Quote by sexyann57
CAN WE HAVE SOME MORE TO LOOK AT PLEASE:haha: :giggle:
For a quick SH bum fix, there's always .
~Reese!
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Reese
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Male, 61
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Unfortuantely, as you've probably already gathered, bisexuality does not exist within the swinging community. Sorry to be the bearer of bad tidings; but, seeing as you've had no replies to your inquiry yet, I thought it only fair that someone should step forward just to let you know. 
~Reese!
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Hello and to the SH forums!
~Reese!
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Hello and to the SH forums! 
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Quote by edinbughchris
Judging from the personal pages, there's some damn good photographers on here...
...and if they'd just send me links to these personal pages, I could add them to the Swinging Heaven Photo Album!
~Reese!
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Jon~
Thanks for the reminder! I shall remember to bring the Scrabble board this weekend.
~Reese!
P.S. to Marms: Just thought I should let you know that Vix has used the word "gotten" three times in casual conversation recently. :shock: We should somehow devise a way to make sure she gets the appropriate letters, and see if she'll stoop to such depths in something as serious as Scrabble.
Thanks for the reminder! I shall remember to bring the Scrabble board this weekend.
~Reese!
P.S. to Marms: Just thought I should let you know that Vix has used the word "gotten" three times in casual conversation recently. :shock: We should somehow devise a way to make sure she gets the appropriate letters, and see if she'll stoop to such depths in something as serious as Scrabble.
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Wherever did this get resurrected from? Ah, brings back the most pleasant memories. :love:
Quite! In fact, you know the one where I have an utterly ridiculous look on my face?...
...that was the moment I realized that I was "first in", thus consummating our marriage! Had I waited a few minutes longer, Vix might've ended up with Chris!! :shock:
~Reese!
Quote by Tania
Congrats R & V, a very untraditional wedding in the sense that you actually had sex on your wedding night.
Quite! In fact, you know the one where I have an utterly ridiculous look on my face?...
...that was the moment I realized that I was "first in", thus consummating our marriage! Had I waited a few minutes longer, Vix might've ended up with Chris!! :shock:
~Reese!
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Quote by marmalaid
So what is the arguement, we have all just agreed what Reese says!
Geez! I disappear from the forum for a couple of hours, and look what happens to my totally-sincere poll!
Thank you, Chris, for being the voice of reason and setting everyone straight on the cubic centimetre issue (is the bloody cubed root of 10, in centimetres, cubed!). However, I didn't come here to debate the definition of a "cc" - I already know that (q.e.d) - I just wanted to know how many people enjoyed being covered in cum and how many didn't give a rats arse how much there was! Is that so difficult?! No!! Anyways, thanks, all, for your responses. I'll go have a wank now and stop saving up for Christmas.~Reese!
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Quote by Sexysteph
OMG 2 sleeps to goooooooo !!!!
You've been speaking to Timmy, haven't you! :P
Quote by marmalaid
*sulks*
Will you all please hug and snog eachother an extra two times, from me & he?
Appreciated.
Better still, everyone snog me and I'll pass them on to Vix & Reese personally next time I see them, whenever that is.... :twisted:
Ooh, you're gonna be a busy boy! ;)
Quote by Jas-Tim
It's been snowing but all the proper roads are clear at the moment and I would imagine they'll probably stay that way for now.
*breathes a sigh of relief* :love:
~Reese!
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Quote by Silk and Big G
How much is alot ?
Hmm. For the sake of argument, let's say that the average volume of ejaculation is approximately ten cubic centimetres and, for the sake of argument, consider "large" and "small" to be any amount which deviates more than 20 percent above or below that statistical mean, respectively.
~Reese!
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Quote by LadyFeeBee
Anyone who clicks on our ad link in our signature will obviously be aware that we are a couple but (and here’s the question) is it clear enough to others that we are and if not should we bother to do anything about it?
LadyFeeBee & not Mr. FeeBee~
You could just add a little tag line to your signature - perhaps something like "Home of LadyFeeBee and the Laird"? Otherwise, I agree that any sensible person would just click on your ad link and figure it out for themselves. And, for anyone who doesn't and raises questions about the spontaneous existence of your "other half" at munches and such, you have my express permission to point and laugh.
~Reese!
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Quote by Bloke2005
Calm down, calm down (as they say in Liverpool) - it was ONLY a joke - there are many people around here with a very 'dry' sense of humour mate .. like I said it was a joke - it's not 69 they have to perform - its the big 'A'
Hey, Blokey, you forgot to mention the copious amounts of deep, passionate MM snogging required as well! :P
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But seriously, Paul, you just have to set down your boundaries and limits with a couple in advance, preferably before the meet to avoid discomfort or disappointment on either of your parts. As Vix said, MMF situations can involve a lot of close, physical contact between yourself and the other male, even if it's non-sexual and focused upon the female.
I had my first MMF threesome at the age of 16 and, to the dismay of myself and the lovely female involved, the other male was totally homophobic - he tried to stay at least two feet away from me at all times to avoid even "casual contact"! Severely limits the possibilities, it does.
Thus, you need to decide for yourself what clear boundaries you have, and openly communicate these with any potential swinging partners. If you've got an ad here, I'd even add this to your description (just like Vix & I say "NO ANAL" in ours). That way, everyone will know where you're coming from, as it were, and there's less possibility of a disappointing encounter...
~Reese!
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...hello and the SH forums!.
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P.S. to Blue: Obviously! :grin:
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Hmm. A friend of mine back in the 'States had a pic of Andy Warhol hanging above his studio loo, as he was absolutely besotted with the bloke. Trouble was, Andy stayed over at his for about a month each Summer (though I don't think anything ever happened, tbh). Was a bit eerie for me, though...
~Reese!
~Reese!
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Quote by fabio grooverider
reese.... trust me.. you don't to come within a 10 ft of a deep fried mars bar..... i thought i was going to have a heart attack after my first bite.....
sean xxxxxxxx
Sean~
Pah! There go my dreams of a deep-fried pizza then...
~Reese!
P.S. ...thanks for the warning!
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Quote by sexyjess23
ooo has anyone ever dunked a mars bar? its discustingly sickly but if u need a sinful choco fix very nice!!
Ooh, Jess, that does sound decadent! I'm still waiting to try one of those deep-fried Mars bars I've heard about ever since I'd moved here from the 'States. Then again, I'd much prefer a Snickers...
~Reese!
P.S. ...as for dunking, I'd go for the McVities digestives with the milk chocolate on top (or is it the bottom? I never can tell)!
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Tune~
You're an invertebrate?! Cool!!
We got our first taste of snow last night when Vix & I went out to the chippy. It only lasted about 10 minutes, but nonetheless served to confirm what the weather reports have been trying to tell us (we rarely get snow in Glasters, though). Thus, I'm sitting at my computer desk next to the radiator, drinking cup after cup of hot coffee and watching Vix snooze peacefully in the bed next to me (wait, she's awake now and perusing the forums).
We can't get snowed in, though!! :shock: There are just too many wonderful activities scheduled over the next three weeks: We've got a little MMMMFF party next weekend (which includes genuine SH single males - *gasp*), the Medieval Banquet coming up on March 5th, and we'll be spending the weekend following that with the most wonderful couple in the world!
Thus, thoughts of the future are more than enough to keep the Winter chills at bay!
~Reese!
You're an invertebrate?! Cool!!
We got our first taste of snow last night when Vix & I went out to the chippy. It only lasted about 10 minutes, but nonetheless served to confirm what the weather reports have been trying to tell us (we rarely get snow in Glasters, though). Thus, I'm sitting at my computer desk next to the radiator, drinking cup after cup of hot coffee and watching Vix snooze peacefully in the bed next to me (wait, she's awake now and perusing the forums).
We can't get snowed in, though!! :shock: There are just too many wonderful activities scheduled over the next three weeks: We've got a little MMMMFF party next weekend (which includes genuine SH single males - *gasp*), the Medieval Banquet coming up on March 5th, and we'll be spending the weekend following that with the most wonderful couple in the world!
Thus, thoughts of the future are more than enough to keep the Winter chills at bay!
~Reese!
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Quote by Bloke2005
Utter bollox and Amercianised psycho-babble (no offence to any Americans Reese
None taken. :lol:
However, you just reminded me of another issue I have with the article in question...
"In my 25 years of practice however, I have yet to see an "open marriage" that worked."
...as, to my mind, an "open marriage" is a relationship within which one or both partners engage in sexual liaisons outside of their marriage. In my own case, I would never swing with anyone if Vix wasn't participating as well. Does this mean I'm not a swinger? Or is it merely that "swinging" and the concept of an "open marriage" have become synonymous in popular culture?!
~Reese!
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Quote by northwest-cpl
Well if you think the tabloids are bad look at this, paragraph 3. :cry:
Personally, I like this excerpt from paragraph 3 best...
"Of course there would be no reason for a couple who was happy to seek therapy"
...as it implies that the rest only applies to couples who are experiencing marital difficulty. I do agree that swinging is a bad idea if there are already problems in the relationship, as it can serve to exacerbate any pre-existing security issues between partners. However, this article totally ignores those happily-marrieds among us who embarked on our "swinging careers" prior to marriage and have continued afterwards. Alas.
~Reese!
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Quote by fruity1976
Also had been thinking maybe it would be better to swing with single males as me and my loverly shagging partner were talking about it the other day and I feel a lot more reassured about it, just didnt wanna be in an awkward position as I have had a bad experience many years ago which tbh kinda did fuck my head up and although Im a lot older and able to cope with shit these days and this is MY choice as opposed to one forced on me I still dont wanna be in a position where I feel uncomfortable. Any tips or advice would be great!!
Fruity~
I can say without reservation that the single males Vix & I have swung with from the SH forums have been among the most thoughtful and considerate blokes you could hope to meet, and our only negative MMF experience has been with someone we met before we joined Swinging Heaven. Perhaps we're just fortunate, or perhaps our "screening process" has become refined enough that we are able to avoid those with whom we might have issues later on.
I totally agree with Drifter's advice: Start off making initial contact via PM, MSN or e-mail, and schedule a purely social meet when you're comfortable that you all get along, and go from there.
A couple of months after joining Swinging Heaven, I received an unsolicited MSN message from a single guy who'd seen us on the forums. After introducing himself, he mentioned that he passed by Glastonbury every now and again in his business travels and hoped to meet Vix & I one day for a drink. A few weeks later, and after we got to know him better through subsequent IM sessions, we scheduled a meet. Although it was intended as purely social, we all got along so well that we took him to bed that night (tarts that we are). He's since become a trusted friend to both of us, and we even invited him to our wedding!
The whole key to a positive experience seems to be talking, both with your partner and anyone with whom you intend to swing. And, by all means, get personal! The more you know about someone, the more comfortable you can be with them in a physically intimate situation...and this is especially important when you're inviting a "stranger" to participate in the secure, established relationship that you and your partner already share.
Best of luck!
~Reese!
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Quote by foxylady 123
Reese
The shock is not with whom you chose to play with, that is your own choice obviously. What does shock me is the fact that you would want to talk to the partner of someone you were swining with, if they themselves were not involved. From a womans angle i think that smaks of chauvanism and even if you apply it to males as well its too intrusive in to Real Life.
Just my opinion
Suzzy
xxx
Suzzy~
I just re-read my original post and realize that I may have been a bit unclear with respect to the involvement of the partner. Our aim in meeting both is not to get third-party consent, but rather to determine whether both partners would play as a couple (which is something we'd no doubt ask of the individual before requesting the meet with their "other half"). If it turned out that both didn't play together, as we do, we'd give it a miss...as we wouldn't want to swing with one member of a couple where the other wasn't involved, regardless of anyone's consent. Hope this clarifies...
~Reese!
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Quote by willxx69
You're not alone yet old chap! Sappho has retired to bed, I have the bottle of red and I'm raring to go!! Any takers?
Yes, please. We've run out of "wedding wine" and are stuck with only a frozen bottle of Tesco's vodka & Fanta for makeshift margueritas.
~Reese!
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Quote by foxylady 123
Reese thats a terrible thing to say, i m shocked at you!!!
Im a single female who plays with h/bs consent, but no way would I expect you to talk to him about the situation!!Why should you, what iI do and who with is down to me?Im certainly not having him give his permission to anyone!!!
Foxy~
Sorry to shock you, but that's just our personal preference. Perhaps it's because Vix & I would never play apart from each other that we feel this way. Thus, we limit ourselves to single males, single females and couples (where both play together). Again, it's nothing personal against anyone, their lifestyle or their situation - it's just how we choose to swing.
~Reese!
