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Over 90 days ago
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Awww Steve, everything Hormone is doing is natural, she`s easy(ish)
I have an older child, she was a bloody nightmare (settling down now she`s at college). :shock:
I just buggered off to America for three weeks before I committed murder
Missed my plane home too, PMT simmered down a little after that, worried I`d done it on purpose!
Venusxxx
I have an older child, she was a bloody nightmare (settling down now she`s at college). :shock:
Quote by JudyTV
It is also a pretty sad state of affairs when people say "I can see why a parent throws in the towel and just disappears" unfortunately I too at times can see why this happens.
I just buggered off to America for three weeks before I committed murder
Missed my plane home too, PMT simmered down a little after that, worried I`d done it on purpose!
Venusxxx
Quote by jericho
OH thank goodness it is not just me and mine
daughters............love them and hate them in equal measure, well I do mine.
Crossing threads I am now totally grey due to daughter worry but Blond for a laugh!!!
Damn it grows out quick when hair is short!!!
Roots to be done soon
So back to teenagers, I am certain I was never as bad as mine are, can't be anything to do with own TVs , CDs Vids puters etc can it?
jerry almost merry
Possibly not in our house, they don`t have them! Bloody well getting them this Christmas though, just so I can `zone them out`!
The PC and PS2 in our house are ours. They don`t get to use them for too long! :twisted:
TV is not used much either, Mars is always on the PS2!
Two of the three are readers (gasp) at the mo, the eldest always has been, Hormone has just discovered a series she enjoys, and the boy is just beginning to glean more of an interest too. I`m introducing him to `Horrible histories`
Roger, what went wrong?!
Venusxxx
Pretty much am ignoring it. I find the `cool calm unruffled` approach the best, it takes the patience of a saint to keep it up, but it`s definately the best approach. She will try to push her aggression onto something I HAVE to argue about though. :huh: She likes to try to push buttons.
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I have a 13 year trying to sleep on the landing to `prove a point` (she gave up on the stairs themselves)
Hormone is violent again today. Been told off, which has proven to be `sooooooo unfair` and have been told not to ` expect me to get up tomorrow`. We were going to make the boy sleep with his elder sister tonight so that he doesn`t cross her, but decided PMT`s (16) room is too much of a health hazard.
So the boy (9) goes to bed, Hormone storms out of the bedroom, and comes downstairs.
She hovers with the door open, I carry on as normal, I don`t look up (I already know the stance, I don`t need to);
`Shut the door, it`s drafty.`
The door is shut, she leans up against it, arms folded.
`I`m not sleeping with him tonight.`
`Ok.`
`Nor tomorrow night.`
`Ok.`
`Or ever.`
`Ok.`
`AND I`m not going to school tomorrow.`
(she just HAD to push it to a point she knew I`d argue with )
`Yes you are.`
`I don`t want to, why should I?!`
`Because the law says you should.`
`But I`m ill, I was off today.`
`You are well enough for school tomorrow.`
`How do you know.`
`I`m your mother.`
`but how do you know?! You`re not in my body, and I am, I feel like sh*t.` :huh: :huh: :huh:
`You didn`t feel like shit this evening, when you were outside.`
`I was sitting on the doorstep, making sure the boy didn`t get beaten up`
(no, just beating him up yourself weren`t you my dear?)
`You might feel better in the morning`
`I`m not going to school tomorrow`
`If you feel that ill I suggest you go to bed`
Hormone flounces off to sleep on the stairs. Not the hallway, not the landing, but the stairs.
Funnily enough it`s not me who can feel the discomfort of this, so I think I`ll leave her to it! :twisted:
She is coughing a lot though, a deep cough, so she may have to stay off after all.
She can ruddy well stay upstairs all day with that attitude!
Been looking at the B&Q website today, hopefully we will be able to seperate the big bedroom, within the next couple of months, so Hormone has her own space.
Come Christmas, when they have thier `inhouse` entertainment, I might even be able to forget they exist.
Venusxxx
Hormone is violent again today. Been told off, which has proven to be `sooooooo unfair` and have been told not to ` expect me to get up tomorrow`. We were going to make the boy sleep with his elder sister tonight so that he doesn`t cross her, but decided PMT`s (16) room is too much of a health hazard.
So the boy (9) goes to bed, Hormone storms out of the bedroom, and comes downstairs.
She hovers with the door open, I carry on as normal, I don`t look up (I already know the stance, I don`t need to);
`Shut the door, it`s drafty.`
The door is shut, she leans up against it, arms folded.
`I`m not sleeping with him tonight.`
`Ok.`
`Nor tomorrow night.`
`Ok.`
`Or ever.`
`Ok.`
`AND I`m not going to school tomorrow.`
(she just HAD to push it to a point she knew I`d argue with )
`Yes you are.`
`I don`t want to, why should I?!`
`Because the law says you should.`
`But I`m ill, I was off today.`
`You are well enough for school tomorrow.`
`How do you know.`
`I`m your mother.`
`but how do you know?! You`re not in my body, and I am, I feel like sh*t.` :huh: :huh: :huh:
`You didn`t feel like shit this evening, when you were outside.`
`I was sitting on the doorstep, making sure the boy didn`t get beaten up`
(no, just beating him up yourself weren`t you my dear?)
`You might feel better in the morning`
`I`m not going to school tomorrow`
`If you feel that ill I suggest you go to bed`
Hormone flounces off to sleep on the stairs. Not the hallway, not the landing, but the stairs.
Funnily enough it`s not me who can feel the discomfort of this, so I think I`ll leave her to it! :twisted:
She is coughing a lot though, a deep cough, so she may have to stay off after all.
She can ruddy well stay upstairs all day with that attitude!
Been looking at the B&Q website today, hopefully we will be able to seperate the big bedroom, within the next couple of months, so Hormone has her own space.
Come Christmas, when they have thier `inhouse` entertainment, I might even be able to forget they exist.
Venusxxx
Quote by xxdevil69
know exactly how you feel debbiewebs.. If I'm havin it, its gotta be a few times a day.. if its being withheld, I go off it and it can be a couple of weeks without me starting anything.
Same here. Think Mars may have overdone `keeping my libdo going` last week though!
Venusxxx
I think sexual attraction can interfere with finding your true love. How many people have walked away from a potential `true love` because they have not met this attraction? Mars and I were talking about this the other day, the difference of attraction between a lifelong partnership and swinging. I told him that sexual visual attraction will always play a large part in choosing partners for swinging for me, mind you, I find all sorts attractive! :mrgreen:
However, if he was to suffer some accident (god forbid) which deprived him of his looks, it would be tough, but it wouldn`t undermine my feelings for him. However, I approached him because I was sexually attracted to him at the start. If I hadnt been attracted I may have missed out BIGTIME.
The more I click with a person, the less thier looks matter to me sexually, but I do not seem capable of diregarding this entirely for sexual matters alone. That`s something I could only reserve for Mars I feel. That`s part of the package of love. Maybe I`d never have to reserve it, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, love is blind, so perhaps I`d always find him visually attractive, accident or no!
Venusxxx
However, if he was to suffer some accident (god forbid) which deprived him of his looks, it would be tough, but it wouldn`t undermine my feelings for him. However, I approached him because I was sexually attracted to him at the start. If I hadnt been attracted I may have missed out BIGTIME.
The more I click with a person, the less thier looks matter to me sexually, but I do not seem capable of diregarding this entirely for sexual matters alone. That`s something I could only reserve for Mars I feel. That`s part of the package of love. Maybe I`d never have to reserve it, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, love is blind, so perhaps I`d always find him visually attractive, accident or no!
Venusxxx
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Eight bums, six choices...............
DO try to remember the competition side of things Reese.............
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Two of the six choices are couples, hun. :doh:
Note to self- Do NOT post before coffee consumption, especially when you were taking that into consideration when playing the game yesterday
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