It seems that it is easy to be confident behind a keyboard. You can't be seen so you can let go & be totally free to say & do what you freedom is something a lot of people want but are to scared to let go & enjoy.
But what happens when you are not behind the keyboard?
I for one have wanted to go to a munch ( if there is ever one in my neck of the woods, hint hint) but would find it very difficult coping & chatting with a lot of people as i am quiet shy in a large group setting.I tend to stand back & watch people. I know some would say this is a lack of confidence but i never have the problem when meet 2's 3's or 4's groups or people i know & feel comfortable with.
So what are your thoughts on this?
Or should i have added this to the confidence thread?
nearly wetting my knickers.
I never make promises unless i can keep them.
Sorry haven't got the hang of doing part quotes need some lessons lol
I disagree with you littlegem in that i think a lot of English people are brought up to hide there bodies or are to self conscious,so would find it hard to even undress in front of friends let alone straighers.
I have a friend i have known for 10years yet when bra shopping i am not allowed to see her in a state of undress to say what i think about the fit.
The other thing you have to think about is that a lot of people are not happy with there bodies so there is know way that they want to put it on show to anyone.
I was brought up in a prudish family my mother would be shocked if i even walked around the house in my underwear, yet i have never had a problem being naked but i respect people that do.
When i first started swinging i had nooooooo confidence & a lovely couple took me under their wing. Which is why a few years down the road i am still here.
Other couple approach me & they came across as very confident which then made them appear very pushy to me at the time.
I feel you can be confident but when it comes down to it , it's how you come across to people & your personality.
If you are confident maybe you should use that to draw the less confident people out of their shell.
Dam i nearly got in first on this threat you lot type to fast lol
When i first started swinging i had nooooooo confidence & a lovely couple took me under their wing. Which is why a few years down the road i am still here.
Other couple approach me & they came across as very confident which then made them appear very pushy to me at the time.
I feel you can be confident but when it comes down to it , it's how you come across to people & your personality.
If you are confident maybe you should use that to draw the less confident people out of their shell.
Dam i nearly got in first on this threat you lot type to fast lol
Hi LondonBlackMale
Afraid i am one of the people that doesn't reply mainly to the amount of hits i get & secondly due to the one liners 'Hi love the profile take look at mine' which are mainly from guys. Another reason i find trolling though lots cock pics boring as hell ..would rather see a nice smile as an introduction.
I would never call the time i have spent on here a waste of time as even if i had never played i have made some brilliant friends.
Even bi-fems have problems finding the right people to meet with so you are nt alone lol.
Another reason is mostly guys do this but so do cpls
Bare with me as old gal here & boy has this site changed.
They send winks saying love ur profile take a look at ours & bare amount of info in their profile.
I tend to chat with people that make a bit more effert or am i being fussy. I just like to get to know people first as i'm not up for a one off quick shag like most guys & yes have even had a girl after the same Sorry not my style.
OK MOAN over Phew
it took me an hour to read 5 pages of this thread, with the tension building and nearly wet myself a few time.
Janet i got so excited to hear the out cum why didn't you phone?
I have played with a few couples where the guy has been all over me and i have felt the wife/girlfriend has been a bit left out which has made me feel uncomfortable so i have not repeted the experience. Then again i played with one couple for 2years and never had a problem we became great friends.
there is not an option for women that pretend to be bi curious just to please there husbands.
Ok here goes people that say looks don't count lie as if that is so then why do so many guys that are a good laugh not get a shag. Second you have to be able to comunicate while take a comes personality if they can make u laugh its half the battle so to speak, Fouth is foreplay if its short & sweet it doesnt work as its a known fact most women take longer to come then guys ( though some guys can hold out till a woman say me now) Finally If a guy isnt the right size & the foreplay doesnt make up for it then for get it.
Then again we are all individuals & have different tastes so as long as we allhave fun & find what we are looking for that is allthat counts so HAVE FUN GUYS & GALS
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU BABES
Hope all your wises came true. Long time since our paths have crossed. Hope to catch up soon.
SexySaffy xxxx
- sorry.
am a night worker.
