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Tania
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 60
0 miles · Greater London
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What is a good girl like you doing reading sordid papers like that?
Anyway, from what I understand it is all a game. That newspaper gives the sensational stories that people want to read. It is more of an advertising for 'perverse' activities (hey guys, in case you didn't know you can also do this and that and we'll tell you exactly how!) sort of thing.
Oh but I should not be ill mouthing my employers, should I?
PS: I agree that pic is too clear to have been taken via glass using telephoto equipment. But then again what do I know, I have never been dogging. Maybe people lower their windows and polish the car before going out, just in case a photographer happens to be standing by.
Anyway, from what I understand it is all a game. That newspaper gives the sensational stories that people want to read. It is more of an advertising for 'perverse' activities (hey guys, in case you didn't know you can also do this and that and we'll tell you exactly how!) sort of thing.
Oh but I should not be ill mouthing my employers, should I?
PS: I agree that pic is too clear to have been taken via glass using telephoto equipment. But then again what do I know, I have never been dogging. Maybe people lower their windows and polish the car before going out, just in case a photographer happens to be standing by.
Quote by kristof
sorry if i caused offence with that statement, but I truly do not understand it, I know the concept of it, i know that there is more trust between a dom and sub than most would realise.
Don't worry Kristof, I don't think you have offended anyone.
Quote by kristof
I suppose that here the inability lies with me as life has never allowed me to place that much trust in anybody.
It is not easy to let go of oneself. It is not easy to trust. Just because someone claims to be a Dom/me or Master/Mistress that does not immediately qualify them to take responsibility for your well being. Even professional Dommes or Masters are sometimes not to be trusted...
Best source of Viagra is your GP. This kind of medication can affect your circulation so it is best monitored by someone who knows what they are doing. I have a friend who gets his online ( 
). It can get quite frustrating for both of us as we can't time our appetites to coincide and he's like 'let's do it now whilst I still can' and I am like 'I am hungry, let's eat some food first'. LOL
Anyway anti-depressants do lower libido and I am inexcusable for making a joke of Viagra without thinking first. Apologies for that. It was not ill meant.
). It can get quite frustrating for both of us as we can't time our appetites to coincide and he's like 'let's do it now whilst I still can' and I am like 'I am hungry, let's eat some food first'. LOLAnyway anti-depressants do lower libido and I am inexcusable for making a joke of Viagra without thinking first. Apologies for that. It was not ill meant.
Quote by RedHot
Well maybe I'm not normal then, but I like to be sure it's cleaned properly and there's no way I'm going to start washing myself in urine
Tracy-Jayne
Besides, let us not forget that urine is sterile whilst in the bladder but non sterile as soon as it exits as it gets contaminated by the flora on the skin.
Quote by kristof
hmm, well lets see, where do I start
age 13 ...age 34 .....age 43 ...
Hmm, I see what the problem is and my initial reaction to reading your post was to exclaim in indignation about what life's dealt you.
However, I think that your problem is easy to solve as it is really with the number "3" so if you are wise, you will avoid it from now on... So no car plate including no. 3 in it, no hotel room with no. 3, not doing anything important on the 3rd, 13th, 23rd, 30th and 31st of a month and of course if you meet a girl you can't have sex with her 3 times to see if you really like her, you have to hurry and shag her one more time immediately after the 3rd (take Viagra if necessary, I don't care!) to ensure all goes well.
Big hug (my stupid XP SP2 is prohibiting me accessing more emoticons so you will have to settle for a verbal hug)
Heheh I forgot to mention that the most erotic bit for me this time round was the love making between Igor and O. There was something in the way he held her head, totally possessing her that I could not resist. I am a sucker for a man who knows how to embrace a woman's head - am I weird or what? LOL
Well it was different from me. First I saw the film and although I could not understand the concepts in it I was at that excitable age that you don't stop and analyse things, you just accept and enjoy them. Later on, a boyfriend happened to have the Story of O in comic version and that was a lot more explicit. I remember reading it in the balcony of his home under the moonlight and how he came up to me and started fondling me making the experience even more erotic! Unfortunately his mom was sleeping indoors or else we would be having sex under the stars. I read the book 3-4 years ago when my ex partner lent it to me. I was disappointed by the book and the lack of depth in the characters. You see by that time I was well immersed into the BDSM scene and knew that fantasies and reality don't match. Never read the sequel as my ex said it was not worth reading but will wait to hear from Dawn 
Quote by kristof
I actually watched it a few days ago, I now have a copy of it on dvd (copied from an original dubbed dvd}
and yeah, it had an effect on me, still unable how somebody could be so dominated by another to the extent they would accept those results
Oh you'd be surprised! ;) Anyway, what was the part in the film that most impressed you or had the greatest effect?
Have any of you seen the film lately? I know lots of people saw it in their late teens/early 20s and I am just wondering whether upon reviewing it at a more mature age you find it has the same impact on you. I got it from the videoclub but it seems unfamiliar to the point I wonder whether the one I am watching is a remake. For one thing, the original was in French and I am sure it was more explicit. But then again, after so many years, my memory could be deceiving me...
Quote by sheffieldfun4two
We have builders in at present and one of the guys is a real hunk! I'm off work next week and don't know if I can keep my hands off him!
Hubby says go for it, but it aint swinging is it?
Heheheh, hubby is a naughty boy for putting such ideas in your head. Doesn't he realise that he will still have to pay the builder's fees? LOL
Ahhh fantasies are nice!
Quote by johnneuk1
since you appear to have arrived safely at your computer screen, can,t have been anything important,sure you did,nt hit object on road,: still have 4 wheels,
Visually car looks ok, haven't checked for leaks yet. I tend to put off the things that I find most difficult to deal with.
Luckily I have nowhere to go to today as I am giving the dating business a rest. Thanks for suggestions, they help PS: never said that I loved the humour in the original post. I too have tried helping my ex partner with a manual and experienced first hand a lot of those things mentioned.
Quote by BaldEagle
Well, I see your ads have already gone, or had you removed them earlier
Such action does make people twitchy.
My ads were banned. I had placed an ad in the Holidays section that was not deemed appropriate and along with it the mods deleted my main ad which was totally irrelevant but who am I to argue with them. Hope this puts your mind at ease
The problem with anti-depressants is that their use is not closely monitored by the medical profession. If some of you can see a psychologist/psychiatrist twice a month, consider yourself lucky. Most people I know are seen on a monthly or 6-weekly basis. When they are at their lowest, they do not have help. When it is time to talk with their consultant, it is usually too late as the crisis has come and passed. Psychiatrists today are only interested in whether you wish to kill yourself or not. If you do not wish to kill yourself, they do not pay much attention. As for GPs they are already so overworked that they can't follow up patients regularly. It is up to the patient to see their GP and discuss their medication issues with him/her. And then the GP has the problem of coming into conflict with the specialist. Who tells the patient how much dose to take? Who makes that decision? In my experience, nobody wants to be responsible really.
I feel that it would be much better if people were encouraged to look at their diet and exercise. Most of us do not eat properly and so starve our bodies from important nutrients - some of which control brain functions. What is better: to pop pills or to eat well? Anyway, let me not get started as I have very strong views on the subject and could bore you to death with them!
I feel that it would be much better if people were encouraged to look at their diet and exercise. Most of us do not eat properly and so starve our bodies from important nutrients - some of which control brain functions. What is better: to pop pills or to eat well? Anyway, let me not get started as I have very strong views on the subject and could bore you to death with them!
Quote by JudyTV
Mmm
I would be interested in the verification / source of this information, or how you have come to this conclusion. As a dominatrix and also as someone who enjoys being spanked and even receiving mild pain your theory doesn't really fit my lifestyle pastimes.
I have been active in the D/s lifestyle for nearly 6 years. I am the source. The verification is the people I have come across in all these years.
Erm, if you were to hear a loud noise and feel a bang under your feet whilst driving your car and then had the feeling that a bit dropped off on the road, then a mile later had the feeling another bit had dropped off, would you
A) stop and examine bits on tarmac
B) continue driving whilst saying your prayers
C) ignore it and call a man
I did B followed by C. Any bright mechanics among us have any idea what it could have been? My man is not available till late tomorrow.
A) stop and examine bits on tarmac
B) continue driving whilst saying your prayers
C) ignore it and call a man
I did B followed by C. Any bright mechanics among us have any idea what it could have been? My man is not available till late tomorrow.
Quote by Lovecommando
Hope no one is on Seroxat... that drug is sooo evil!
Why do you say Seroxat is evil?
LC
Because it is addictive and it changes a person's behaviour within a very short period of time giving them vivid nightmares and a feeling of persecution. If you do a search on the net you will find heaps of info from users and there is a legal case going on against the manufacturer. I may be wrong but I think they did not disclose vital information about the clinical trials which led the MCA (Medicines Control Agency) to grant them a product licence. The MCA accepted their mistake and apologised and I think they are trying to change the licensing procedures to avoid similar incidences in the future. Of course none of this will bring back the hundreds of suicidees that might have survived if the medical profession had not let them down
Sometimes it is a curse to know too much about such things...
Hope no one is on Seroxat... that drug is sooo evil!
I have noticed that a lot of women and men enter a Dom(me)/sub relationship when they are feeling low about themselves. It is when they feel low that they seek pain/abuse as a method of release. I am not sure whether it is the same with swinging (i.e. that people seek out sexual encounters to feel good about themselves). It is possible though.
I have noticed that a lot of women and men enter a Dom(me)/sub relationship when they are feeling low about themselves. It is when they feel low that they seek pain/abuse as a method of release. I am not sure whether it is the same with swinging (i.e. that people seek out sexual encounters to feel good about themselves). It is possible though.
Bald Eagle,
My ads were there last time I checked, don't know why the links don't work now and instead of taking you to the advert they take you to the main screen. I sure have not changed anything on my computer. Perhaps a mod has changed settings? Though I don't know why they'd do that. Mystery!
Freckledbird,
Apology accepted. But please don't be so suspicious of people (that is my prerogative! LOL) I am just as human as you and the next person are, I too have needs and desires and dreams and things that bug me in life.
My ads were there last time I checked, don't know why the links don't work now and instead of taking you to the advert they take you to the main screen. I sure have not changed anything on my computer. Perhaps a mod has changed settings? Though I don't know why they'd do that. Mystery!
Freckledbird,
Apology accepted. But please don't be so suspicious of people (that is my prerogative! LOL) I am just as human as you and the next person are, I too have needs and desires and dreams and things that bug me in life.
OK this may not come down well considering the distrust that some members have shown me but I have to speak my mind as it may be important to Libra:
Honey, you don't know if this guy is a member of this forum. All you have to go by is hisclaims and two anonymous phonecalls which hemade. You don't know for sure that someone in here passed out your details... It is not to say this cannot happen but my haunch would be that someone that knows you from outside SH has come upon your pic here, recognised you and decided to play a game with you. He is probably getting off on the game.
My advice to you would be to inform the police. They can tap your phone if necessary and locate the caller. This guy has to realise that his behaviour is not on. He could shower you with diamonds but he'd still be a stalker. There are laws against this. I am sure the police would have no issues with you being a swinger and would protect and advise you to the best of their ability.
Oh, if he calls again, just hang the phone up on him. A man who is not brave enough to identify himself and act honourably is not worth your spit.
Regards
Honey, you don't know if this guy is a member of this forum. All you have to go by is hisclaims and two anonymous phonecalls which hemade. You don't know for sure that someone in here passed out your details... It is not to say this cannot happen but my haunch would be that someone that knows you from outside SH has come upon your pic here, recognised you and decided to play a game with you. He is probably getting off on the game.
My advice to you would be to inform the police. They can tap your phone if necessary and locate the caller. This guy has to realise that his behaviour is not on. He could shower you with diamonds but he'd still be a stalker. There are laws against this. I am sure the police would have no issues with you being a swinger and would protect and advise you to the best of their ability.
Oh, if he calls again, just hang the phone up on him. A man who is not brave enough to identify himself and act honourably is not worth your spit.
Regards
Hi guys
Thanks for your participation to the poll and answers. I was going out on a date tonight and I had been thinking how much I am exposing myself. In particular I was thinking of the guy who specifically preyed on pregnant women and killed them. Don't know if he's been caught or not as I do not watch the news often. But one thing that has surprised me is how many men focus on the pregnant bit of my ad. I was just wondering, what if one of them is the one (the killer) - that's all. Anyway the date was a complete waste of time so I came home early to the safety of my laptop hoping to find something to keep my mind occupied till sleep claims my body... it was great to see people view me with mistrust, very encouraging, especially after a crap evening out. :cry: Anyway, I will put Frecklebird's advice to action: I will search the internet; only it will be for other swinging forums where perhaps people are more relaxed and open-hearted.
Thanks for your participation to the poll and answers. I was going out on a date tonight and I had been thinking how much I am exposing myself. In particular I was thinking of the guy who specifically preyed on pregnant women and killed them. Don't know if he's been caught or not as I do not watch the news often. But one thing that has surprised me is how many men focus on the pregnant bit of my ad. I was just wondering, what if one of them is the one (the killer) - that's all. Anyway the date was a complete waste of time so I came home early to the safety of my laptop hoping to find something to keep my mind occupied till sleep claims my body... it was great to see people view me with mistrust, very encouraging, especially after a crap evening out. :cry: Anyway, I will put Frecklebird's advice to action: I will search the internet; only it will be for other swinging forums where perhaps people are more relaxed and open-hearted.
Do you believe in safecalls when meeting a stranger for the first time? Do you tell someone that you are going out and give details or arrange a phonecall at an agreed time to let them know you are alright? Do you leave clues behind as to who you are meeting? Do you perhaps insist you get the person's full name before agreeing to meet and check them out? How would you check them out? Share your views!
