I have to say that when I was with my swinging partner, we really did tend to stay away from the single males fullstop, so I did feel that would probably be the case, but my guess is everyone is different.
Sean
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:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: OK all, so I was talking to a Newbie today on the forum's nice chap, won't mention his name, and he asked me if the couples on here ever look for straight single guys, and I had to admit I didn't know the answer.
I know everyone I have ever met have either been single, or with husbands knowledge types..
So whats the general concencus?
Sean
I know everyone I have ever met have either been single, or with husbands knowledge types..
So whats the general concencus?
Sean
Quote by hornyred and dino
back to the origional question,,i dont think im normal,seriously,,when im horny i wank at least three times a day,even when at work! my pussy actually aches for a bloke i see i wonder how nice his cock is,i get twitchy,irritable,the shakes,,its worse than having the flu.i think i need medical help.
Nope I think you are just the female version of me.. (except I don;'t as a rule wonder about other blokes cocks :-) )
Sean
Quote by kardiffuk
Forget the ref just what the f**k is that arse Rooney on tonight? Acting his usual petulant self.
Don't get me onto that throwing the black armband on the floor either..................so much for respect.
Personally I love Rooney, but you are right... what a TWAT, throwing your armband on the floor shows NO respect.
Sean
Quote by PoloLady
If you were in your car travelling at precisely the speed of light and turned your lights on, would anything happen?
We used to discuss this when we were, shall we say, less than lucid at university, my thought is that yes they probably would come on, but for you travelling at the speed of lioght they would be invisible, for anyone else observing the lights would appear to be as part of the vehicle.
Sean
Not at all Sean... the system is not about excluding anyone unless they prove themselves to be exactly what the verification system is trying to counteract: timewasters, men posing as women (which is self defeating as they will soon be found out, so I don't know why they do it in the first place) and assholes coming into the chat room looking for a quick shag (I will take this opportunity to say that these loathesome creatures regard the women in the chat room - our friends - as whores who should drop their knickers on demand). These issues are what the verification system is about!
I must confess I have yet to be able to get into the chat rooms, I regularly use MIRC but for some reason cannot get it to work for me, however this is besides the point. What im trying to say is that I do agree that these sort of things need to be weeded out, but surely there is a better way. For example, why not have a similar system to some other chat engines, whereby you earn points. and once you earn a certain number are eligible to use chat (points for posting, points for filling in profile, points for picture etc etc) You see the problem as far as I see it is that unless someone I am getting on paticularly well with is already verified, it means I am very unlikely to become verified, which in turn eventually will mean that people will no longer speak to me.
Sean
Quote by bluexxx
Put it this way...... if I was verified, I could get a guy verified if I had spent 20 seonds wanking him off in the park... I might never have actually spoken to him, but I have had sex with him.... yes? But yet I could not verify someone who I spent 2 hours talking to at a munch cos that's just not included.... where's the justice and where's the sense in that? The 20 second guy could be a complete tosser who has nothing constructive to add to the site, yet he would get a +..... seems mad to me..... is that really what the ops had in mind???? :doh:
My point exactly Blue, to me the beauty of this site is that you can meet people, get to know and like them, and then make up your own mind, its not something thats forced upon you, and whether you like it or not, with what is being suggested, people (paticularly single males and females) are going to feel pressured to spend more time with "verified" users as opposed to the other users. My feeling is that this is going to create an eliteist society, and we all know they don't work.
Sean
So what is the status with the Verification as it stands then? Im still in Blue's camp personally in that I think its a bit of an unfeasible Idea..
Am I to understand that basically once it comes into effect that I will not be allowed to use the forum unless I shag someone that is already verified within it?
Sean
Am I to understand that basically once it comes into effect that I will not be allowed to use the forum unless I shag someone that is already verified within it?
Sean
Wonders, in a very frightened way, what Blue wants to watch the single guys do I have just had a brief Precised look through the thread and in hindsight I do agree with you entirely Blue.
Although in truth I don't think the verification system will make a lot of difference to the sexual activity on the site. for two reasons.
Firstly, In my opinon what attracts people to one another on the forum's is their personalities, when you get to know somebody well from on here you already know that they are either an active swinger, or certainly interested in becoming one, and therefore what difference does verification make.. If I may be allowed to make an example, If I were to meet someone on here that I really got on with, and found attractive, the fact that they had a little + sign next to their name would make no difference to whether I would approach them with the possibility of a meet or not.
Secondly, the other source of action for many people on here are the photo Ad's I personally am not one to go that route, as I feel there has to be some kind of ... "Friendship" between two people to make swinging that little bit better, each to their own so those that are regular users of the service please do not be offended. Obviously these advertisers/trollers will not be affected by the system, so really what is it going to do???
Feel free to point out any faults in my thinking, I really enjoy a good debate ;-)
Sean
Although in truth I don't think the verification system will make a lot of difference to the sexual activity on the site. for two reasons.
Firstly, In my opinon what attracts people to one another on the forum's is their personalities, when you get to know somebody well from on here you already know that they are either an active swinger, or certainly interested in becoming one, and therefore what difference does verification make.. If I may be allowed to make an example, If I were to meet someone on here that I really got on with, and found attractive, the fact that they had a little + sign next to their name would make no difference to whether I would approach them with the possibility of a meet or not.
Secondly, the other source of action for many people on here are the photo Ad's I personally am not one to go that route, as I feel there has to be some kind of ... "Friendship" between two people to make swinging that little bit better, each to their own so those that are regular users of the service please do not be offended. Obviously these advertisers/trollers will not be affected by the system, so really what is it going to do???
Feel free to point out any faults in my thinking, I really enjoy a good debate ;-)
Sean
