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Now if ever there was an invitation to book a room and have some fun?!
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just as long as it's not spur of the minute!!
need to book at least 14 days in advance :notes:
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SauciSpouse
Over 90 days ago
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Just googled & found this too!! 
FUN????
What are these little squares of latex and what am I going to do with them?
Please realize that dental dams were not originally designed for what you have in mind. Dentists use them to isolate a tooth from the tongue, other teeth and gums during dental procedures. However, some sensual individual (perhaps a creative dental hygienist), thought of using dams for cunnilingus (oral contact with female genitals) and analingus (oral/anal contact). And so, a new method of playful, safer sex was born.
How do I use them?
Hold the dam against your partner's genitals while you lick, kiss or suck the covered area. Either of you can hold the dam in place during these activities. This may sound easier than it actually is, since it's sometimes difficult to hold the dam firmly in place once the juices start flowing. But with a sense of humor, and a little patience, you can have a lot of fun practicing.
What if the dam slips off?
Because dams tend to become slippery and slide around, we recommend that you have several dams nearby and ready for use. Mark the dams on one side with a pen, so that if the dam gets set aside during passionate foreplay, you'll know which side is for the licker and which for the lickee. Better yet, use a fresh dam and avoid the possibility of exchanging body fluids. We strongly advise that you throw the dam away after one use.
Now the real challenge: How can I get my partner to use the dams? I'm not so sure about them myself.
Practice alone first. Put the whole dam in your mouth. Lick it. How does it taste? Better you should make that funny face now than when your face is between your lover's legs. If the dam's flavor bothers you, wash it with a mild soap and rinse it thoroughly.
Touch yourself with the dam brush it against your face, tickle and rub your genitals with it, snap it against your skin. We encourage you to play with the dams until you are embarrassed by how much you are enjoying them.
How can I start talking with my partner about using dams?
Dams are a great tool for starting a conversation about safer sex. Having them handy and being able to talk about using them shows a concern for yourself and others. When you feel the time is right -- we suggest a non-sexual setting, for instance during dinner -- tell your lover or potential lover about the fun you've been having with dental dams.
Have a dam handy so you can show the person what you're talking about. Spark curiosity -- offer to share your toy and be the safer sex coach. Ask this person's feelings about safer sex and listen to the response. Often just talking about your feelings, whether you're shy, embarrassed, intimidated or excited, can ease any tensions. Be prepared to negotiate around safer sex alternatives which are acceptable to both of you.
Explore and have fun!
FUN????
What Rocked . . .
Going shopping last week & being able to buy a size smaller jeans,
Starting back on my diet & loosing another 6lbs
and I've still got another day til weigh in!!
What Sucked . . .
Hubby & I both being ill with the Flu,
loosing my voice
and having no energy for anything!
(and I meant literally 'anything') :cry:
Going shopping last week & being able to buy a size smaller jeans,
Starting back on my diet & loosing another 6lbs
and I've still got another day til weigh in!!
What Sucked . . .
Hubby & I both being ill with the Flu,
loosing my voice
and having no energy for anything!
(and I meant literally 'anything') :cry:
Quote by bluexxx
can i come toothats the week before my birthday yayyyyy
And you are?????
Sorry, only people we know or who have someone reliable to vouch for them will be invited to this one.
Blue, I took what cappy wrote as a bit of fun, i didn't think he was seriously wanting an invite! Looks like we newbies have to be careful what we say - catch 22 me thinks
Joined the forum a few weeks back having 'Googled'!! and have made a few posts but not formally introduced myself!! So i thought I'd make up for it now!
I find it strange joining a forum that's so established having been a member & administrator on another (not a swinging one I hasten to add!!) since it started back in 2002! But from what I have read it seems a cool place to hang out and I know full well how great friendships can be found on the net
Anyway back to me!! I've know my hubby for over twenty years & we have a very strong, enjoyable & loving relationship. I don't think we have ever been truely faithful to each other & I donot believe that humans are designed to be monogamous, but that's another story!! Surfice to say we have had various experiences along the way both individually & as a couple and having recently moved to the North West (Cheshire infact) we are interested in making new like minded friends. SH seems the ideal place to start!!
Personal info - we are both 37, happy to swing together or separately having formed a friendship first (bad experience of contact through a mag!!). I have a few bi experiences both singly & as a couple but I would not count myself as 'experienced' (still plenty of fun to be had learning!)
I look forward to getting to know you :high-smile:
Hello!!
PS thanx to Mark for changing my username :)
I find it strange joining a forum that's so established having been a member & administrator on another (not a swinging one I hasten to add!!) since it started back in 2002! But from what I have read it seems a cool place to hang out
and I know full well how great friendships can be found on the net Anyway back to me!! I've know my hubby for over twenty years & we have a very strong, enjoyable & loving relationship. I don't think we have ever been truely faithful to each other & I donot believe that humans are designed to be monogamous, but that's another story!! Surfice to say we have had various experiences along the way both individually & as a couple and having recently moved to the North West (Cheshire infact) we are interested in making new like minded friends. SH seems the ideal place to start!!
Personal info - we are both 37, happy to swing together or separately having formed a friendship first (bad experience of contact through a mag!!). I have a few bi experiences both singly & as a couple but I would not count myself as 'experienced' (still plenty of fun to be had learning!)
I look forward to getting to know you :high-smile:
Hello!!
PS thanx to Mark for changing my username :)
I'm 37 (must be something about this time in life!!)
& have just started college almost 20years after leaving school.
I'm enjoying myself although the level I've started at isn't very stretching but unfortunately that's where I have to start! Makes the return to study much easier though Especially with a young family to look after!!
I am sure that 'mature' students gain far more from studying at this stage in life, I had no idea what I wanted to do at eighteen!!
Enjoy yourself sour
& have just started college almost 20years after leaving school.
I'm enjoying myself although the level I've started at isn't very stretching but unfortunately that's where I have to start! Makes the return to study much easier though
Especially with a young family to look after!! I am sure that 'mature' students gain far more from studying at this stage in life, I had no idea what I wanted to do at eighteen!!
Enjoy yourself sour
Quote by bigDewi69
They exist, but you won't meet many if you work in an office. Best get a job as a milkman, gardener, builder or any other profession which involves spending time at bored housewives homes whilst hubby is out at work in an office.
That explains why I'm not bored then :idea:
Hubby works shifts & is here during the day :twisted:
Well when I was 9 I had learnt to slice bread straight. We went on a self catering holiday to Wales (- it was the summer Elvis died - i can still remember it now!! ) My mum took the bread knife with us (we always went on holiday with the kitchen sink in tow - sound familiar!?) Unfortunately we left said bread knifr behind and since then I have never been able to cut bread straight again!! 
Sliced bread is therefore the easiest option but when i have time i enjoy freshly made bread from my bread maker so we have kinky bread but it tastes delicious!!
Amazing what snippets stay in ones mind!!!
Sliced bread is therefore the easiest option but when i have time i enjoy freshly made bread from my bread maker so we have kinky bread but it tastes delicious!!
Amazing what snippets stay in ones mind!!!
Quote by goodporking
Totally depends on the situation in my book.
Totally agree, my orgasms vary so much. I can take a really long time to reach the point thoroughly enjoying myself along the way, other times I can orgasm almost immediately and then enjoy concentrating on pleasuring the other person. Also I find sometimes that I do not feel the need to reach orgasm at all & enjoy myself any way. Often these different scenarios depend on my mood at the time & also the situation.
As a busy mum I find that a quick shag results in either a quick orgasm or none at all, something my hubby finds hard to accept ( and feels guilty about) but does not bother me one jott, i just love sex
Swinging experiences are different, however, and I would hope that everyone involved would be intent on giving pleasure. Unfortunately this is not always the case & as a result experiences are not quite so enjoyable IMHO, when yes peeps can be selfish when not concentrating on the other participants nees & desires.
boltonlad
don't think you'll find many bored housewives on SH, once this site has been found there's definately no chance of being bored
Not that I was bored before I found SH, plenty to keep me busy as a housewife, mother & wife & now a student but there's still time for having fun in that hectic schedule!!
nice bum btw
don't think you'll find many bored housewives on SH, once this site has been found there's definately no chance of being bored
Not that I was bored before I found SH, plenty to keep me busy as a housewife, mother & wife & now a student but there's still time for having fun in that hectic schedule!!
nice bum btw
Quote by leprechaun
welcome to u now take the next step and get your ass out to some of the wild and wonderfull socials and munches then maybe dip your toes into an odd party or to we only bite if you want us to
Thanks! That's our aim but obviously we can't jump straight in so need to get to know some peeps on here. You all seem a great bunch of people so that shouldnt prove too difficult
Was watching real wife swap a couple of weeks ago,
searched google & ended up here & registered.
Told hubby the next morning when he came home from work & he admitted he already been browsing as a guest! (He's now registered btw!)
Have spent time lurking & now got into posting on threads that tickle my fancy,
looking forward to getting to know what appears a good crowd of people.
So glad we moved from the south to the north west a couple of years ago as there seems to be a lively crowd up here!
searched google & ended up here & registered.
Told hubby the next morning when he came home from work & he admitted he already been browsing as a guest! (He's now registered btw!)
Have spent time lurking & now got into posting on threads that tickle my fancy,
looking forward to getting to know what appears a good crowd of people.
So glad we moved from the south to the north west a couple of years ago as there seems to be a lively crowd up here!
Quote by blonde
IMHO ............ swinging is different things to different people !!!
and do what makes you happy !
blonde
I think you've hit the nail on the head
Like everything in life your perspective of a situation is where you are at at the time. Swinging means different things to different people and that's the beauty of it, if we were all the same life would be sooooo boring
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This ought to put under an FAQ l
It is it's here http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/terminology/swinging.html
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