them ASAP!! The swines!
:P

So if a paying member hides something in their ad - as some do, so free members can contact them - you don't report those? dunno

TJ ;-) xxx
smackbottom

:rascal:

Ooh! I love it when you come over all masterful :P :lol2:
TJ ;-) xx

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4 Sep 2006

Quote by Kiss
I don't wish to sound petty, but I am a paying member of this site, and if a 'free' member uses the adverts and tries to break the rules and contact other people by 'hiding' their contact details on their profile/picture/advert - I report them ASAP!! The swines!
:P

So if a paying member hides something in their ad - as some do, so free members can contact them - you don't report those? dunno

TJ ;-) xxx

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3 Sep 2006

Quote by danniella9401
Hiya DeeCee,
Thats my point.. there is a separate section for TV/TS, as if we are to be shunted to one side, Hugs
Dannii xxx

All the TS/TV rooms in chat are opened by members - no one is forcing them to be in there rather than any other *mainstream* room, but from my experience they seem to want a room of their own. Maybe they feel more comfortable in those?
However, not everyone is comfortable with TV/TS people as has also been witnessed in chat, so maybe this is an indication that not everyone in mainstream is comfortable with them, nor they with the mainstream?
I've been in such rooms many times and I have to say the behaviour in them is often far better than in the mainstream rooms.
Each to his own I say, but for me I think I would feel confused swinging with a person who displayed male genitals but dressed as fem - especially if they had better lingerie than I did ;-)
Good luck!
TJ xx

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2 Sep 2006

Yes they can - they get a little eye icon next to the name of any member who is watching their cam.
HTH
TJ biggrin

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31 Aug 2006

Quote by Steve_Mids
Whispering without permission is not permitted....
Aside from anything else its bloody bad manners....
If this person persists then please note room names and times and report them to an op or to admin so it may be investigated...
Usually when a chatter gets a little reminder from admin to adhere to the rules it serves to calm them down a bit....

You're quite right Steve, but what really irritates me is when some female members keep saying in the room over and over every two or three lines "no whispers please" or "please stop whispering me" and when I ask them to name them in the room or post the whisper so I can have a quiet word with them about it, the fems "oh it doesn't matter" or "I'll just ignore them"
So why bother keep saying in the room no whispers? Why not just ignore them instead of drawing attentiion to themselves and not want anything done about it?
Personally these fems are not doing anyone else a favour because if the guys who do it are the same ones all the time and they usually are, at least if they were advised of the rules, it may stop them whispering someone else confused

Personally I don't mind people whispering me without asking if they are polite or want to ask advice etc.
It's the ones who whisper "got any knickers on tonight babe" or such that I will have words with. It's base and unnecessary.
Would these guys walk into a bar and approach a woman and ask her that sort of question? They'd soon find a hand across their faces if they did I'm sure :?
TJ

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29 Aug 2006

Quote by goose35
Now hes sent another PM to me asking if ive offended for not replying
So there is somthing wrong my end.

He needs to check his mail box settings - he may have blocked your account directly or indirectly with the *blocks types of account messaging me* button - with that you can stop certain types of account mailing you at the click of a button.
Send me his nick and I will pm him for you to see if mine gets through if you like?
TJ

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29 Aug 2006

Quote by goose35
I'm not having a moan
A user just asked me where thier reply was to a PM he sent me and i thought i sent thet reply ages ago so i went and had a look and the reply was still unread so i sent another reply to the second pm that i had allready sent it.

It sounds to me that he has either added you to his *ignore member* button OR he has blocked certain types of mail getting into his box - such as single males trying to contact him.
Both of these options would mean the mail does not go into his mail box and therefore can't be read.
Third option - the mail is in his box but he says it isn't so he doesn't have to open and reply to it rolleyes

I'm inclined to think this is someone winding you up Goose. Brush it aside and move on ;-)
TJ

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29 Aug 2006

Quote by Burtman
Thanks Red Hot .....but I thought that only listed people actually browsing the forum ? As I write this it says there are 98 people online in the forum out of over 5000 online across the site.

I think it does only list those in the forum, rather than everyone logged into the ads or chat, however, op's mods etc show on the front page where ever they happen to be on site - unless they mark themselves to show offline which we all do from time to time for short periods if we are busy and can't take pm's or just popped in to check on private pm's etc and haven't got the time to do the op stuff.
However, if there is a problem of any kind, it would always we worth pm'ing one of us even if we are not on line, as we would be able to deal with it even at a later stage, when we do eventually log on and read the pm.
So give us as many details as possible - room title, server, approx time, any nick's involved and we will sort it out pronto lol

TJ

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29 Aug 2006

Quote by Burtman
.....and there's no way (that I've worked out at least) of seeing which ones are around or even online.

If any are logged on, they will be showing with purple names on the front page of the forum - just click on their nick and send a pm if you're stuck. They can then come and assist, provided you tell them which room etc ;-)
TJ

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