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Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 54
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Many abusersdo follow a pattern learnt in childhood. Others are just born plain evil. I`m not sure about the statement that women `allow` this to happen. Some women for one reason or another are not in a place mentally where they can prevent this. I`m not sure that is the same as `allowing`, that would suggest the capabilty of escape not taken, not all women are capable of this, and sometimes for very real reasons.
Venusxxx
Venusxxx
You beat me to it Vix
Contradiction in terms methinks.
Fear and low self worth stemming from abuse can play a big part, it`s not tolerance.
Venusxxx
why do so many women still tolerate such animal behaviour
or worse, blame themselves for its occurrence and/or change one partner for another of similar bent?
Contradiction in terms methinks.
Fear and low self worth stemming from abuse can play a big part, it`s not tolerance.
Venusxxx
Quote by Silk and Big G
Use a post box! :P
Venusxxx
But..................but........................but..........................
What if I need to buy a stamp. Just one. One little ole stamp??? And there is only a post office here, no shops that sell single stamps, just the book of a gazillion???
Bugger you beat me, I deleted, in case you decided to be clever and state that you wanted to send recorded!
Busted!
Venusxxx
Debs, I know how you feel. I look pretty fantastic in clothes, but worry people will get a shock if they see me without!
Trust me, the sepia helped in my boob shot! The bum shot I did for Reeses competition was a nightmare, I had what looked suspiciously like gonads dangling down in one of my practice pics, then I realised it was my stomach! Not much of it, but what I have is basically an empty baby bag! I need to tone up, but because of spleen concerns after I was ill, I`ve not been able to do much in the way of `vigorous` exercise!
However, that said, since I`ve been going to different events, I`ve seen people of all shapes and sizes stripping off, and doing so very confidently. I think it`s brilliant, and it`s certainly helped me not to worry so much!
I`m only a size 10, and about 9st, but I`ve seen much firmer, larger figures than mine.
Venusxxx
Trust me, the sepia helped in my boob shot! The bum shot I did for Reeses competition was a nightmare, I had what looked suspiciously like gonads dangling down in one of my practice pics, then I realised it was my stomach! Not much of it, but what I have is basically an empty baby bag! I need to tone up, but because of spleen concerns after I was ill, I`ve not been able to do much in the way of `vigorous` exercise!
However, that said, since I`ve been going to different events, I`ve seen people of all shapes and sizes stripping off, and doing so very confidently. I think it`s brilliant, and it`s certainly helped me not to worry so much!
I`m only a size 10, and about 9st, but I`ve seen much firmer, larger figures than mine.
Venusxxx
Just for the record, I`ve been fairly quiet of late because I`ve been working on a project. Getting back into the swing of things (so to speak), when I`m done, will be difficult even for a post whore like myself! It`s like trying to jump back into a fast moving current. I remember it feeling difficult the last time I was absent.
So I just started lots of new threads (hopefully interesting ones!) so I was able to fit into a conversation from the start. After that it felt easier.
So it`s not always just a newbie thing.
Venusxxx
So I just started lots of new threads (hopefully interesting ones!) so I was able to fit into a conversation from the start. After that it felt easier.
So it`s not always just a newbie thing.
Venusxxx
Quote by Sgt Bilko
So do you outrank the Sarge Tom? If so, can we use this to our advantage?! :twisted: :bounce:
Venusxxx
Just remember who has the buttons !! :shock: :shock: :shock:
Like that`s any threat! The only buttons you are familiar with are the ones you can undo.................... talking of which, I have some here that need undoing. Care to help???
Venusxxx
Heather, we have a joint forum account, advertise in `Couples seeking` and have a picture of us both up......................and the few replies we have had have been from single guys! We`venever had a couple respond to our ad!
The onliners we get in here are from single guys interested in me only.
Venusxxx
The onliners we get in here are from single guys interested in me only.
Venusxxx
