Congrats R & V, a very untraditional wedding in the sense that you actually had sex on your wedding night.
Ahhh some people have all the luck!
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Tania
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 60
0 miles · Greater London
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I am very sorry to hear of your troubles. Why not go to your local CAB (Citizens Advice Bureau) and get some info on your rights and the council's obligations? I have found them to be invaluable help and besides their vast knowledge and links to other parties that can help, they offer a listening ear which can take the tension away and give you hope.
Hope you find some joy soon.
Hope you find some joy soon.
since herd on grapevine ,most women prefere oral sex to penetration your on a loss,er if you don,t do it ain,t ya Quote by Serendipity
Out of interest, does anyone know at what dress size a person tends to start using the term BBW?
I class BBWs as women size 20 and over with women size 28 and over being classed as SSBBW (super size BBWs). Women size 16-18 are just healthy girls!
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For those that are interested in meeting big girls, here is a link of a BBW nightclub in London:
Check out the galleries! Album 2, bottom border, first and second pic from the right. If anyone can honestly say this girl is not a beauty, then I don't know what is wrong with you people.
Quote by taxinspector2004
Most men who state that they prefer bbw's are usually the ones that cant get anyone else.
That is such a racist remark! I am a BBW, actually an SSBBW and I have laid some of the most handsome and most desirable men around. It is not the size that matters but the psyche and some men are enlightened enough to seek the inner beauty of a woman.
Your comment is as unfounded as saying that 'most men who date blondes is because they can't get a brunette' etc.
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perhaps you are right Tania' but,doesn't the warmth of feelings engendered by liking the people you "shag" with make you feel warmer (and safer!) than just meeting strangers?
I don't know Hagrid. It is all yet to come, I guess. I expect my views to change as I grow older and get more experiences so what is true today may not necessarily be true tomorrow.
But I'll tell you one thing.
I met this guy whom I really really liked but for some reason I did not feel like going to bed with on that particular occasion. This guy has not kept in touch which is annoying as I was certain he liked me too. I want to call him/write to him so badly it hurts but I don't want to haunt him and make his life a misery just because he was not brave enough to tell me 'no sex, no future' or whatever was in his mind after our meeting. So what am I supposed to do now? Sleep with every man that responds to my ad or asks me out from here in the hope that something may develop? No sex on a first date in the hope they will appreciate me all the more for it? And wouldn't any man be a stranger till the first sexual encounter? Very complicated! (Relationships are so hard to fathom that I rightfully retreat in my shell where it is nice and safe and everything makes sense.)
Hope you or someone else can clarify this confusion!
Wow, I never thought it would be approved so quickly and was also wondering about its length as I had a look at some stories and they are short and sweet. Did any of you had a chance to read it? I'd appreciate comments by PM and even suggestions to what you'd like to read in the future. Thanks!
A Day of Shame
A Day of Shame
I do not qualify as a swinger as I have not had my first experience yet. I joined SH to learn about swinging, its pros and cons, and how it may affect my life. I have a theory that couples that swing are happier than couples that don't but I could be wrong. I was hoping to find someone who could introduce me to the scene but it seems that all single men here are also novices. And instead of concentrating on finding someone, I spend my time browsing the forum and posting my opinions here and there irritating certain people. 
I am sure a psychologist would diagnose me with Obsessive Compulsive Disorder if he knew how much time I spend in here! 
It would be nice if I could make some friends but I am not sure I would be able to shag them. I am one of these people who feel freer with strangers.
I am sure a psychologist would diagnose me with Obsessive Compulsive Disorder if he knew how much time I spend in here! It would be nice if I could make some friends but I am not sure I would be able to shag them. I am one of these people who feel freer with strangers. I have a wicked fantasy...
In it my ex Master comes to visit and tells me that things at work are not going well and he needs to keep his boss happy but has not been able to book a hooker for the night. So of course, me being the selfless person I have always been, I offer to play the part of the hooker for the night...
Of course being a hooker and paid for it, I have no option of backing out or saying no... which makes this fantasy all the more interesting.
In it my ex Master comes to visit and tells me that things at work are not going well and he needs to keep his boss happy but has not been able to book a hooker for the night. So of course, me being the selfless person I have always been, I offer to play the part of the hooker for the night...
Of course being a hooker and paid for it, I have no option of backing out or saying no... which makes this fantasy all the more interesting.
I still remember my first pair of stockings and suspenders. I wore them with a thong inside my corduroy skirt. I had other plans for my day but ended up at the car mechanic's having my car fixed. Imagine me standing there, knowing what I was wearing, feeling it with every move of my skirt, surrounded by dirty men... ah it was heaven!
Worst site ever is A total waste of time. They send you all these wonderful matches but when you write to the guys you either don't get a reply because they have left the site months ago or they respond to say that you are not what they are looking for. Clever trick of Udate is you can't unsubscribe and get your money back... oh no, once you have paid you might as well have put the money down the bin.
I had better results with and Alt yielded a long term partner whom I loved till my heart bled. AFF yielded a good lover whom I still see from time to time. Needless to say that both men lied through their teeth in their profiles! LOL
I had better results with and Alt yielded a long term partner whom I loved till my heart bled. AFF yielded a good lover whom I still see from time to time. Needless to say that both men lied through their teeth in their profiles! LOL
Main Entry: flo·ra
Pronunciation: 'flOr-&, 'flor-
Function: noun
Inflected Form(s): plural floras also flo·rae /'flOr-"E, 'flor-, -"I/
Etymology: New Latin, from Latin Flora, Roman goddess of flowers, from Latin flor-, flos
1 : a treatise on or list of the plants of an area or period
2 : plant or bacterial life; especially : such life characteristic of a region, period, or special environment <fossil flora> -- compare FAUNA
Pronunciation: 'flOr-&, 'flor-
Function: noun
Inflected Form(s): plural floras also flo·rae /'flOr-"E, 'flor-, -"I/
Etymology: New Latin, from Latin Flora, Roman goddess of flowers, from Latin flor-, flos
1 : a treatise on or list of the plants of an area or period
2 : plant or bacterial life; especially : such life characteristic of a region, period, or special environment <fossil flora> -- compare FAUNA
Quote by kristof
Oh but I should not be ill mouthing my employers, should I?
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soz hun, but it took a few to sink in on me what you wrote heer, and I have to say that the bit I quoted is in somewhat poor taste
personally its what i am, thats why i come here, if people cant accept mme for what I am then f**k em, but i am aware that some people will be "perterbed and disgruntled" I think is a polite term to use, by your comment.
Eh?
: : : You lost me here. 