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Saffy
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 61
0 miles · Milton Keynes

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Sexlightened
Hi have just brought new pc and can't view cam's in chatrooms. I tried uploading Flash player but comes up that as I run google chrome i already have it so can anyone help?
Have real blonde day whatever next smile
Sexlightened
Hey hey Big thank you to all that offered help. David37 started with your & whoooooooo Hooooooooo it works such a simple thing. XXX thxs
Sexlightened
Hi
Hope someone can help. I have just got New Lap Top with windows7. When i go into chat the writing has got smaller & smaller so that now its hard to read. I know it's something i am doing as writing was ok when first came on site.
Can anyone help as to what i am doing wrong?
Big thanks to anyone that can help
Sexlightened
Hi Meeting sexy black guy that i have played with more then few times. We are looking for Bi fem, couple with bi fem or straight couple to spice our & your evening up.
Only genuine people with pictures. If couple need to see pictures of both of you.
Saffy
Sexlightened
Thanks for feb back. Should have known was to good to last lol
Sexlightened
Seem's as an original memeber i could view who looked at my profile but have noticed this is now saying upgrade, or this just my membership that is playing up? or the controllers of this site taking the privilages of oringinal members away so they make us start to pay. Will the next step be our free membership taken away i wonder
Sexlightened
I have tried both of these options without any luck & still getting the ' Invalid call back request'
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Sexlightened
When i saw a little girl in que at morrisons. Her mum went though the self serve till & at the end of it the little girl put her hands on each side of the machine kisses it & said your very welcome in loud voice. The que people just cracked up laughing
Sexlightened
I am going to Antigua traveling alone just wondered if anyone has been there & any tips? being single fem on her own
Sexlightened
ONLY two year Hotgirl.
I have been single a lot longer Mmmmmmmmmmm to independent & fussy for my own good lol. Yes i agree you i do miss the cuddles or turning over in bed in morning & watching your partner sleeping, sharing box tissue over sloppy film & yes guys need tissue they just don't admit it lol
At end day when right guy comes along does it matter where you meet them?
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Thanks for the replies - never expected so many to respond. Lovly to hear about love blossoming. Yes, I realize that SH (or any swing site) is not the place to come looking for love and certainly, one doesn't look for strings. On the other hand, after 2 years of being single and 'aving loads of fun, one sometimes misses coming home to someone (or waking up with someone) bot I have to say, I'm addicted to the lifestyle smile LOL - not good for monogamy!! So if not SH where does one find a partner who'd be ok wiv the lifestyle? Sorry it's early AM and I'm rambling
xGail
Sexlightened
I would not just put it down to a state of mind. I have worked many different shifts over the year & have for last 8 years suffered with feeling freezing when everyone else is saying it's lovely and warm.
I did at one point think this was due to fact i was working nights & not getting much sleep but even when i have worked days for long period that freezing effect never leaves mmmmmmmmmmm & no it's not for the reason my mother thinks & that is that i need more meat on my bones lol so who knows guess it is different for different people.
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I been studyiny a bit of biopsychology today.
I dont know the answer to this one but id love to know if you are tired or just think you are and if this results in you actually being cold or simply thinking you are.
For example, its quite widely accpted that feeling hungry isnt actually a craving for food more the bodys response to u you thinking about eating and preparing itself for food, the intake of food being something the body actually finds wuite difficult to cope with.
Ah the joys of 5 hour train journeys and text books.
Sexlightened
Ducks lol last time i fed ducks was on a school trip many moons ago.
Jay stop getting excited at thought of ladies in school uniform rolleyes
Or is that me with perversed mind lol
Sexlightened
LOL Jay well i better make sure i dont wear a short skirt then biggrin
Plan B now that sounds interesting as always good to have a back up plan lol
Awaiting details & curious
Sexlightened
Oh excitement a weeeeeeeeeeeeek to go.
Now lets hope weather improves as between Jays BIG Hair do & my lilly white arse getting covered in mud just wouldnt be fun Mmmmmmmmm or would it?
Jays head under a ladies skirt just came to mind lol well would protect his hair & someone would have fun.
Sexlightened
Hi Sarah,
Can't believe a social in my area. Been long time since i attended one so if am free & nerves hold out lol will pop by. Please lets me have the details.
lets all hope weather is good biggrin
Sexlightened
Oh now that brings back memories biggrin use to put them in freezer to make them hard. Then slowly suck all choc off till you got to hard centre mmmmmmmmmmmmmm yummyyyyyyyyy & guess what you can still buy them lol
Runnnnnnnnnnnnnnn s the shop
Sexlightened
Oh but choc and beverages only tickle the taste buds for that brief moment mmmmmmmmmm & seeing as life is so short you need something to make those whooooooooooo hoooooooooooo or wheyyyyyyyyyyyy heyyyyyyyyyyy moments to last longer.
Need some thoughts on this one
Sexlightened
Calling for a single lady for this Saturday 27th September for a dinner date and night out in a swingers club in hertfordshire.
The dress code will be smart, so high heels is a must lol.
If you can contact me before Thursady 25th September, that will assit me in preparing for the weekend.
You can take a look at my profile and photo and if you like what you see, one succussful lady will be wined and dined and definately spoiled!
Dickson!
Hey Mr Posh do you need all weekend to prepare mmmmm thought was only ladies that needed the time to wax and prun lol if the lady has to dress up does that mean you are wearing a suit? rolleyes
Have a lovely time Dickson, think me head stuck in my books biggrin
Sexlightened
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slondonbod/freind Freind whats one them slondon?
Pumkin hope you have a fantastic birthday party hun xxx

thanx saffy hun i dident no bod had any freinds
eigher lol but he must hes bring one lol
lol Pumkin i'm sure that slond has a few options open to him. They say its the quiet ones you have to watch
Sexlightened
slondonbod/freind Freind whats one them slondon?
Pumkin hope you have a fantastic birthday party hun xxx
Sexlightened
My last text was ---- I can't believe you got dressed walked out & left me in this state.
Sexlightened
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I might be wrong (I probably am wrong) but I understand that the problem is caused by AOL and not by the site - might be worth having a read through this thread - http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/258521.html

I am not on AOL but sky & still have the same problems so it can't be just AOL that is coursing the problem.
Sexlightened
Hi
I am having problems & i am not with AOL but with sky.
I have just managed to get into guinevere main room but when i try to access other rooms on this server my screen goes blank and grey then i loose conection to the chatroom.
Any idea's why?
Sexlightened
If your going to open a room in the chatrooms, might be an idea to put on here what server it is on, when you open it & what you call it so people can find you easy.
Sexlightened
Hi xsme
Local meet sounds like a good idea but from your posting it lookslike it is only guys that are interested so far.
Nice to see a another local lass on here, far and few between.
Good luck
Sexlightened
Hi xsme
Local meet sounds like a good idea but from your posting it lookslike it is only guys that are interested so far.
Nice to see a another local lass on here, far and few between.
Good luck
Sexlightened
Thereare some good sites out there for larger busted ladies. You just have to spendtime women have just the same problems as i am only a 32 round my back so find it just as difficult to find bra's and when i do find then a lot are not what i would call pretty or sexy there are full cupped more like what my mum would wear.
They say the shape of women is changing in this country so come on bra manufacters about time you designed more bras that us fuller cupped women want to buy.
Sexlightened
I'm not meeting guys at the moment but thought as a single fem i could give you a little advice.
Yes there are single ladies in your area but you have one disadvantage to some of the guys on here & that is that you haven't put any effert into your profile.
The only thing i get from your profile is your age & a cock picture that will put some women off anyway. Try writing a bit more about yourself & what you can bring to a meet to attract a single fem,also try putting up a face picture or if you don't feel comfortable with that a sexy body picture without showing everything as you have to leave something to the imagination.