Hi Toni
It's not the same without seeing you in the pink. Both me and Mrs S are hoping you come back soon.
Love and kisses
The Sweet Peas
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Sweet_pea
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 61
Straight Female, 46
UK
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Warming the Bed
I am trying to find out if there is a swingers pub on the A421 going out of MK towards Buckingham??
We have heard rumours of it but don't know any details of what it is like. If anyone has been or knows of it please let us know as we are hoping to get out and go somewhere for some fun this weekend
Thanks, Ali x
We have heard rumours of it but don't know any details of what it is like. If anyone has been or knows of it please let us know as we are hoping to get out and go somewhere for some fun this weekend
Thanks, Ali x
Warming the Bed
Quote by anais
If the fourth person doesnt know of the threesum... until after the event, yeah it def ruins a relationship!!
My experience!
xanaisx
I was just thinking a very similar thing!
Sweet_pea
thats just one persons experience, we all have different ones. Unfortunately mines in the negative sense. I cant speak as a *swinger* as Im not in the scene. What I have learnt from member members here is too keep talking to your OH, being honest with another, tell each other everything and most of all go at your own pace.
My relationship obviously wasnt based on that....sadly!
:? Good luck and take no notice of me, I talk crap the best of times hehe
xanaisx
Not talking crap, mine was a negative sense too and took a long time for me to trust anyone else and myself too.
I am new the swinging scene, this week joined the site with the support and encouragement of my (more experienced) bf.
Thank you for the advice and sweet kiss
Ali x
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Quote by Dlep
I feel better about myself than I did a couple of years ago. I have a way to go, but the journey to being confident has finally been started. A small step maybe, but it was a dificult one.
But there again I do overthink things all the time (or so I'm told :shock:)
What step did you take? Just curious as some days i have confidence in myself, others i don't want get out of bed!
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Quote by sexkittenhfx
sweetpea, sexy is a state of mind not a body shape, i firmly beleive that.
im big girl but i dont class myself as a BBW, i dont class myself as anything - im me.
i agree with darkfire that some do see BBW as an easy target, and that BBW is fetishized (new word there...) in some minds - i wouldnt leave myself open to either. im happy sharing my sexyness with people who think im sexy, fat or not
however, the BBW rooms in chat are great, loads of gorgeous women in there, of all sizes (bloody hell ive seen women half the size of me in there calling themselves BBW...thats a whole other story) and loads of good banter. im pretty sure ive seen you in there before sweetpea?
relax and go at your own pace, concentrate on your positives and feel sexy, thats the most important thing hun
BBW rooms in chat? I am new, joined this week although my bf has been a member for a while. I took the plunge to come and chat today just to start talking to people and finding out more.
I love feeling sexy and being sexy but do not have the confidence right now to do that with people I don't really know.
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Quote by Ukwineman
I'm new to this too (partner has more experience) and also from the Bucks area. Quite nervous about being a newbie so any advice or chat welcome.
:welcome: to the forums sweetpea i see you migrated from the chat room so good to see you in here. :rose:
Migrating or fell in by mistake? not sure which
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Quote by Darkfire
why do I feel like you're thinking that people would only be interested in you if they have a 'fat fetish' ?
I dunno about 'popularity' - some BBW's are popular because they're great people and there's a perception that fat = bubbly, fun, good company etc. On the flip side there's also the fat = easy, cos we're desperate
Step away from the 'size issue' hun and be YOU - there's a difference between being honest with folk about size, and projecting yourself as 'fat and no one wants me'. The first option is far more attractive
I might be wrong here, but as new BBW on here i am definitely low in confidence about meeting up and maybe this is their way of trying to get in touch with people who wont make them feel ugly. I am confused sometimes why someone would be turned on looking at me naked!
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Quote by Manolishi
I am feeling insecure when i look and think about the other person or couple being fitter or more attractive than me, but I also think that is because I am lacking self confidence having no swinging experience.
I don't think you are alone with those thoughts.
As for tips, the trouble with tips is that they may not necessarily fit comfortably with you and the possibility exists that you change your persona to fit in with the tip.
Yeah i see that possibility. My worry with my confidence is that ok start off with someone who I think is less attractive than me but is that then a turn on for my partner? Lots of browsing and not much progress. Tell you what at this rate I may never actually take plunge (so to speak!)
Warming the Bed
I am totally new to the scene and this is the same discussion i have been having with my partner who is more experienced. He is looking at profiles and showing me pictures etc waiting for me to say "yeah ok, send them a message..."
I am feeling insecure when i look and think about the other person or couple being fitter or more attractive than me, but I also think that is because I am lacking self confidence having no swinging experience.
Any tips for a newbie on how to get rid of or ease the nerves and anxiety when thinking of or looking for the first time?
I am feeling insecure when i look and think about the other person or couple being fitter or more attractive than me, but I also think that is because I am lacking self confidence having no swinging experience.
Any tips for a newbie on how to get rid of or ease the nerves and anxiety when thinking of or looking for the first time?
