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Tania
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 59
0 miles · Greater London
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Just for the record, I was one of the newbies who were (and sometimes still are) constantly under attack in this forum.
Please read below an extract from the Asphyxophilia thread where I got personally attacked for being old, pregnant, disabled, etc. The argument started as FB did not like my response to de sade and hurried to torch me alive. (Things went downhill thereafter and are still rolling down...)
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Don't you just love assumptions.
FB You are now certified as a cocky young girl
Secretly, you must be pleased.
For your info Dave, I had been busy supporting two of my best friends who needed me, one because her 3.5 year old son was having open heart surgery and the other who had to have an early caesarian due to pregnancy complications. Sometimes real life takes precedence over forum posting.
Please read below an extract from the Asphyxophilia thread where I got personally attacked for being old, pregnant, disabled, etc. The argument started as FB did not like my response to de sade and hurried to torch me alive. (Things went downhill thereafter and are still rolling down...)
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After all I am much older than you are and when you get to my age and position in life, I am sure there will be some cocky young girl who thinks she knows it all to come and psychoanalyze you.
Don't you just love assumptions.
FB You are now certified as a cocky young girl
Secretly, you must be pleased.
Quote by Freckledbird
Not really, to be honest. I am 40, very happily married, two children aged 13 and 14 and a good job. I have got to 'my position in life' by a lot of hard work and effort. I don't think I know it all (and whatever you say Tania, the inference that I do is definitely there) and I'm not trying to psychoanalyse anyone. I was making an observation based on comments you have made on various threads, regarding what you have done.
I am not old, pregnant, disabled in any way or arthritic and definitely not single. Nor do I claim to have tried everything
Quote by da69ve
once again she starts something then dissappears.....
For your info Dave, I had been busy supporting two of my best friends who needed me, one because her 3.5 year old son was having open heart surgery and the other who had to have an early caesarian due to pregnancy complications. Sometimes real life takes precedence over forum posting.
SH rules (the unwritten ones) state clearly that a person using these forums may not be:
illiterate
disabled
old
too young
need I go on?
My personal take is that everyone is entitled to the same things in life. I have met men on a wheelchair that I wouldn't mind spending time with. I have a friend who was born blind in one eye and his 'good' eye only works 10% and now he is losing it. I have known people who are hard of hearing and cannot hear you when you whisper sweet things to them but I have adjusted to accommodate them. I look at the person, not the disability.
Maybe it is because I am disabled myself. Maybe it is because my ex partner left me with the excuse that he couldn't go on living with a disabled person that I am more understanding and accepting of others.
Anyway, live and let live! What is not good for you, may be perfect for someone else and we don' t need to put every thread under the microscope and try to prove ourselves better than the poster. (Unfortunately, this is the trend lately and I am just wondering whether this is the reason some very fine people do not post any more.)
illiterate
disabled
old
too young
need I go on?
My personal take is that everyone is entitled to the same things in life. I have met men on a wheelchair that I wouldn't mind spending time with. I have a friend who was born blind in one eye and his 'good' eye only works 10% and now he is losing it. I have known people who are hard of hearing and cannot hear you when you whisper sweet things to them but I have adjusted to accommodate them. I look at the person, not the disability.
Maybe it is because I am disabled myself. Maybe it is because my ex partner left me with the excuse that he couldn't go on living with a disabled person that I am more understanding and accepting of others.
Anyway, live and let live! What is not good for you, may be perfect for someone else and we don' t need to put every thread under the microscope and try to prove ourselves better than the poster. (Unfortunately, this is the trend lately and I am just wondering whether this is the reason some very fine people do not post any more.)
No bra. Bras can be positively dangerous. They have been associated with breast lumps, chuffing, allergies, and other stuff. Also remember the bra is a recent addition to female dress.
So OK, breasts will migrate south and nipples will eventually point downwards in heavy breasts - what's the problem with that? I'd feel more embarrassed for a man to see me having perky breasts due to the support I've given them and when he opens up the bra for them to drop heavily out of it and land on his knees...
So OK, breasts will migrate south and nipples will eventually point downwards in heavy breasts - what's the problem with that? I'd feel more embarrassed for a man to see me having perky breasts due to the support I've given them and when he opens up the bra for them to drop heavily out of it and land on his knees...
When I was a child, I once stopped a well dressed lady in the street and offered her back the souvlaki wrapper she had just dropped. I gave her a brief lecture about littering whilst she stared at me wide eyed and openly embarrassed. My mom then told me off for causing a scene. There's no justice in the world.
Quote by chrisanddiane
Ah but do you try and hide the fact that your pulling a pube out of your mouth or do you blatantly sit up and go fishing with your fingers with your tongue hanging out.
If ive only just started down there then i usually lick the inside of the leg and the offending pube usually comes off you can then crack on with the task at hand with nobody the wiser. That little lick on the leg was just part of the foreplay.
Alternatively, do something utterly sexy before going down on someone: brush their pubes with a soft nylon brush!
Your post has brought tears to my eyes. You are such a brave woman. Well done for tackling 'loose ends' from your life or fears as you call them.
I hope to one day ride my bike again. Last time I was on, it was 9 years ago. Maybe one day... after my knees get a revamp, who knows.
Hey, when you have the confidence in your riding skills, go up a steep hillside and ride down without hands - now that is something, going at speeds of 70 kph with the wind whistling around your head, sheer freedom!
I hope to one day ride my bike again. Last time I was on, it was 9 years ago. Maybe one day... after my knees get a revamp, who knows.
Hey, when you have the confidence in your riding skills, go up a steep hillside and ride down without hands - now that is something, going at speeds of 70 kph with the wind whistling around your head, sheer freedom!
Quote by Darkfire
A perfect evening - which i'm not going to get tonight, but am very much looking foward to soon ...
a light dinner cooked in my new kitchen, on my new cooker, taken outside to the pergoda to the company of some select friends, good wine, chimnea lit and warming home made bread rolls and candle lanterns burning slowly, bloody good conversation over yet more wine, taking in the scent of the garden flowers (white jasmine, roses and night scented stock) and enjoying the intimate closeness and summer air until late .
:inlove:
ok ok someone smack me on the head with something heavy and make me normal again please
I'd pay good money to have an evening like that
Quote by Shaz_n_Tony
Some mixed replies
Tania.... The way i was thinking was for you to still have your mind as it is and know whats happened, just your sex thats changed, nothing else
Shaz x
Well in that case, I would go out and make as many women's day as possible by smiling at them, compimenting them, helping them out so they can always remember the dashing lad who made a difference.
Just wanted to update you on my talk with the surgeon. He was taken aback with my allegations of professional misconduct from the part of the anaesthetist. I outlined everything that happened and he explained that as the chief anaesthetist it was up to him to verify that I was going to be safe under narcosis (anaesthesia) and the touching he did was just to feel my chest and see if the breathing tube could be inserted and alligned properly (because I am so fat and that causes problems). I felt like such a fool but pointed out that perhaps he should mention something to this guy so that next time he performs this kind of examination he forewarns his patiens and explains what is going on so they don't make more of it in their minds like I did.
I just wanted to share this with you so you are not left with the wrong impression. I hate being unfair to people and it seems in this case I have been unfair, so this is my way of setting the record straight.
I just wanted to share this with you so you are not left with the wrong impression. I hate being unfair to people and it seems in this case I have been unfair, so this is my way of setting the record straight.
Here is what my hairdresser advised me:
Comb your hair well starting from low (close to ends) and once it is detangled, move higher and higher. This way you avoid hair breakage.
Then use warm water to wet it.
Break the shampoo between the palms of your hands. Do not just pour the shampoo over your hair as it is too potent like that.
Rinse well with warm water (not too hot as it will just encourage sebum production - sebum is what makes hair look dull and lifeless).
Repeat process.
Now use a tiny amount of conditioner, break it between the palms of your hands and apply to ends only. If you apply conditioner close to the roots, then the roots loosen up and more hair falls out. (Anyway the roots do not need conditioning as sebum does the trick each time you comb your hair.)
Rinse very well with warm water and finish off with slightly cooler water.
Wrap in towel and pat dry.
Preferably leave to dry on its own or use low temperature setting in your hairdryer and dry with your hair upside down. using a wide-toothed comb to facilitate the passage of air.
Do not overdry.
That should ensure healthy hair that looks good.
You will always lose some hair as it constantly regenerates but as long as you can see new growth on the hairline, do not worry about hairloss.
Your doctor may refer you to a dietitian for eating advice to help promote strong, healthy hair or you can do some research online, if you are too concerned about it.
Comb your hair well starting from low (close to ends) and once it is detangled, move higher and higher. This way you avoid hair breakage.
Then use warm water to wet it.
Break the shampoo between the palms of your hands. Do not just pour the shampoo over your hair as it is too potent like that.
Rinse well with warm water (not too hot as it will just encourage sebum production - sebum is what makes hair look dull and lifeless).
Repeat process.
Now use a tiny amount of conditioner, break it between the palms of your hands and apply to ends only. If you apply conditioner close to the roots, then the roots loosen up and more hair falls out. (Anyway the roots do not need conditioning as sebum does the trick each time you comb your hair.)
Rinse very well with warm water and finish off with slightly cooler water.
Wrap in towel and pat dry.
Preferably leave to dry on its own or use low temperature setting in your hairdryer and dry with your hair upside down. using a wide-toothed comb to facilitate the passage of air.
Do not overdry.
That should ensure healthy hair that looks good.
You will always lose some hair as it constantly regenerates but as long as you can see new growth on the hairline, do not worry about hairloss.
Your doctor may refer you to a dietitian for eating advice to help promote strong, healthy hair or you can do some research online, if you are too concerned about it.
The guys that whisper in chat do not usually ask permission to talk to you privately first. They just go ahead and say things like 'wow, great pic!' followed by 'you make me horny... I can be over in half an hour, I only live 5 miles away from you' as if that makes it alright. 
Most of the times they just copy/paste the same lines to all females in chat. This has been seen many times when I cut/paste their rude whisper in public and another girl or two happen to be doing the same at the same time! You never see a man disappear more quickly when he is found out! LOL
I consider virtual chat same as being in a public place with lots of people. You wouldn't accept someone coming to your side and whispering in your ear, would you? So why accept it in chat? Do I stop being a person with feelings and become an object of lust and a hitting target just because I am in chat? I am sorry, good manners should prevail at every situation, at all times.
Most of the times they just copy/paste the same lines to all females in chat. This has been seen many times when I cut/paste their rude whisper in public and another girl or two happen to be doing the same at the same time! You never see a man disappear more quickly when he is found out! LOLI consider virtual chat same as being in a public place with lots of people. You wouldn't accept someone coming to your side and whispering in your ear, would you? So why accept it in chat? Do I stop being a person with feelings and become an object of lust and a hitting target just because I am in chat? I am sorry, good manners should prevail at every situation, at all times.
I need a hug. Post-operative depression is setting in and to make it all worse I got an email from a UK consultant who I had hopes of following me up on my return who says he does not do NHS work on people who have gone private elsewhere. In other words he wants a piece of the pie, too! Why are doctors such s.o.b's?
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I need a new car after it was broken into last night and the steering wheel was forced off braking the spline off the steering column after they couldnt get it started.
BASTARDS !!!
They the started on another car in the street. The police have made two arrest and found some prints but they could just be mine.
:shock:
Please tell me you were insured?
