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VenusnMars
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 54
Straight Female, 83
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I was nearly run over recently. I was tired and my head was somewhere else. Managed to look up at the very last minute and avoided it. If I hadn`t have looked up there was no way on earth the driver would have avoided me.
The following weekend a pedestrian was run over and killed on the same stretch of road.
Years ago my daughter came in crying, she`d been running down the path with a sharp stick, she tripped, and you could see where the sharp end of the stick had managed to scratch her deeply all the way up the chest, and finally dug into her throat. Thank god it didn`t impale her deeper.
As a young teen a friend became drunk at my house, I tried to get her home via a footpath which crossed a railway line, seeing a train come, she stood there giggling and waving at it. I pushed her out of the way, and not realising which one was the live rail, almost pushed her onto it.
Oh, and received a god awful electric shock during the clean up operation after the hurricaine of `87. Some clever dick reconnected our power as I was trying to retrieve a bike from under the roof of our garage, I wasn`t aware I was pregnant at the time. Seeing said feotus in her teens, I`d say it explains a lot
It`s a wonder some of us are still here!
Venusxxx
The following weekend a pedestrian was run over and killed on the same stretch of road.
Years ago my daughter came in crying, she`d been running down the path with a sharp stick, she tripped, and you could see where the sharp end of the stick had managed to scratch her deeply all the way up the chest, and finally dug into her throat. Thank god it didn`t impale her deeper.
As a young teen a friend became drunk at my house, I tried to get her home via a footpath which crossed a railway line, seeing a train come, she stood there giggling and waving at it. I pushed her out of the way, and not realising which one was the live rail, almost pushed her onto it.
Oh, and received a god awful electric shock during the clean up operation after the hurricaine of `87. Some clever dick reconnected our power as I was trying to retrieve a bike from under the roof of our garage, I wasn`t aware I was pregnant at the time. Seeing said feotus in her teens, I`d say it explains a lot
It`s a wonder some of us are still here!
Venusxxx
Although forcing school kids to become right-handed was outlawed in the 1950`s (due to evidence that it messed with the brain, stuttering and so forth), the small village school I attended forced me in the mid seventies. My mother had taught me to read and write before school, and the interference seriously undermined my handwriting. Today I find it extremely difficult to write anything lengthy by hand, often writing letters at the end of words too early, my brain works faster than my hand! I am probably responsible for entire acres of rainforests disappearing! My artwork is fairly heavy. I have a good eye for for seeing what is out of place, but often find it difficult to get this down on paper, having to rework it until I get it right. I often wonder if the interference plays a part in this. There seems to be a link missing between brain and hand. This works quite well, people just assume my work is `expressive` 
, I find it frustrating that I can`t do softer work though. Sculpting works best for me, for that involves `whittling` which is pretty much the way I work in any media! As far as 2D work goes, I am best with anything that can be reworked (oils, acrylics, pastels) but am unsure how much of this is my natural artistic leaning. Can`t work with water colours at all.
Can you tell I`ve wondered about this?!
Ah well, it`s a theory!
Venusxxx
, I find it frustrating that I can`t do softer work though. Sculpting works best for me, for that involves `whittling` which is pretty much the way I work in any media! As far as 2D work goes, I am best with anything that can be reworked (oils, acrylics, pastels) but am unsure how much of this is my natural artistic leaning. Can`t work with water colours at all.Can you tell I`ve wondered about this?!
Ah well, it`s a theory!
Venusxxx
Quote by neilinleeds
yep matt
all to often it involves the odd tinnie or two. and a copious amount of SH bollox. not a bad combo at times.
baths are good tho venus, need a good scrub? ((( blatant tart mode sexual innuendo! ;-) )))
with a good bit of verve too ((( blatant tart mode sexual innuendo! ))) i am a northern soul yer know.
n x x x ;-)
No, I don`t need a good scrub. However, when I need a good scrubber, I`ll know where to come
Venusxxx
Quote by JudyTV
but I will sum up the experience as educational, exiting, nerve tinglingly nervous, mindblowingly delightful, forever memorably and certainly explosive.
JudyTV
Hi Judy, and thankyou, I couldn`t have put it better myself. The whole experiance so has been such a voyage of discovery, I`d almost go as far as to say that it`s probably the best bit!
Almost, but not quite!
Venusxxx
For us (and call us soppy) it has a great deal to do with the gesture of emotional trust we have in each other. We want to swing because we are in love, not in spite of it. Our sexual preferences are such that we love each other enough not to expect each other to make sacrifices. It is our gift to each other, and no matter what we share with others physically, it is this trust and gift of sexual freedom that is sacred to us only.
Venusxxx
Venusxxx
Quote by DreamerHelen
LoL....it's nothing that I've caught from anyone....it's not an STD or anything like that....
It's just something physical that means I can't have sex......
Good idea Venus but who is going to want to meet up for just cuddles and that's it? It's fine when you're married but not when you're single..... :cry:
Awww, I`ll give you a cuddle pet :love:
Venusxxx
Ok, I do know we have the odd thread about swinging experiances, but I wanted to start one about people`s first approaches.
No doubt many couples have discussed to death the `what ifs` and `maybes`, as well as the `what we are ready for`, it`s a big thing! I was wondering how it panned out for others, how they felt about their confidance, and whether the actual `happenings` were as they expected, or whether they have discovered other things which have taken them by surprise.
No doubt many of you know that we have been taking our own sweet time with it all, prefering to savour each step rather than dive straight in! (kids, money and health has played a big factor as well!)
We began by chatting in the cafe, getting a feel of the place, and then placed our ad, after a while we indulged our `exhibitionist` side by building the website.
Well we can honestly say we have no regrets about each event we have attended. Our first munch was simply us getting to know people, we were nervous, but immediately hit off with one really nice couple, you know who you are
Our second munch was a small affair, which was nice and we made good friends with a non-swinging couple, which emphasised the social aspect alone for us.
Our third munch was my big confidance boosting `self discovery moment` which rocked big time for me. Mars` was a liitle exhausted, which was a shame, but we didn`t beat ourselves up over `missed opportunities`, we learnt a great deal about there being no rush, and our own attitude about how relaxed we were becoming with the whole idea. We went to a club for the first time that night, and despite the worry of whether we`d have the balls to strip off in front of others, when it came down to it, we both did so without a flicker! It was such a relaxed atmosphere, it was more threatening than your average PE changing room. What was all the fuss about?! We were invited to join a couple, but we were too tired! Not too nervous, not worried about saying no, simply knackered! The other couple were knackered too, so we simply went back to the hotel and nattered all night, it was great!
Our final trip was to the Night of the Senses. Wow :shock: of course we chat about which rooms we would try in advance, but the reality of the approach was, I was horny, and there was a space in the `couples room`, it wasn`t about `doing it for the first time` in front of others, we didn`t sit there wondering what would happen, despite having done so in advance, I needed a shag, and I was going to get it! Halfway through I remember turning around, and seeing a guy watching us, I became much more aware of our surroundings, and the fact we were being watched, and thought to myself `wow, look at what we are doing!` , I was very aware of some of the couples just sat round oblivious chatting, and thought `hang on a minute, this is our big moment! LOOK AT ME YOU SEASONED BUGGERS!`, but the guy getting off watching us was a huge turn on, and I later asked myself if I wouldn`t be in fact interested in dogging after all! :shock:
So there you have it, lots of discoveries, lots of revelations.........
and we still haven`t shagged anyone else! Loving every damn minute of it though!
Venusxxx
No doubt many couples have discussed to death the `what ifs` and `maybes`, as well as the `what we are ready for`, it`s a big thing! I was wondering how it panned out for others, how they felt about their confidance, and whether the actual `happenings` were as they expected, or whether they have discovered other things which have taken them by surprise.
No doubt many of you know that we have been taking our own sweet time with it all, prefering to savour each step rather than dive straight in! (kids, money and health has played a big factor as well!)
We began by chatting in the cafe, getting a feel of the place, and then placed our ad, after a while we indulged our `exhibitionist` side by building the website.
Well we can honestly say we have no regrets about each event we have attended. Our first munch was simply us getting to know people, we were nervous, but immediately hit off with one really nice couple, you know who you are
Our second munch was a small affair, which was nice and we made good friends with a non-swinging couple, which emphasised the social aspect alone for us.
Our third munch was my big confidance boosting `self discovery moment` which rocked big time for me. Mars` was a liitle exhausted, which was a shame, but we didn`t beat ourselves up over `missed opportunities`, we learnt a great deal about there being no rush, and our own attitude about how relaxed we were becoming with the whole idea. We went to a club for the first time that night, and despite the worry of whether we`d have the balls to strip off in front of others, when it came down to it, we both did so without a flicker! It was such a relaxed atmosphere, it was more threatening than your average PE changing room. What was all the fuss about?!
We were invited to join a couple, but we were too tired! Not too nervous, not worried about saying no, simply knackered! The other couple were knackered too, so we simply went back to the hotel and nattered all night, it was great!Our final trip was to the Night of the Senses. Wow :shock: of course we chat about which rooms we would try in advance, but the reality of the approach was, I was horny, and there was a space in the `couples room`, it wasn`t about `doing it for the first time` in front of others, we didn`t sit there wondering what would happen, despite having done so in advance, I needed a shag, and I was going to get it! Halfway through I remember turning around, and seeing a guy watching us, I became much more aware of our surroundings, and the fact we were being watched, and thought to myself `wow, look at what we are doing!` , I was very aware of some of the couples just sat round oblivious chatting, and thought `hang on a minute, this is our big moment! LOOK AT ME YOU SEASONED BUGGERS!`, but the guy getting off watching us was a huge turn on, and I later asked myself if I wouldn`t be in fact interested in dogging after all! :shock:
So there you have it, lots of discoveries, lots of revelations.........
and we still haven`t shagged anyone else! Loving every damn minute of it though!
Venusxxx
I`m a chatty drunk, but the next stage for me is the worst drunk anyone wants to encounter, which is the overcompensative, oh too serious, counsellor drunk. It`s denial.
`I`m NOT drunk, I can be serious, sit here whilst I tell you my life story and show how really understanding I can be about yours` drunk.
If anyone sees me in that mode, (and I know plenty of you have). plase, for your sake as well as mine, shoot me!.
Venusxxx
`I`m NOT drunk, I can be serious, sit here whilst I tell you my life story and show how really understanding I can be about yours` drunk.
If anyone sees me in that mode, (and I know plenty of you have). plase, for your sake as well as mine, shoot me!.
Venusxxx
Quote by piercedJon
I like giving and recieving pain, but only when done correctly (what ever that means to the individuals) within a bdsm environment or play... but it doesnt mean I'm suddenly going to start spanking or flogging someone... oh well!
Oh good! My house eight o`clock! :bounce:
Venusxxx
