Mark would probably groan, because he had a fair few corrections to do to mine, but I have the corrected template, and if you would like to let me build one from that, I`d be happy to give it a go. I can change the logo, background, and (obviously the pictures), so let me know.
Venusxxx
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Ok, this is a little meaningless but really meant the world to me. I was in a Tescos quick stop, buying lunch for work, the queue was full of people, all part of the rat race, like myself, it was a Friday. A little old lady shuffles in, and buys herself an iced lemon cake, and pulled the sweetest grin. I thought to myself she had probably been looking forward to that cake all week, and thought how wonderful it was to be able to appreciate the smaller things in life.........it made my day.
Then I went home, pulled the gun out of the dresser, and thought about ending it all!
Venusxxx
Then I went home, pulled the gun out of the dresser, and thought about ending it all!
Venusxxx
When we joined the site our main objective was sex, we didn`t think much further than that. However, we have found so much more. So I hope you`ll excuse me when I say I wouldn`t take back our old approach for the world, friendship is so much more important, if we can combine the two, then all the better but I wouldn`t hesitate to choose friendship over sex if I had too.
Venusxxx
Venusxxx
Quote by Reese
I love you too, ya know. Did I tell you, lately?
Yes, I do know - it's the most wonderful feeling, too! And, yes, you have told me recently, but don't ever stop - and nor shall I - as it's a sentiment that bears repeating, frequently, imho. :love: :love: :love:
Loving You,
Always & All Ways,
For Ever & Forever,
R
XXX :smitten:
Sorry, had to be done! :grin:
Venusxxx
Quote by Vix
I guess there will always be times when the most convenient excuse for ladies is that it's "the time of the month". Solves a lot of situations and cannot cause offence.
Thing is, I really didn't begin to feel bad until this excuse would obviously have been a lie.
Just the way he was using me, like I said, like a chair or a bed or another bit of furniture. This was so unlike the respectful person we met in the Netherlands, that I was quite taken aback.
Why should I feel the need to protect his feelings? I am enraged at myself for behaving like this and not just saying "Gerrof!" like I wanted to. I mean, I am not usually backward in coming forward!
Cos you are nice? :love:
I wouldn`t dissect it too much, not if you still feel so bad about it. Concentrate on the positives it brought out, like that beautiful post from Reese
Venusxxx
I`ll definately bear this in mind Vix. Noone should have to feel dirty, thankyou for sharing. I`ll make it clear to anyone that we swing with that future forays will be discussed each time.
And you are NOT dirty, if you were you wouldn`t feel so bad.
No offense to any dirty peeps out there
Venusxxx
And you are NOT dirty, if you were you wouldn`t feel so bad.
No offense to any dirty peeps out there
Venusxxx
(((((((((((((Vix)))))))))))))
Thankyou so much for posting this, but I am really sorry it turned out to be such a bad experiance for you. I know how important friendship is to you both, so feeling that you were both seen as sex objects only must have made you feel bad. I think a post like this is a good reminder to everyone not to take things for granted. I wonder if the other guy did though? He came all the way from Amsterdam and made time see you two, that`s a good friend. I can understand you being cross and Reese upset at the lack of communication (the lack was shortlived by the sounds of things) but what doesn`t break us only makes us stronger.........you live and learn.
You two have lots more experiance than me, I`m bound to make some class mistakes myself!
Hugs to you both
Venusxxx
Thankyou so much for posting this, but I am really sorry it turned out to be such a bad experiance for you. I know how important friendship is to you both, so feeling that you were both seen as sex objects only must have made you feel bad. I think a post like this is a good reminder to everyone not to take things for granted. I wonder if the other guy did though? He came all the way from Amsterdam and made time see you two, that`s a good friend. I can understand you being cross and Reese upset at the lack of communication (the lack was shortlived by the sounds of things) but what doesn`t break us only makes us stronger.........you live and learn.
You two have lots more experiance than me, I`m bound to make some class mistakes myself!
Hugs to you both
Venusxxx
Quote by Ice Pie
Mathematically speaking, you are analogous to a geodesic surface with positive and negative curvature whereon parallel lines can converge, diverge, be straight and bent at the same time, do anything they want. Jammy bugger.
I thought that only happened in a black hole...............
Oh, I see your point :doh:
Venusxxx
Quote by Ice Pie
I`m bi-curious, so I won`t be allowed to post here.......
Oops, I just did!
Venusxxx
It has just occured to me to wonder why bi-curious hasn't been abbreviated to bike.
Hang on... no, I see. Perhaps not, after all.
Incidentally, speaking of bikes, did you know that due to its gyroscopic properties, a moving bike can stand up straight without a rider, and if there's a rider, it can lean over at any angle and still travel in a straight line?
You really do need to get out more!
Venusxxx
Quote by lucyluce
One of my problems is that I'm middle aged and even though I'm told I'm not bad looking, I know I have stretch marks and my breasts aren't as firm as they were etc....a confidence crisis really.
Lucy
Join the club hun, I`m terribly sensitive about that kind of thing also. Daft really, because people here are nothing if not realistic. We are all human.............well, some of us anyway!
Venusxxx
We`d be happy to sleep on your floor, and I`d even bring supplies for brekkie (and help cook)!
If enough ideas come together we could raise a poll, see where it goes from there
I`m not brave enough to offer more than ideas just yet, but will help out where I can. I`d love to organise something next year though.
Each year there`s a really good blues festival near us, overnight camping etc, I`d love to organise a get together there, but the festival itself does charge, so I`m not sure I could organise it through here, it may be against the AUP.
Venusxxx
If enough ideas come together we could raise a poll, see where it goes from there
I`m not brave enough to offer more than ideas just yet, but will help out where I can. I`d love to organise something next year though.
Each year there`s a really good blues festival near us, overnight camping etc, I`d love to organise a get together there, but the festival itself does charge, so I`m not sure I could organise it through here, it may be against the AUP.
Venusxxx
I wondered where I`d heard of that being used. Thankyou, that would have bugged me all day!
On a related note, anyone been to Pierre Lachaise (sp?) it`s the artists and poets graveyard in Paris, well worth a visit. There they have a crypt with the corner `chipped` off, and an undead hand creeping out! I`d have loved to have met the owner of that idea!
Venusxxx
On a related note, anyone been to Pierre Lachaise (sp?) it`s the artists and poets graveyard in Paris, well worth a visit. There they have a crypt with the corner `chipped` off, and an undead hand creeping out! I`d have loved to have met the owner of that idea!
Venusxxx
I see, well threads do tend to evolve off into tangents! Yes the guest count is rather weighty, however, some forums have a 15 minute display (active in the last 15 minutes)which could cause a member`s status as guest to remain visible sometime after they have logged in. It may not be as bad as it looks. Just a thought
Venusxxx
Venusxxx
