Well at least here you had some career guidance! In my country it is customary for the children to do what their parents are doing, so lawyer breeds lawyer, doctor breeds doctor and brickie breeds brickie. Not much opportunity to cross over for a lot of people. And even less chance for an internship!
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Tania
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 60
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Quote by Silk and Big G
condoms and first aid items can be kept in a zip bag
First aid??? :shock:
Yes, first aid... in case something goes wrong. It depends on the level one plays of course but you can get angry welts from caning which will need care to heal quickly, you can get bruises from too much squeezing of bodily parts, rope burns, cuts from using nipple clamps/clothes pegs, blood from play piercing - need I go on? Even if you don't play at that level, you can still irritate piles and cause bleeding which will need cleaning with water and attention with Anusol.
Quote by lucyuktv2
ok, a serious question everyone, where do you keep your toys?
I have used 2 shoeboxes for a while (and some overspill into me drawers ;) ) but I find that the jelly based ones "leak" into the cardboard. and the big pink one even leaks into other dildos causing them to have pink spots! in an ideal world they'd all have their own little homes, but WHERE should I keep them, and where do you all keep yours.
I am of course assuming you all have equally large collections...
Have you thought of keeping your dildos/buttplugs and vibrators in see through sandwich bags? This way they stay clean and dust free. Nipple clamps and small items can all be kept in a jewellery box. Lubricants and assorted bottles are best kept in low baskets (so they are easy to reach and store and you don't have to move every single item to get to the one you want). Disinfectant wipes, condoms and first aid items can be kept in a zip bag (of the type you'd put your cosmetics or bath essentials in). Large items that must maintain their shape are better left hanging inside the wardrobe as are clothes, naturally.
Before reading the latest comments, I was meaning to post to say that most of the knowledge/idea I have about English families comes from what I see on reality TV. I have a few friends over here but none of them has kids and they lead non traditional lives. However, having read the latest posts that are rife with sarcasm I don't think I will bother. :dry:
Quote by lucyuktv2
can anyone think of a good way to "snap out of it"?
currently I feel like I'm waiting for Monday to go to work. just going through the motions until something comes along...
any suggestions?
Give yourself a luxury pampering at home - bubble bath, oil massage, makeup, dressup. Set up your camera and take some sexy pics of yourself or a video. Then get in bed with a good book or magazine, chocolates and some toys (in case you get some inspiration and are too bored to get up and collect them). Tomorrow you can do it all over again!
Quote by VenusnMars
Ah, ok. Well you might like to think about how things sound before you type them, because that really came across as a criticism and a broad brush observation on how we raise our kids in this country.
I rankled :shock:
Venusxxx
Interesting word rankle. I had to look it up. Sorry you feel this way Venus. I did not mean to offend and I did say earlier on this is not a criticism, just a debate.
Quote by Calista
If your country is so great why are you over here ?? This country obviously isn't good enough!Can't see the point in coming over here and then complaining like mad????
C x
I am not complaining. I am making social comparisons. Anyway all foreigners think their country is best. Even expat Brits in my country!
Quote by Scandal
shall I tell you or shall I taunt you?
After your comment about the homeless and beggars, I was just wondering if your country of origin was on the same planet I live on?
Oh I don't know about the planet you live in, Scandal!
There are no homeless in my country, thank God. There are lots of beggars but they are professional beggars. They work regular hours and do not litter the streets with beer cans and liquor bottles - simply because they have more sense than to waste money on alcohol.
When I was young a psycho murdered a little girl by drowning her in his hotel sink. It must have been all over the news but those days we did not have TV and even if we did have TV the news wouldn't have been as graphic as today. I recall the adults discussing the case and warning me not to trust strangers. They told me there are some 'bad people' who talk to children and offer them sweets and then steal them away from their families. One episode had thrown the entire country in fear and despair. What scared me the most was hearing the police used a doll for the man to show them how he killed the little girl. I recall for quite a while being afraid of dolls thinking they were the dead kid.
However, there are a lot more cases of children being molested at home - far too many for comfort! There was a case of a girl who gave birth to a fish child and the whole nation was appalled to find out she had been used by all men in the family: father, brother and uncle. About a year or so later, she fell pregnant again... again it was the same perpetrators. Go figure it!
However, there are a lot more cases of children being molested at home - far too many for comfort! There was a case of a girl who gave birth to a fish child and the whole nation was appalled to find out she had been used by all men in the family: father, brother and uncle. About a year or so later, she fell pregnant again... again it was the same perpetrators. Go figure it!
Yes, I must be living in a bubble because I forgot to lock my car twice and it did not get broken in (and no jokes about it not being good enough to steal, ok? LOL) One of the times I had my purse in it with money and credit cards and it was left at the shopping centre, the other time it was outside my house. I have also been opening up windows and going to work leaving the house to air all day - again nothing untoward happened. The only instance of theft was targetted on my recycling bin - overkeen recyclers get to me sometimes! LOL
When I lived in South London it was a different story, however. One was afraid to go outdoors then with shootings happening at night and yellow signs announcing robberies, muggings, rapes, murders appearing in the morning. There were homeless sleeping in the tube, beggars in the streets, sirens wailing 24/7, rubbish dumped just about anywhere, drug trafficking and other things.
When I first came to this country I thought all people live in squalid conditions because I was in the wrong area, without much money and no collateral for anyone to take me seriously and offer me a job and the chance to make the money.
Where I live apparently the council had to take out an order prohibiting youngsters congregating in the streets after dark. What?!!!!! What is wrong with young kids hanging out with each other sharing their woes? If they had done this to me and my friends when I was young and prohibited us the freedom to roam the streets in groups I'd have gone crazy and of course I would have become unsociable. Not all youngsters are doing drugs, drinking alchohol and plan to rob the corner shop.
Few blocks away it is a different story. The area is run down and dirtier. People have street fights at night and there is police presence outside the pubs dispersing crowds. People will have car races at 3 am. But nobody touches you unless you provoke them.
Anyway it is good to discuss such issues and open our eyes to the reality that not everything is as bad or as good as we perceive it to be. I am enjoying this exchange of information/ideas.
When I lived in South London it was a different story, however. One was afraid to go outdoors then with shootings happening at night and yellow signs announcing robberies, muggings, rapes, murders appearing in the morning. There were homeless sleeping in the tube, beggars in the streets, sirens wailing 24/7, rubbish dumped just about anywhere, drug trafficking and other things.
When I first came to this country I thought all people live in squalid conditions because I was in the wrong area, without much money and no collateral for anyone to take me seriously and offer me a job and the chance to make the money.
Where I live apparently the council had to take out an order prohibiting youngsters congregating in the streets after dark. What?!!!!! What is wrong with young kids hanging out with each other sharing their woes? If they had done this to me and my friends when I was young and prohibited us the freedom to roam the streets in groups I'd have gone crazy and of course I would have become unsociable. Not all youngsters are doing drugs, drinking alchohol and plan to rob the corner shop.
Few blocks away it is a different story. The area is run down and dirtier. People have street fights at night and there is police presence outside the pubs dispersing crowds. People will have car races at 3 am. But nobody touches you unless you provoke them.
Anyway it is good to discuss such issues and open our eyes to the reality that not everything is as bad or as good as we perceive it to be. I am enjoying this exchange of information/ideas.
There is no crime where I live. Most people live at the end of the street, in flats. The elementary school is at the other end. Only one quiet road to walk along for them with sufficient pavement space. No people hanging around trying to push drugs, no weirdos staring at kids. No animals running amuck. No unexploded bombs left over by the war.
When I was young, back home, I had to content with stray dogs, some of them very ferrocious, a mentally retarded man who used to expose himself, curse and harrass people (he never harrassed me because I was kind to him and never yelled, ridiculed or threw stones at him. He actually protected me when he saw strange people talking to me, coming and asking if I needed help.) If you chose the short cut there was always the risk of mines left over from the war but I had been taught to stay on the trodden path and not mess up with iron objects in the ground.
Yes, times have changed and not all neighbourhoods are as safe as my current one. So why don't parents get together and organise a school bus to pick their kids up? It costs less than having to drive them yourself and it is kinder to the environment. I have never seen a school bus in this country!
When I was young, back home, I had to content with stray dogs, some of them very ferrocious, a mentally retarded man who used to expose himself, curse and harrass people (he never harrassed me because I was kind to him and never yelled, ridiculed or threw stones at him. He actually protected me when he saw strange people talking to me, coming and asking if I needed help.) If you chose the short cut there was always the risk of mines left over from the war but I had been taught to stay on the trodden path and not mess up with iron objects in the ground.
Yes, times have changed and not all neighbourhoods are as safe as my current one. So why don't parents get together and organise a school bus to pick their kids up? It costs less than having to drive them yourself and it is kinder to the environment. I have never seen a school bus in this country!
I just found the email I mentioned earlier and posted it to Swingers Stories. It will give people another perspective on cuckolding and hopefully will titilate in its outrageousness. I suppose it will take a few hours to appear in the stories list but would appreciate feedback via PM. Thanks.
I suppose it will take a few hours to appear in the stories list but would appreciate feedback via PM. Thanks. 