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VenusnMars
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 54
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Quote by steveg_nw
If he's got that much energy she can pack him off to my house as well. My garden need doing.
Steve

That`d be at stage eight Steve, the weedwacker :shock:
Venusxxx
Quote by bluexxx
If you're finding it hard to cope with Venus, you can always pack Mars off to my house for a few days :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:

I may have to hide this thread from him then, considering you get up to a few of the same things, AND have Satin, you have a distinct advantage.
I might not get him back! :shock:
Venusxxx
Something you might like to consider (and no, I am not jumping on a bandwagon here, I rarely do wink ), is that there are some 11,000 + members who use the board, and I *think* another 70,000 who use the ad system. If you check out the ratio of mods to members you will understand what a huge job these guys have taken on. I don`t think it`s possible to embark on a discussion with all who break the AUP, there`s simply not enough hours in the day!
However, when a member comes onto the main board to discuss such issues, they normally get a fair hearing from both the mods, and the longer term members who know the ropes, even when the more dignified approach is to approach the issue by PM. This seems to be a realistic approach as it shares the load.
The ones who come on ranting, and are just being plain rude about it, tend to get squished. Life`s too short!
Venusxxx
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/20285.html
but without the viagra :shock:
What the hell is going on?! We had a weekend break and the man has become a demon!
Every night, sometimes twice! Most of the night last night, and my morning cuddle wasn`t a cuddle, it was something much more sinister! surprised
I don`t think I can feel my legs anymore. I keep walking sideways. People are going to think I have an inner ear problem!
Isn`t life grand?! biggrin
Venusxxx
Quote by Jewcy_Joanne
I have 3 horses and 3 fox furs ......... I'm so so confused..... confused
{ before i get thrown in my midden.. it was joke the horses are fake... no sorry the furs are fake ..erm! }
.xX Joanne Xx.
rotflmao rotflmao rotflmao
Just to throw a little extra into the fray, the terror a fox experiances before the kill might be worth taking into consideration. This is hardly a dumb animal being led blindly to the slaughter.
Venusxxx
Yeah, everything Neil said.
That said, I will however seriously consider culling my cat soon, seeing as she wouldn`t leave me alone whilst I was trying to roll a fag.
I`m smoking cat moult. confused
Venusxxx
Actually it hadn`t occured to me to assume whether you were a `townie` or not. Just that you `didn`t give a flying f**k`.
It wasn`t something I pondered on, but perhaps I was guilty for assuming that you are not touched by this issue because you are not involved in rural affairs enough to care. In my experianceallissues regarding the country way of life are important to those who live the life, and many who don`t.
But since you already admitted to deliberately leading people to that conclusion by the choice of your remark, I shan`t be beating myself over the head with it! lol
I prefer straight forward debates.
Venusxxx
Quote by rogerthedragon
You missed on option on this one as well - couldn't give a flying F**K.

It was this comment which gave me the impression. I apologise if this is not the case.
The other issues you cite are all worthy of attention. They should allbe confronted, including Foxhunting. smile
Venusxxx
Quote by rogerthedragon
You missed on option on this one as well - couldn't give a flying F**K.
By taking the whole debate seriously and argueing the rights and wrongs you are doing exactly what the government wants you to do - not debating much more important issues.
Congratulations to you all for being Tony's sheep.

I guess you have to be close to this one to recognise what a huge issue it is. My family have lived the rural life for generations, the outcome of this will have repurcussions on the country way of life. The people should decide what is or isn`t important to them, the interest in this issue speaks for itself I feel.
That said, although I am aware of the repurcussions, I am not in favour of this sport.
Venusxxx
Does the third alternative refer to making hunting with dogs less cruel, or using an alternative culling method?
Venusxxx
/Venus puts on a full body condom an runs for the hills very quickly :shock:
lol
Venusxxx
Night hun, and you are welcome, you made me feel like a celebrity! :bounce:
There`ll be no stopping me now SH, joeboy just created a monster! :mrgreen:
Venusxxx
Seeing as everything in my life has been a lesson. My only regret is that of lessons not learned sooner!
Venusxxx
Now Steve, you are NOT trying to suggest you are a `nice` guy are you?!
Surely not! wink
Venusxxx
People are obviously interested, check out the amount of votes as opposed to posts. Unfortunately a vote won`t keep it at the top. I wanted to vote, just didn`t have a comment to go with it!
Venusxxx
Hi tress
Yes there is life on Mars, every night, she`s called Venus. lol lol
love Mars
Oh fuck, now look what you all made me do. I`m filling up!
Sod this for a game of soldiers, I`m off to do the Mum-in-law shop! flipa
Venusxx
Quote by westerross
I really admire Clare's and Angel's position on this. One has to remember though that the ideal has to be held by a strong character for it to work. Otherwise if held against the flow of opinion it can single the holder out for some unwanted attention and may need some very clever parental support at the right time. I'm digging a bit of a hole here so I'm going to stop. I'm not advocating cowardice but idealism in practice can be very difficult. I think the pragmatism in Angel's example is very wise.

I just had to say that I agree totally, and don`t think you are digging a hole at all Tune. I choose to bring my children up to be maginative, open, and accepting, but feel that sometimes I am doing so with the knowledge that I am opening them up for a tough childhood. A basic example of this is `if they hit you, hit them back`. I tell my kids that if you need to hit someone, then you have already lost the argument. Made life so tough, I now allow them a certain amount of physical self defense, in fact a neighbour watched my youngest walk away repeatedly from an older kid who was provoking him physically, and took great pleasure in observing him stop mid stride on his way home crying, turn around, run up and give this kid a bloody good kick in the shins! lol
It`s so difficuklt to find a balance, but as Tune points out, it takes a strong character to stand up for his or her rights, and sometimes pushing those ideals onto your children can seem like the hardest thing to do in the world. They are just kids for chrissakes!
My eldest daughter kept these ideals, and I ended up with a very troubled child who I had to home tutor, she never once wanted to join the crowd to make life a little easier for herself. She instead made some very good friends just like herself. Very intelligent alternative kids, who carry books in thier back pockets instead of bottles of cider! I love her mates to bits, but they carry a very adult look in thier eyes which no teen should have to contend with, and combined with their adolescence thier reactions to some of thier issues in life have left many a parent reeling!
That said, there are also times my teens have come home behaving in such a manner I`ve sat there thinking JESUS MOTHER AND MARY! This is NOT how I raised you, no I am NOT spending 6960787 quid on a pair of New Rocks!
The difference is, my eldest doesn`t get osterocised for not having the lastest pair of New Rocks.
It`ll all come out well in the end for her. She dealt with many of her issues and has now started college. She is loving it. She approached me the other day telling me of two groups of kids she met who used to pick on her at school. One group who are now attending her college, came up and apologised. The other group were lounging about outside, and began with thier snide remarks when her new social group surrounded her and told them to pack it in. My daughter had the largest group :twisted:
She asked them what they were doing with thier lives, and was told that they weren`t going back to school, that they were going to look for jobs (which would explain the loitering then rolleyes )
She looked at them and said
`Well I think that`s really fucking stupid.`
and walked away without a backward glance biggrin
She was floating when she came home, and told me, `You know mum, you were right`
Maybe there is some hope after all smile
Venusxxx