Asphyxiophilia is the love of suffocating (notice the 'i' after the 'x' for correct spelling) and it is also known as breath play. It can be exhilarating at the right moment with the right partner - the ultimate submission and control. Yes, it can go wrong but your friends you say are intelligent and aware, so why worry? They are not out to kill, they just enjoy a bit of edge play. I am talking from experience here. I am absolutely terrified of not being able to breathe, yet one time during some rough sex a friend placed his hand over my mouth and nose and the rush of adrenalin made it a memorable experience. It was probably a one-off experience for me, but having had that, I am more relaxed about people who engage in this sort of play. After all it is something one does with consent.
I am in my late 30s and would happily shag a man in his mid 60s if he had sex appeal.
Those into pee play will testify that there are all sorts of pee smell/taste.... some of them are totally odourless and tasteless.
And you CAN pee whilst aroused. My ex used to go for a wee whilst maintaining a perfect erection.
As for videos PLEEEEASEEE! You still believe everything you see?
Anyway, it does not matter whether female ejaculation is fact or fiction. Everyone can believe what they like about it and do it in any way it pleases them. I don't have to provide proof to any of my lovers about my sexual state - they know as well as they know I am not one to fake.
Rules?
I assume you have set out rules with your new partner? Written them down? Both signed in front of witnesses that these rules are acceptable and non negotiable?
Swinging is all about sex you say... Hmmm, just sex? Is it just sex I wonder after you have met a person/couple for the 10th-20th time? You do not talk about personal things at all? You know nothing about each other's lives? You only meet, undress, shag, shower, dress and leave?
In an ideal world, nothing would turn nasty. But this is real life, manofmuchfun. And to live life, you have to sample the sweet bits with the sour bits.
Also you brought this subject out in the open - maybe you did not think before posting, but how do you think your ex feels about being outed?
Two wrongs don't make a right, do they?
I suggest you 3 get together and talk things over like civilised adults.
Oh my God Jo! Looking at your pictures makes me think I haven't lived life!!! What a gorgeous girl you are and so adventurous. Have you written any stories/reports on your dogging experiences? If not, it is time to think about it!
Sorry to burst your bubble people but using ice internally is highly dangerous for two reasons:
1) ice is not smooth, despite appearances, and can cause cuts and promote infections
2) ice used internally can bring your core temperature down and cause death.
Play safe!
Congratulations on your new best friend, hope she will settle in soon and give you lots of love and happiness!
Is your flokati a real flokati? If so, it will stink forever unless you get it outdoors and give it a good shampoo (use human shampoo), a thorough rinse and leave it to dry on the line.
Calista
Thanks for the suggestions. Are you sure if I were to use half the detergent (i.e. one tablet instead of the recommended two) it would clean the clothes just as well? I think I will give this theory a try - worst thing will be to have to rewash them I guess.
neilinleeds
As for using Calgon, it is far too expensive. Back home we have been using it at every wash for years and years but when I came to this country and saw people were not using it I began wondering if it was really necessary.
Soda crystals might be a good alternative though. Will get a bag when I next go out.
Shall I assume that everyone else is getting a satisfactory softness out of their wash?
Sgt Bilko
I am just fed up of being taken for a ride, that is all.
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foxylady
In the old days I believe women washed their clothes in unpolluted rivers and beat them up with sticks to get the dirt out which probably resulted in keeping them soft... who knows!
I am beginning to think that men have more issues about sex than we do! 
your a good tutor MRS T 
