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Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 59
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I have never used any casting kits so do not know what they contain and how they work, however, I have used plaster strips (ModRoc) so here is a description how to do:
- buy a couple of packs as it's better to have more than run out midway...
- get a bowl with warm water
- cut the strips in manageable lengths, 3-4 inches
- get subject to lie down in a comfortable position supported by cushions if necessary but don't forget a plastic underlay as this is messy work. Also protect floor nearby.
- use nivea cream or vaseline on subject's skin
- protect genitals with a piece of clingfilm
- place some strips in bowl of water to soak
- remove a strip, let it drip into bowl, then apply to skin and smooth over with fingers
- continue applying strips making sure one is slightly over the previous one (so no strips just hanging on their own, always attached to others) - this ensures strength
- once first layer is done, work on second layer, but this time lay the strips in a different direction (so if you were doing North to South, now do East to West)
- place third layer in a different direction yet.
- subject will already feel the nice warmth of the cooking plaster. If other parts of their body are exposed, cover with towels to keep warm - nobody likes catching a cold.
- 15 mins later the plaster should have set and be hard to the touch (though it won't be rock hard as there is still some flexibility.
- ask the subject to manipulate their muscles so you can gently lift the plaster off from the edges. The skin will easily peel off the plaster and then you can just lift the casting off.
- leave casting to dry fully whilst subject showers well and pats dry their skin. Moisturisation necessary so why not treat them to a nice massage with lotion...
- now comes the tricky part: you need to support cast on a table top using some pieces of wood on the sides (in workshops we have a well specially designed for this purpose)
- prepare plaster of Paris according to instructions on container - you will need far more than you think so for a bum casting, I'd recommend buying the bucket, not the box.
- pour into your casting
- shake gently to make any bubbles rise to surface
- break the bubbles (they weaken plaster)
- let dry for as long as necessary (again the plaster will heat up as it's cooking) - do not hurry the process and do not place near radiator or in the sun.
- unmold and ta dah! YOU GOT YOUR BUM CASTING!
- you can sand it with a very fine sandpaper if you want.
- dust and seal with sealant (pottery sealant will work or even just watered down PVA glue) - let dry
- now you can pain over it, decorated it with glitter or just leave it plain white.
It is a good idea if you are a beginner to start by taking a cast of your hand for example, so you can understand how materials work. If you are a man wishing to take a cast of his cock, remember to use clingfilm!!!!!
Good luck and let us see the results.
- buy a couple of packs as it's better to have more than run out midway...
- get a bowl with warm water
- cut the strips in manageable lengths, 3-4 inches
- get subject to lie down in a comfortable position supported by cushions if necessary but don't forget a plastic underlay as this is messy work. Also protect floor nearby.
- use nivea cream or vaseline on subject's skin
- protect genitals with a piece of clingfilm
- place some strips in bowl of water to soak
- remove a strip, let it drip into bowl, then apply to skin and smooth over with fingers
- continue applying strips making sure one is slightly over the previous one (so no strips just hanging on their own, always attached to others) - this ensures strength
- once first layer is done, work on second layer, but this time lay the strips in a different direction (so if you were doing North to South, now do East to West)
- place third layer in a different direction yet.
- subject will already feel the nice warmth of the cooking plaster. If other parts of their body are exposed, cover with towels to keep warm - nobody likes catching a cold.
- 15 mins later the plaster should have set and be hard to the touch (though it won't be rock hard as there is still some flexibility.
- ask the subject to manipulate their muscles so you can gently lift the plaster off from the edges. The skin will easily peel off the plaster and then you can just lift the casting off.
- leave casting to dry fully whilst subject showers well and pats dry their skin. Moisturisation necessary so why not treat them to a nice massage with lotion...
- now comes the tricky part: you need to support cast on a table top using some pieces of wood on the sides (in workshops we have a well specially designed for this purpose)
- prepare plaster of Paris according to instructions on container - you will need far more than you think so for a bum casting, I'd recommend buying the bucket, not the box.
- pour into your casting
- shake gently to make any bubbles rise to surface
- break the bubbles (they weaken plaster)
- let dry for as long as necessary (again the plaster will heat up as it's cooking) - do not hurry the process and do not place near radiator or in the sun.
- unmold and ta dah! YOU GOT YOUR BUM CASTING!
- you can sand it with a very fine sandpaper if you want.
- dust and seal with sealant (pottery sealant will work or even just watered down PVA glue) - let dry
- now you can pain over it, decorated it with glitter or just leave it plain white.
It is a good idea if you are a beginner to start by taking a cast of your hand for example, so you can understand how materials work. If you are a man wishing to take a cast of his cock, remember to use clingfilm!!!!!
Good luck and let us see the results.
I'd never encourage anyone to get into BDSM as I see it as a one way street to destruction. Yes, it starts as fun and it is titilating to try out new things but you are always hungry for more and like with drugs you've got to go one step further every time to find the same titilation.
But it's a free world and people are allowed to experiment; so, as long as you have a willing partner and you are both aware of the dangers and pitfalls (and not just look at the romantic picture), go for it and make your own mind.
Personally I'd recommend you visited a pro Domme with your partner and got an intro. You'd get the opportunity to view the tools of the trade and try them out under her safe supervision - it's well worth the investment because this way you do not buy toys you may never want to use just because they looked interesting or nice LOL And it's priceless to be shown the right way to do things.
All the best!
But it's a free world and people are allowed to experiment; so, as long as you have a willing partner and you are both aware of the dangers and pitfalls (and not just look at the romantic picture), go for it and make your own mind.
Personally I'd recommend you visited a pro Domme with your partner and got an intro. You'd get the opportunity to view the tools of the trade and try them out under her safe supervision - it's well worth the investment because this way you do not buy toys you may never want to use just because they looked interesting or nice LOL And it's priceless to be shown the right way to do things.
All the best!
awol
The first thing you got to learn before tying someone up is how to free them instantly in an emergency. Then you need to learn about the safe areas and the unsafe ones. Understand how the body works in terms of blood circulation, breathing, joint flexibility...
As for the 'what to do next' ideas will pop into your head once you feel secure in what you are doing. Maybe you'll want to blindfold her and play a guessing game by touching her body with different stuff. Maybe you'll go for the hot and cold treatment. Loads to do, but as with everything else, a bit of preparation can do wonders.
One thing you should never, ever do is leave a tied person alone in the house. So any dreams of tying her up and popping to the pub for a pint or two are strictly forbidden, OK?
The first thing you got to learn before tying someone up is how to free them instantly in an emergency. Then you need to learn about the safe areas and the unsafe ones. Understand how the body works in terms of blood circulation, breathing, joint flexibility...
As for the 'what to do next' ideas will pop into your head once you feel secure in what you are doing. Maybe you'll want to blindfold her and play a guessing game by touching her body with different stuff. Maybe you'll go for the hot and cold treatment. Loads to do, but as with everything else, a bit of preparation can do wonders.
One thing you should never, ever do is leave a tied person alone in the house. So any dreams of tying her up and popping to the pub for a pint or two are strictly forbidden, OK?
Mmm, one woman, many men... nice!
But wouldn't it be better if you had a significant other who organised everything so you would be free to enjoy yourself? You know vet the guys, make sure they understood the ground rules?
I think the thrill of the unknown is better than being involved in the choosing.
Oh, oh I got an idea!!!
You know the programme 'Don't Tell the Bride'? Well we can do a similar programme 'Don't Tell the Female Who is Going to Get Gangbanged'
Hurray!!
Can I go first?
But wouldn't it be better if you had a significant other who organised everything so you would be free to enjoy yourself? You know vet the guys, make sure they understood the ground rules?
I think the thrill of the unknown is better than being involved in the choosing.
Oh, oh I got an idea!!!
You know the programme 'Don't Tell the Bride'? Well we can do a similar programme 'Don't Tell the Female Who is Going to Get Gangbanged'
Hurray!!
Can I go first?
Point 1 see above.
Point 2, I thought real swingers did not have anything to do with cheaters?
Point 3, I didn't say go out with a big sign over your head saying 'I am a swinger'. All I meant is we are on a site for *gasp* swingers, and we all know where we are at, surely? I am not likely to go out and say 'so and so is a swinger' because people would ask how I know and then I'd have to admit to being a swinger myself, get the drift? Paranoia is my domain, men are not allowed to be paranoid with their identities
Besides, some of my best friends are swingers!
Point 2, I thought real swingers did not have anything to do with cheaters?
Point 3, I didn't say go out with a big sign over your head saying 'I am a swinger'. All I meant is we are on a site for *gasp* swingers, and we all know where we are at, surely? I am not likely to go out and say 'so and so is a swinger' because people would ask how I know and then I'd have to admit to being a swinger myself, get the drift? Paranoia is my domain, men are not allowed to be paranoid with their identities
Besides, some of my best friends are swingers!
Nope, I haven't heard of that and it would be discriminatory to do so (on the basis of sexual preferences). If it happened, I would fight it with nails and teeth and win.
For men and women who are afraid to be recognised, there is the private gallery function at this site where one can only view pics by invitation.
I like honest, strong men.
For men and women who are afraid to be recognised, there is the private gallery function at this site where one can only view pics by invitation.
I like honest, strong men.
RPM, it is not worth it to put myself at risk. I have a child to look after who is totally dependent on me.
I am ready to give my details to people once we have established a rapport and it feels safe to do so, so I can't see why anyone should withhold his details. I also have my pic and video on the site and together with my location anyone in the area can recognise me (I am not the kind that blends in the crowd). If I am not worried about being identified as a swinger, why should someone else be. And in any case, as you Brits are saying (or is it the Americans? ) if you can't stand the heat, get out of the kitchen. Besides you can't make an omelette without breaking eggs.
Sorry, I am getting a bit worked up because I am just thinking of the time I have wasted with this and other guys.
I am ready to give my details to people once we have established a rapport and it feels safe to do so, so I can't see why anyone should withhold his details. I also have my pic and video on the site and together with my location anyone in the area can recognise me (I am not the kind that blends in the crowd). If I am not worried about being identified as a swinger, why should someone else be. And in any case, as you Brits are saying (or is it the Americans? ) if you can't stand the heat, get out of the kitchen. Besides you can't make an omelette without breaking eggs.
Sorry, I am getting a bit worked up because I am just thinking of the time I have wasted with this and other guys.
Hello All
Hope life is treating you well and that you are flourishing.
Just had a question: what are the minimum requirements before meeting a person? Do you expect to know their real name or occupation or age or location or these things do not matter? Should a person feel offended if you ask them for this info or should you get worried if they decline to provide it?
(Before you respond, please try and see this from the point of view of a single female going out to meet a single male. Obviously couples are safer together.)
I look forward to reading your point of view. Thank you.
Hope life is treating you well and that you are flourishing.
Just had a question: what are the minimum requirements before meeting a person? Do you expect to know their real name or occupation or age or location or these things do not matter? Should a person feel offended if you ask them for this info or should you get worried if they decline to provide it?
(Before you respond, please try and see this from the point of view of a single female going out to meet a single male. Obviously couples are safer together.)
I look forward to reading your point of view. Thank you.
I vote for friendly/conversational. I delete all messages that carry descriptions of what the men want to do to me or me to do to them. I also delete messages asking for a shag, plain and simple. Yes, we are all here to meet people and broaden our sexual horizons but there is no reason to forget we are talking to human beings with feelings and not just holes or tools.
Anyone out there who needs a bit of love?By T-girl you mean you are a transvestite or a transexual? If it is the first one, then it is possible, I think, to find women who would like to go to bed with you once the fight over who gets the frilly underwear has subsided But you need to explain more to people about yourself, your needs and desires so they know what they are getting into. For example are you 24/7 dressed in female attire or is it just a bedroom kink? Are you assertive as a person in general?
Wishing you luck in making some worthwhile contacts.
But you need to explain more to people about yourself, your needs and desires so they know what they are getting into. For example are you 24/7 dressed in female attire or is it just a bedroom kink? Are you assertive as a person in general? Wishing you luck in making some worthwhile contacts.
HLB, she has joined several websites and spends a lot of her leisure time online which is partly - in my opinion - the reason she doesn't really have a life.
Amarcord, the suggestion of joining a dance class is very good but she wants to drag me along so she doesn't feel 'exposed' and that is like a nightmare for me as I suffer with bad knees and then Iwould make a fool of myself in my effort to support her.
Fabioplum, thanks for sharing your personal experience. It is rare for men to admit to any weaknesses, but I am glad to read you have turned them into strengths. Well done!
Maybe it is just me, but I think that nowadays it is a lot more difficult to form lasting relationships and there are probably a lot of people out there who are suffering the same fate.
Has anyone been on a singles holiday? Just thought it might be a solution, something to help her relax and enjoy herself as some of you have suggested.
Thank you for your replies
Amarcord, the suggestion of joining a dance class is very good but she wants to drag me along so she doesn't feel 'exposed' and that is like a nightmare for me as I suffer with bad knees and then Iwould make a fool of myself in my effort to support her.
Fabioplum, thanks for sharing your personal experience. It is rare for men to admit to any weaknesses, but I am glad to read you have turned them into strengths. Well done!
Maybe it is just me, but I think that nowadays it is a lot more difficult to form lasting relationships and there are probably a lot of people out there who are suffering the same fate.
Has anyone been on a singles holiday? Just thought it might be a solution, something to help her relax and enjoy herself as some of you have suggested.
Thank you for your replies
I have this friend who turns shy in new surroundings and with new people. She is very lonely and has not been in a relationship for a very long time and in fact the last time she's had sex was over a year ago! She is getting desperate that she will never meet someone worthwhile. I don't know what to say to her, how to console her and build up her confidence. She used to be outgoing and sociable but that was a lifetime ago. Has anyone got any ideas/advice to give? With thanks for any answers,
Apparently we are talking about two different TV programmes. The one that sparked this post was a documentary on a guy going to Amsterdam to lose his virginity in a place that specialised in this sort of thing. He lost his virginity to a mature lady who seemed to be getting a lot more job satisfaction than one would initially have assumed. I think that programme was on last Tuesday (15/5) but can't recall the channel. We put it on for fun but ended up sympathising with the guy and what he was sharing about his younger years and also it was very thought provoking.
I think that programme was on last Tuesday (15/5) but can't recall the channel. We put it on for fun but ended up sympathising with the guy and what he was sharing about his younger years and also it was very thought provoking. Quote by HarryJones
Peripheral experiences, I like that
Asto spinsters being happy and having less worries, I often (and in fact did it last night) find myself pushing down hard on my car horn in anger, feeling very upset and sorry for myself as yet another day passes with no bj, noone to show any affection to me and I yearn longingly for the "good old days" when I was very happy playing computer games on my spectrum +2A, cycling 100 miles in a day, playing cricket and never knew what is was like to kiss a woman or feel some sort of affection towards me.
Harry, I remember the day you visited me at home. OK you were a bit nervous but so was I. We still had a nice conversation and when you left I told myself 'what a lovely lad he is!'
I don't think you should succumb for the sake of succumbing. There has got to be feeling in it otherwise it is pointless. But I can empathise with the feeling of frustration and longing - you think our lives are very different?
Quote by HarryJones
When you are next in my area, let's take you shopping.
That sounds like a fine idea - I am not sure when I will be there, you must remind me.
How are you?
Regards
Harry Jones
Doing fine, getting used to my new size and putting my life in order. Off on holiday soon but my offer to take you shopping is on for July - pick a date that suits you and PM me. I love transforming men.
Harry Jones, you are not a virgin. You have had lots of peripheral experiences and have enough confidence in yourself to not belong in that category. But I can't help wondering if you wrote that just to challenge me to seduce you... :P
Tune essence, awww! It was unfair of her not to reveal her status to you but if all she wanted was to break free and you gave her just that, who's to blame? Not you, for sure.
UKwineman, we had a word for 70 year old virgins in my time: spinsters. I don't know why the world always gazed upon spinsters with pity. They seemed to be happy enough and with less worries than the rest of the world.
Trixie, you minxie pixie!
Tune essence, awww! It was unfair of her not to reveal her status to you but if all she wanted was to break free and you gave her just that, who's to blame? Not you, for sure.
UKwineman, we had a word for 70 year old virgins in my time: spinsters. I don't know why the world always gazed upon spinsters with pity. They seemed to be happy enough and with less worries than the rest of the world.
Trixie, you minxie pixie!
Don't know if you watched the programme on TV about a virgin guy's quest for someone to make him a non-virgin.
My heart went out for that young man in the programme and - being a kind person deep down - I thought, I ought to find myself a virgin man and show him what is what I wonder, are there a lot of virgin men around, over the age of 30-40?
What are people's feelings towards virgins? Would you play with one and/or undertake their sexual education? Or would you steer clear? Why?
My heart went out for that young man in the programme and - being a kind person deep down - I thought, I ought to find myself a virgin man and show him what is what
I wonder, are there a lot of virgin men around, over the age of 30-40?What are people's feelings towards virgins? Would you play with one and/or undertake their sexual education? Or would you steer clear? Why?
Quote by westerross
I think the reason is that it is probably because you are in a fairly small minority with your lack of appreciation of oral sex. The vast majority of people I know and have known really enjoy it.
I therefore see no reason why guys or gals shouldn't put it in their adverts. They are advertising after all.
Tune, I was not referring to people who put it in their adverts, I was referring to the hundred or so guys who have responded to my advert thinking that O is the be all and end all.
