Quote by Reese
VenusnMars~
Hmm. I'm getting the distinct impression here - especially after browsing the forums a bit - that single males are something to be very wary of. Personally, I'd be just as comfortable with a bi-male or bi-female, as long as they're genuine, caring people who have a firm grasp of the "friendship first" ideal. The only thing I could never tolerate is a married person - male or female - intent on keeping secrets from their "other half". I don't care how "discreet" everyone may be - secrets hurt.
Are single males more "predatory" than most? Are they more commonly deceptive in their ads and profiles? It's hard for me to imagine a "strictly-str8" man posting something like "bi-curious" in their profile in order to elicit responses, but I suppose it happens. What are they hoping to achieve? And, even moreso, how are they going to react when the other M in an MMF threesome grabs hold of their cock?!
There are a lot of genuine single guys here, but unfortunately the ones who pop in hoping for a quick shag do limit the options for the genuine guys. The easiest way to spot if they are for you is to rate their PMs, and see how many posts they have made, and where. You will find many who just pop in, spam the forums (usually not the cafe) and disappear. Unfortunately they seem to outnumber the genuine guys (check out the cafe for the decent ones
). As we are new to this, we decided that we didn`t want to have to deal with weeding out potential pisstakers, we want our first foreys to be good experiances, and I do regret that our attitude does leave the genuine guys on the outside (for now). But also, until we find our feet, we feel that it would be good to make friends who we can relate to more fully, which would be the couples, as swinging within a relationship is a whole new ballgame, and will immediately open a line of conversation we can all relate to. That said, we are interested in scenarios which will only involve one other (including the elusive bi-fem), so in time we will explore further. :twisted: If/when we meet a couple/single who we wish to go further with, it will most definately be a COUPLE/SINGLE package, there is no way we`d want to be involved in anything dishonest.
It's hard for me to imagine a "strictly-str8" man posting something like "bi-curious" in their profile in order to elicit responses, but I suppose it happens. What are they hoping to achieve? And, even moreso, how are they going to react when the other M in an MMF threesome grabs hold of their cock?!
I dunno, maybe they are just stupid?! Mars would be quite happy to indulge in straight sex only, especially since this is all he`s had to date. If someone reacted badly after assuring us he was bi, I`d have much more sympathy for Mars, I`m sure he`d be mortified, and I would feel cheated and very angry. I mean how dare anyone ruin a possible first experiance, which, we hope to be able to share together, simply because of their dishonesty?!
Ok, I`m done!
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Venusxxx
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