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VenusnMars
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 54
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Foxy, if she is online, then suggest to her that she joins an online support group, there are plenty of them out there. That way she will be able to read personal experiances with AD`s both good and bad, she will probably find out that although most people find taking them comes with it`s own set of issues, the alternative can be much worse. There are many scare stories out there concerning meds, and this really is the best way to get a clearer picture. Plus it`s always rewarding to be among those who suffer too. Make a person feel less alone.
Venusxxx
Venusxxx
Unfortunately there is an element here who tend to take the piss, and unfortunately this element has a large percentage of single guys. That said, we have many friends here who are single, and find them to be very rewarding friends.
I have always felt bad for the difficulties the genuine guys have to face due to the disrespect of other single guys here. Perhaps the fault lies with us. I don`t believe these people are illiterate, they just don`t care, and as such making the ad`s more and more `anti-single guy` is unlikely to cut much ice with them, but could make others who do care (like yourself) feel rather left out in the cold.
We are a couple who would rather get to know the scene via couples first, but the capacity for friendship should extend to all.
Venusxxx
I have always felt bad for the difficulties the genuine guys have to face due to the disrespect of other single guys here. Perhaps the fault lies with us. I don`t believe these people are illiterate, they just don`t care, and as such making the ad`s more and more `anti-single guy` is unlikely to cut much ice with them, but could make others who do care (like yourself) feel rather left out in the cold.
We are a couple who would rather get to know the scene via couples first, but the capacity for friendship should extend to all.
Venusxxx
We came, we saw, (we came again 
)........and I talked too much (again!) 
Fascinating place. Some of the outfits were stunning, WBB looked fabulous in hers, and Mars ended up looking pretty damn cute in his uniform (I could be biased though ;) ) He was on form that night, seeing as he didn`t have to drive so far, and it was good to see some of you chat away to him
We didn`t watch much of the show as we didn`t get there quick enough to grab a seat, and I was too damn short to compete (I felt for the people in the wheelchairs who others stood in front of), besides there were too many sideshows to check out! :twisted: We didn`t get to try as many rooms as we`d have liked as by the time we were ready to dive in, everyone else had the same idea and the rooms were packed, but we did try the couples room, and yes, the musician presence was pretty bizaare. Kent Host, Heather, I would have said hi again, but I didn`t spot you until I was otherwise occupied, by which time it didn`t seem to be the right moment to say hello! I did speak to the poor guy who was watching, and then begging the steward to be allowed in! :twisted:
The dark room would have been fun I suspect, but was one of the rooms which was packed, as was the couples dome with the mirrors. Mars didn`t want to take his boots off for the Naked lounge!
Sad cow that I am, I loved the porn flicks, in particular the gay porn, but could have quite happily throttled the crowd of people who almost instinctively stood right in front of the telly during the really good bits! As for the Art exhibition......erm, was that it?!
As the fun rooms were a little innundated toward the end, and Mars found the presence of all the singles guys hovering a little intimidating, we finished the night doing what we normally do.................clubbing! There was some pretty decent tunes toward the end! :mrgreen:
It was a good night, and we will go again next year, and seeing as my costume became less and less as the night progressed, I may take this into consideration when making my next! Mars lost his hat, and me my gloves, I managed to retrieve the rest.
Must have been wearing the country bumkin sign across our foreheads when we left. Used to not being able to get a taxi when we leave a club, we were gratified (very briefly) to be immediately escorted to a waiting car. The guy, who could barely speak english, claimed he didn`t know of The Tate Modern (yeah right) and I could see we were going to get severely fleeced when after some debate he said `yes I know the place, it`s quite distance from here`, I think if I hadn`t have been firm we would have been taken on a magical mystery tour to the original Tate. Anyway, I left the cab, Mars took the hint and also left, at which point we were haranged by the driver who still followed us to `determine` where we wanted to go. He stopped other `cab` drivers, seeming to ask directions, who then blocked the road, having some kind of bizaare argument as to who was going to fleece us next. I stood at the wall, watching Mars being sucked into this ludicrous crowd, and persuaded him to bolt, with three drivers trying to get us in the cars, and the original guy telling us not to listen cos they were black guys (or something to that effect)
So apologies to anyone who had problems leaving due to the road block and street argument.....that would have been our fault
We strolled the early hours through London back to the car, which even though we managed to park for free (and legally) in a side street, still had all four wheels. It would have been the perfect opportunity to do the Flash for Swinging Heaven, but dipshit here forgot the camera!
Um, that about sums up our night, although I`m sure to remember other highlights.
Did anyone else think the poor downtrodden girls who were on toilet duty looked thoroughly pissed off?!
Venusxxx
)........and I talked too much (again!) Fascinating place. Some of the outfits were stunning, WBB looked fabulous in hers, and Mars ended up looking pretty damn cute in his uniform (I could be biased though ;) ) He was on form that night, seeing as he didn`t have to drive so far, and it was good to see some of you chat away to him
We didn`t watch much of the show as we didn`t get there quick enough to grab a seat, and I was too damn short to compete (I felt for the people in the wheelchairs who others stood in front of), besides there were too many sideshows to check out! :twisted: We didn`t get to try as many rooms as we`d have liked as by the time we were ready to dive in, everyone else had the same idea and the rooms were packed, but we did try the couples room, and yes, the musician presence was pretty bizaare. Kent Host, Heather, I would have said hi again, but I didn`t spot you until I was otherwise occupied, by which time it didn`t seem to be the right moment to say hello! I did speak to the poor guy who was watching, and then begging the steward to be allowed in! :twisted:
The dark room would have been fun I suspect, but was one of the rooms which was packed, as was the couples dome with the mirrors. Mars didn`t want to take his boots off for the Naked lounge!
Sad cow that I am, I loved the porn flicks, in particular the gay porn, but could have quite happily throttled the crowd of people who almost instinctively stood right in front of the telly during the really good bits! As for the Art exhibition......erm, was that it?!
As the fun rooms were a little innundated toward the end, and Mars found the presence of all the singles guys hovering a little intimidating, we finished the night doing what we normally do.................clubbing! There was some pretty decent tunes toward the end! :mrgreen:
It was a good night, and we will go again next year, and seeing as my costume became less and less as the night progressed, I may take this into consideration when making my next! Mars lost his hat, and me my gloves, I managed to retrieve the rest.
Must have been wearing the country bumkin sign across our foreheads when we left. Used to not being able to get a taxi when we leave a club, we were gratified (very briefly) to be immediately escorted to a waiting car. The guy, who could barely speak english, claimed he didn`t know of The Tate Modern (yeah right) and I could see we were going to get severely fleeced when after some debate he said `yes I know the place, it`s quite distance from here`, I think if I hadn`t have been firm we would have been taken on a magical mystery tour to the original Tate. Anyway, I left the cab, Mars took the hint and also left, at which point we were haranged by the driver who still followed us to `determine` where we wanted to go. He stopped other `cab` drivers, seeming to ask directions, who then blocked the road, having some kind of bizaare argument as to who was going to fleece us next. I stood at the wall, watching Mars being sucked into this ludicrous crowd, and persuaded him to bolt, with three drivers trying to get us in the cars, and the original guy telling us not to listen cos they were black guys (or something to that effect)
So apologies to anyone who had problems leaving due to the road block and street argument.....that would have been our fault
We strolled the early hours through London back to the car, which even though we managed to park for free (and legally) in a side street, still had all four wheels. It would have been the perfect opportunity to do the Flash for Swinging Heaven, but dipshit here forgot the camera!
Um, that about sums up our night, although I`m sure to remember other highlights.
Did anyone else think the poor downtrodden girls who were on toilet duty looked thoroughly pissed off?!
Venusxxx
See you soon Busty!
I`m feeling better! Took some really strong painkillers last night and `fixed` it!
I`m so happy!
Mar`s found a hat, so I don`t have to make it, and there`s hardly anything left to do with the costume.
May turn up in rollers, will prolly need help with my hair when we get there, but we have a lift, and I don`t care!
hmm, maybe I should actually get around to dying my hair now, I have 3 1/2 hours before we leave!
Venusxxx
I`m feeling better! Took some really strong painkillers last night and `fixed` it!
I`m so happy!
Mar`s found a hat, so I don`t have to make it, and there`s hardly anything left to do with the costume.
May turn up in rollers, will prolly need help with my hair when we get there, but we have a lift, and I don`t care!
hmm, maybe I should actually get around to dying my hair now, I have 3 1/2 hours before we leave!
Venusxxx
My feeling is this.
I think the energy would be better put toward making or breaking the marraige. Love affairs happen, especially when communication breaks down, and someone is feeling lonely. I`m not condoning it, but a tough marrriage is a tough place to be, and when emotion is involved, things can get muddy. Foraging for sex doesn`t involve such emotion, and therefore in my book is less excusable. Sex is never worth that kind of betrayal, but again, perhaps I am being too harsh, for a tough marraige is a tough place to be, and people do not always make the right choices.
What I do hate is people who are married, and pass themselves off as single. This makes others become a part of the betrayal without thier knowledge, and that`s just nasty.
Venusxxx
I think the energy would be better put toward making or breaking the marraige. Love affairs happen, especially when communication breaks down, and someone is feeling lonely. I`m not condoning it, but a tough marrriage is a tough place to be, and when emotion is involved, things can get muddy. Foraging for sex doesn`t involve such emotion, and therefore in my book is less excusable. Sex is never worth that kind of betrayal, but again, perhaps I am being too harsh, for a tough marraige is a tough place to be, and people do not always make the right choices.
What I do hate is people who are married, and pass themselves off as single. This makes others become a part of the betrayal without thier knowledge, and that`s just nasty.
Venusxxx
Haha it `s Friday so im posting, i no it `s a bit late, and this thread is about done so i doubt anyone will see this, but im posting it anyway.
This is so nice to be able to open up without feeling like im inferior in anyway. i was raised to think any sex except st8, is unnatural and sick, as were all of my friends, so it came as a bit of a surprise :shock: , when me and Venus were talking about experiences we would like each other to try.
She said " i would like to see you do a guy ", first it was just me giving the guy anal, but when i had time to think about it myself, i found that it turned me on to, so now we both would love me to try as much as i can with a guy.
So far im still a virgin in this, but i know in myself i am bi, because i would have no problems having sex with a guy with or without Venus being there, (i know im a slut) :twisted:
but we think it `s a big part of are sex life and we want as much fun as we can.
Just to make it clear, this dose not mean i will jump on every guy we meet, (unless they ask me to) :twisted: , we are still interested in any couples we meet, str8, bi, it does not matter, every think will come in time, there's no rush.
Love Mars
This is so nice to be able to open up without feeling like im inferior in anyway. i was raised to think any sex except st8, is unnatural and sick, as were all of my friends, so it came as a bit of a surprise :shock: , when me and Venus were talking about experiences we would like each other to try.
She said " i would like to see you do a guy ", first it was just me giving the guy anal, but when i had time to think about it myself, i found that it turned me on to, so now we both would love me to try as much as i can with a guy.
So far im still a virgin in this, but i know in myself i am bi, because i would have no problems having sex with a guy with or without Venus being there, (i know im a slut) :twisted:
but we think it `s a big part of are sex life and we want as much fun as we can.
Just to make it clear, this dose not mean i will jump on every guy we meet, (unless they ask me to)
:twisted: , we are still interested in any couples we meet, str8, bi, it does not matter, every think will come in time, there's no rush.Love Mars
Hi Emmaroyd! Love it! *giggle*
Ok, here`s the skinny,the military jacket still hasn`t arrived, nor have I heard back from the seller. I have leather trousers, hat, and a gothic white shirt for Mars, he`ll have the Adam Ant makeup, but I`m afraid his clothes will be too streetworthy to be allowed in
A sarong will be on standby, but I`m not sure how comfortable he`ll be in it.
Venusxxx
Ok, here`s the skinny,the military jacket still hasn`t arrived, nor have I heard back from the seller. I have leather trousers, hat, and a gothic white shirt for Mars, he`ll have the Adam Ant makeup, but I`m afraid his clothes will be too streetworthy to be allowed in
A sarong will be on standby, but I`m not sure how comfortable he`ll be in it.
Venusxxx
