Oh! Suddenly I`m not so bored! :twisted:
Venusxxx
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VenusnMars
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 54
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Quote by ChairmanMiaow
Next it`ll be The Future Sound of London `Essential Mix`
FSOL are great!
I've heard a rumour that they never play live though - they're all so insane from taking too many mind altering substances that they'll only play from their house via ISDN
Well listening to this, I`d be inclined to agree. Ah well, where would this world be without our drug crazed artists!!
Venusxxx
I remember ra ra skirts, roller boots and trick sticks. I also remember the really bleached jeans. Coming from an impoverished family, I tried to bleach my own. I boiled them in bleach, and cried my eyes out when they rot, they were my first and only pair of jeans! :violin:
Ah well, you live and learn!
Ah well, you live and learn!
Hiya Vix, good to see you here, especially as we seem to share the same interests. 
. I`ve about as wordy as your hubby, and have had many an interesting discussion with him, which you have no doubt read.
I`d just like to say well done on your website. I have a younger cousin and mother-in-law (who I care for once a week) with this condition, and I think you are doing a cracking job
Venusxxx
. I`ve about as wordy as your hubby, and have had many an interesting discussion with him, which you have no doubt read. I`d just like to say well done on your website. I have a younger cousin and mother-in-law (who I care for once a week) with this condition, and I think you are doing a cracking job
Venusxxx
Ok, this is what I get.
No linking whatsoever to sites which charge money, be it for goods, or services.
Siggy links can be used for non profitable sites, or personal ads, but not personal sites as there is an existing button for this purpose.
The WWW link, is for personal sites only.
Do I get a peanut?!
Venusxxx
No linking whatsoever to sites which charge money, be it for goods, or services.
Siggy links can be used for non profitable sites, or personal ads, but not personal sites as there is an existing button for this purpose.
The WWW link, is for personal sites only.
Do I get a peanut?!
Venusxxx
The reality is, that I`m pretty forthcoming myself when I`m relaxed, and I`m relaxed with most people, so a faux pas is unlikely, unless I have really missed something! It is just a habit of mine to try to prepare for all eventualities.
Aww Bluexxx, c`mon, gizza snog :twisted:
Venusxxx
I generally leave specific things like the fact I don't like kissing unsaid unless I'm asked or the situation arises.
Aww Bluexxx, c`mon, gizza snog :twisted:
Venusxxx
Personally, after travelling to America to meet friends on the net, and spending four days on the trail out there, travelling in England doesn`t seem to be a big deal! It`s a small place in comparison. I think we possibly travelled the furthest for Marcuso`s Munch, but I love travelling and seeing new places anyway (haven`t nearly travelled as much as I`d like to)
Of course it would be no big deal to me. I can`t drive! Poor beleagured (sp?) Mars gets that job!
However, if it was cheap enough, I`d be happy to use the train. Anywhere we can travel there and back in a day, and we have the finances to do so is our line.
Venusxxx
Of course it would be no big deal to me. I can`t drive! Poor beleagured (sp?) Mars gets that job!
However, if it was cheap enough, I`d be happy to use the train. Anywhere we can travel there and back in a day, and we have the finances to do so is our line.
Venusxxx
Mars and I have yet to swing, but plan to. I sincerely feel that we have had the desire and discussed the matter enough for swinging to be a reality for us in the near future, and in the event we back out of an encounter I feel that it would likely be due to a incompatability issue with the couple rather than simply swinging not being for us. Of course, we don`t plan to let an encounter get that far if this was to be the case, but having never done it before, I do worry that an unforseen circumstance would end up with us inadvertantly being seen as timewasters.
However, just for the sake of argument, we were to find swinging wasn`t for us, we wouldn`t leave the site, nor would we feel obliged to. This site is about being a sexually liberated adult, and having interaction with likeminded friends. I would still feel that we fall into that catagory, discovering that swinging is not our sexual preference would not take us out of that catagory, it`s just a matter of preference, and preferences here are nothing if not diverse!
Personally I think there is alot to be said about the ability of SH to help people along in their sexual explorations, and we are both throroughly enjoying this, and I don`t think many here would have it any other way, regardless of how those explorations turn out.
Venusxxx
However, just for the sake of argument, we were to find swinging wasn`t for us, we wouldn`t leave the site, nor would we feel obliged to. This site is about being a sexually liberated adult, and having interaction with likeminded friends. I would still feel that we fall into that catagory, discovering that swinging is not our sexual preference would not take us out of that catagory, it`s just a matter of preference, and preferences here are nothing if not diverse!
Personally I think there is alot to be said about the ability of SH to help people along in their sexual explorations, and we are both throroughly enjoying this, and I don`t think many here would have it any other way, regardless of how those explorations turn out.
Venusxxx
Dave_Notts - THANKYOU!!!!
I`ve been a little worried about when to cut the sexual banter, and when to discuss whether or not we actually do want to go much further. When we are happy to make friends for friends sake only, and when to establish that the other person/persons may only want to meet for swinging purposes only. If we were to meet for a drink, enjoy each others company, and agree to meet up for another drink for instance, would that be taken as a sexual interest by the other party? We want to make regular friends within this community whether or not we decide to have sex with them. None of this has been an issue just yet, and I`m sure I`m probably worrying about nothing, for I have a feeling that others here would be much more forthcoming than that, but I do very much worry about making a faux pas! When does the line between friendly flirting and serious discussion get drawn?
That`s normal isn`t it? Worrying about this stuff, when new to the scene?
Venusxxx
I`ve been a little worried about when to cut the sexual banter, and when to discuss whether or not we actually do want to go much further. When we are happy to make friends for friends sake only, and when to establish that the other person/persons may only want to meet for swinging purposes only. If we were to meet for a drink, enjoy each others company, and agree to meet up for another drink for instance, would that be taken as a sexual interest by the other party? We want to make regular friends within this community whether or not we decide to have sex with them. None of this has been an issue just yet, and I`m sure I`m probably worrying about nothing, for I have a feeling that others here would be much more forthcoming than that, but I do very much worry about making a faux pas! When does the line between friendly flirting and serious discussion get drawn?
That`s normal isn`t it? Worrying about this stuff, when new to the scene?
Venusxxx
NO NO NO NO NO! You guys are not ALLOWED to become disallusioned! 
Please! I`ve really enjoyed the banter I`ve had with you, and discussing our similarities in what we want from this place, I`d hate to see anything go wrong with that.
Although I couldn`t see a problem with the PM Jag sent, I can understand how unnerving it can be for someone like yourselves to have seemed to have `broken a rule` so soon, especially since you have both searched high and low for a site such as this, and have dedicated so much thought and reflection upon what you both want. It would be terrible for you if you burnt your bridges.
BUT........Vix did nothing wrong, Jags did nothing wrong, it was simply a modification which was needed, nothing more. Jags doesn`t bite everybody :P (just those who deserve to get bit!), and she wasn`t biting you guys!
So please, don`t get cross, it really wasn`t the big deal you felt it was.
Come back and play, I`ve been looking forward to chatting to your wife
Venusxxx
Please! I`ve really enjoyed the banter I`ve had with you, and discussing our similarities in what we want from this place, I`d hate to see anything go wrong with that. Although I couldn`t see a problem with the PM Jag sent, I can understand how unnerving it can be for someone like yourselves to have seemed to have `broken a rule` so soon, especially since you have both searched high and low for a site such as this, and have dedicated so much thought and reflection upon what you both want. It would be terrible for you if you burnt your bridges.
BUT........Vix did nothing wrong, Jags did nothing wrong, it was simply a modification which was needed, nothing more. Jags doesn`t bite everybody :P (just those who deserve to get bit!), and she wasn`t biting you guys!
So please, don`t get cross, it really wasn`t the big deal you felt it was.
Come back and play, I`ve been looking forward to chatting to your wife
Venusxxx
Yeah, but we get them back at the end of the dayafteryou`ve tortured them at school!
:P
Anyway, school aside, I have two teen girls, doesn`t matter where they`ve been, or what they`ve been doing, they are always going to be snots! :crazy:
Bluddy hormones for you!
Glad I don`t have any of those
Venusxxx
:P
Anyway, school aside, I have two teen girls, doesn`t matter where they`ve been, or what they`ve been doing, they are always going to be snots! :crazy:
Bluddy hormones for you!
Glad I don`t have any of those
Venusxxx
Quote by Jags
I've had a fantastic night at Gibside Pleasure Gardens... open air concert featuring..... ... ,,
Abbaesque!!
Fab friends, chilled wine and fantastic fireworks.
Who needs the jacuzzi???
Right now, me, cos I didn`t get pleasure gardens, fab friends, fireworks or the bloody chilled wine. I got the guy who was threatening to `take out` all of my neighbours shrubbery on the way back from the pub.........
I hate you :P
Venusxxx
((((niceguy)))))))))) Thats horrible and disturbing. Glad you got away.
I don`t have any, but I heard this one somewhere........
Aguy picked up a girl in Ibiza, slept with her, and the next morning he woke up, dying for a fart. He didn`t want to disturb her, by leaving the bed, so he prised his butt cheeks apart to let it out silently.......
and promptly shot a stream of diarrhea over the sheets, her clothes, and her handbag.......
Funnily enough he managed to sneak out without disturbing her after doing THAT.
Venusxxx
I don`t have any, but I heard this one somewhere........
Aguy picked up a girl in Ibiza, slept with her, and the next morning he woke up, dying for a fart. He didn`t want to disturb her, by leaving the bed, so he prised his butt cheeks apart to let it out silently.......
and promptly shot a stream of diarrhea over the sheets, her clothes, and her handbag.......
Funnily enough he managed to sneak out without disturbing her after doing THAT.
Venusxxx
