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Quote by goose35
That means they haven't opened them yet,

Yeh but they asked for a reply which i have sent (marked unread). Why ask for it if they have it in thier inbox confused: I just wondered if they have actually got there or fell into cyberspace but still showing on my sent box some how.
Perhaps they have not logged on to read the mail since you sent it?
They may also prefer to open their mail when it suits them, not necessarily when they receive any. If they are a popular member, they may have loads of mail to read through before they get to yours :?
They won't have got lost in cyber space - they have not been read - simple ;-)
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Quote by fuckmyface
I'd ***love*** to see cams banned when they aren't displaying anything useful so as empty chairs, blank walls, etc. Why do people waste bandwidth in this manner???

If the op's see cams that are idle in that way, we monitor them for ten minutes or so and ask if the person is there - often there is someone at the pc but they have the cam turned onto the light or the wall rather than themselves for some bizarre reason known only to them confused
However, if we get no response and the cam is still in apparent idle mode after the ten minutes, then it will be booted.
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Quote by st3v3
R_Jo aka Roo is one of our developers, just looking around to see how it all works.

:shock: :shock: :shock: My niece has just landed a new job in developement :shock:
Please tell me it's not you :shock: redface surprisedops: :oops: :oops:
If you're about 5' 6", slim, long blonde hair and green eyes and THE irritating laugh . . . . . it IS you :grin: . . . . . . . . .
In which case, please don't look at my profile or tell your mother - she'd died of shock at what her younger sister gets up to :giggle: ;-)
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Quote by wayne80
I managed to enter the chatrooms early this morning but can't seem to anymore. i think this is a fault with the chatrooms rather than a fault with individuals pc's

Well there are currently in excess of 850 members in the chatrooms right now . . . so I would guess it IS a problem at your end wink
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Quote by flower411
You may not want to name names or make official complaints , cos in the cold light of day it may seem a bit irrelevant...
Shouldn`t there be a thread in here for doing just that ??

Nope! bad idea imo and besides if someone pissed you off that much you should report them in the usual fashion.
Having the thread for that sort of gripe will lead to problems. Beside you say yourself it may all seem irrelevant in the morning, so why come on here moaning in the first place?
Chill guys ;-)
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Can I offer you a bit of advice here?
Most couples don't go out showing for the benefit of bored doggers rolleyes
We go out when we fancy a little fun and I daresay this is true for most others.
Asking for someone to help relieve your boredom is not likely to have your pm box filled to capacity confused
If you are that bored, why not just go out and visit a dogging spot and chance your arm. Even if you don't get to see anything, at least you will have had a drive out, maybe a short walk and some fresh air.
I'm sure that will relieve your boredom for you wink
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sad Really sorry we couldn't make it this time and thanks to Funin and Mike for the chat yesterday morning. We'll pop over as soon as I am sorted and more mobile smile
Pleased everyone had a fab time as we knew they would and we'll def be at the next one so don't make it too long away ;-)
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Quote by Reikiradical
I don't think you actually have to bring a dog .

It's not compulsory, but there are a couple of guys in our area who do bring their dogs . . . . . probabaly so they can use it for the excuse of being out late to the wife - "Oh I'd have been home ages ago dear, but blackie ran off and and got lost in the woods" ;-)
Or maybe the original poster takes his dog out anyway and hoping to catch a glimpse of something to lighten his night :twisted:
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Quote by Stormwalker
I’m going to open the room for a while server 1 …
Stormy

Erm, what was that you were saying about server 1 . . . . . ? :grin:
Stormwalker: hi red, can you do me a favour hun , i just opend forum chat on server 2 like a muppet......can you close it for me

rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
This is a public warning - stormy and 'puters just don't mix :lol2: ;-)
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Quote by lilnfil
Nope! lol Only the locals will know ;-)
TJ

and some of the 'not so locals' :lol:
lilnfil xx wink
:shock: Does his fame spread that far away? Or do you visit often? :lol:
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Quote by DeviousLiasons
When we do a search we often get over 100 matches ( not fussy us.... ) but as we select each one we notice well over half of them are "Last Logged in 26 weeks ago" or similar...
M&J

It would also be a good idea if some of the older ads are removed after a period of time too. I have seen ads which are dated 2003 2004 2005. Surely this just creates clutter and as you say, things to filter out when searching the ads for a possible contact?
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wave Welcome to the site smile
Why not pop into the chatrooms and and say hi in there too biggrin
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Quote by mostlycurious
a friend of mine who is a trans -sexual and a beauty therapist gave me THE best advic ever on shaving, i never have any problems. pm me if you wish and i can send you the advice.

Why not just post it on here? Or is it a crafty way of filling up your pm box? wink lol
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Quote by moggo
do u ever come to frome i can accomidate xxx

That's neither outside, nor dogging but no harm in trying ;-)
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Quote by redpantherman
...but it IS a seperate part of this site, not an added extra for swinging couples to find more contacts from confused
TJ
:doh: no fresh meat then!!! :shock:
smackbottom :smackbottom: :smackbottom:
Not unless you take a trip to Dorset :twisted: wink
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Quote by markandnicky
It is free for 12 months JUST on Heaven dating for the first 10,000 members

nicky has joined,
looks really good lay out
why ...aren't you a couple......you don't really need to join.....and that would really go for anyone on here down as a couple......if your a couple and you join as a single won't you be misleading people?
not missleading as we have declared she is married and is looking for fun with both sex's.
so not missleading people...........
being nosey....
Sorry but I'm missing the point here too - Heaven Dating is a DATING site, not for casual swingers - we have this site for that don't we? :doh:
Besides, for every person from this part of the site who joins *just to be nosy*, isn't that taking up a free account which could be better used by a vanilla for dating purposes? rolleyes
I'm sure some people will have plenty to say if the vanilla's come on here asking for dates confused
As far as I'm concerned it looks great and I hope it takes off, but it IS a seperate part of this site, not an added extra for swinging couples to find more contacts from :?
I doubt many of you would join if you had to pay right away :roll:
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Quote by redpantherman
Who gonna enter my arse then?...

:shock: :shock: :shock:
Would you like to rephrase that question red? :giggle:
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Quote by Kiss_Me
And I didn't say I was in a band - I said I was banned!
wink

You deserve to be after posting those pics - they've quite put me off my lunch :lol2:
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Quote by Kiss_Me

Spare time?
I'm at work! redface
lol

:shock: Can I get a job at your place confused: :lol: :lol: wink
Yes - you can come and be my assistant! biggrin
Gee. Thanks rolleyes
I suppose it's a step up from the tea lady, but you'd make me do all your work while you perved through Blokes record box :?
I'd kinda like to have a rumble in there myself :rascal: ;-)
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Quote by Kiss_Me
Spare time?
I'm at work! redface
lol

:shock: Can I get a job at your place confused: :lol: :lol: wink
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KM :!: What on earth are you doing with your spare time? :shock: :shock: :uhoh: :giggle:
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Quote by Kiss_Me
It's really not that painful, a lot less painful than a tattoo I think anyway.

I just had my teeny weeny really old and faded tattoo recoloured and for some unknown reason it hurt far more than it did when I had it done in my teens. Maybe I've become a wimp in my old age dunno
Either way, you've not convinced me - yet ;-) lol
Quote by Kiss_Me
Yes it made my eyes water at first but then more regularly you do it the easier it seems.

Yes I had heard that before . . . . . but not about plucking :rascal: :giggle:
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Quote by Kiss_Me
:shock: Still sounds more painful than the old venus razor though :shock:

True honey, but then you don't have to epilate every other day, plus I find that for me personally the hairs grown back much softer than if I shave.
KM
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Doesn't it give you spots though? lol I've tried one of those in the past - long time ago mind you so they may be better now - and it made me all red and spotty redface :lol:
Come on KM, give us the run down, point by point on using one and I may consider it again . . . . but please! spare us the skin ripping, spine shattering, leg curling details about the pain :eeek: :lol2:
Have you got to just dry pluck or can you use something to smooth the skin first? Afterwards? Creams, lotions?
Come on, lets all get bald together ;-)
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Quote by Serendipity
Get the hint, not every one that goes to the park or the woods are open for any form of dogging

And likewise the nudist beaches -
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/85601.html
On a similar note, I recently stopped in a car park in all innocence out with my youngest son. We were surrounded within seconds :shock: evil
Do this new breed of dogger *really* think anything would be going in in broad daylight and with people of all ages walking about shopping/taking in the view/going for a walk in the fresh air ffs?
They swiftly moved off when 6' 3" of young lad got out of the car, but they just moved away to the next arriving car confused
I can imagine the changes to the scene Jomu must have witnessed over 30 years :shock: We've certainly seen some in less than four :?
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Waxing down below? :eeek: Nooooo! don't even go there :shock:
I use the usual creams and stuff but I do believe some people like to pluck it out with tweezers :eeek: :eek: . . . . Don't they Shireen? lol
Using creams does make it grow back softer and after a while it does seem to slow the regrowth, but never on the ocassions you have a last minute meet arranged rolleyes :lol2:
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Quote by shoto
PS love and kisses for redhot for pointing me to this board smile ... she's the greatest!

:smug: cheers mate - the cheque's in the post :P wink
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Quote by fem_4_taboo
ok how about a message or tone telling you who/when someone entered the room and left ?
xx lou xx

:shock: Some of the busier rooms would have messages/tones going off all night with people coming and going :scared:
Not sure it would make a pleasurable experience listing to a *ping* or seeing a "elvis has entered the building" type message every few seconds lol
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Quote by H-x
Slight ethical quandary.
If you are watching someone's cam, should they still ask before whispering to you or does the fact that you are watching them give them the right to whisper with asking first?
H.x

Nope - they still have to ask first, unless the room title says whispering allowed. Viewing cams does not give any one rights over any other members ;-)
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Quote by GnV

Ops are very busy, and need to get around as many rooms as possible to check all is well, so closing rooms is done ASAP to enable us to keep an eye on ALL the rooms.

perhaps we need more Ops :idea:
Getting some new op's on board is being looked into, however, I should point out that last night was particularly busy and not all the current op's available were logged on.
We are all volunteers and have to fit this position in with real lives, families etc.
I find it strange that people complain about a room being closed. I daresay they would also complain if they were in a hostless room and became the victim of verbal abuse with no one in there to take conrol of the situation.
Perhaps some people would rather members could not open their own rooms in order to avoid such situations happening again?
Op's cannot be in every room, nor can they be logged on here 24/7. We all need to have a little patience and strike a balance.
Now can we get back to chatting nicely please?
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