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7 Mar 2005

I have one I can`t be bothered to reply to! Well, that`s not entirely true, there were just too many avenues for me to take, I can`t choose! Excuse the enthusiasm but we very rarely get these types of PMs. It contained the line.

How are u doing? I have seen your add and liked u.

I feel so special! We don`t have an ad! rotflmao

rotflmao

Now, I could ignore it, reply with sarcasm, offer advice, or and this one is my favourite, put it here for you lot to dissect!
To the member who sent it, read the following and learn a little about not doing the research. I get to giggle, the members get to take the piss whilst you get to stay anon, and you might learn something, tuck it away for future reference. Everybody is happy!
Venusxxx

6 Mar 2005

Quote by Silk and Big G
As always sweeping generalisations are allowed , and positively encouraged .
Peace Y'all

Translation. Fuck off Venus rotflmao

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Venusxxx

6 Mar 2005

(((((((Roger)))))))) Look at it this way hun, you saved shedloads of cash (wine was a fiver a glass apparently, I`m soooo glad my pints suited my costume, Libra and I were the only `wenches` of the group!), you didn`t have to deal with a hangover, and we`ll all be extra keen to catch up with you at the next event. Milk it! wink

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I slept like a brick today, that was two mad nights in a row :shock:
You people are corrupting me, you really are.
Hurry up and send me some pics people! I want to see if any were taken where I haven`t managed to pull an `interesting` face confused

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Venusxxx

6 Mar 2005

Eager, behave! smackbottom

smackbottom

I`ve been wanting to organise an event for ages, but have often felt for Steve when us dirty buggers start tarting in vanilla environments. I`m far too cowardly to take responsibility for that. That`s why I chose paintball. Dress code leaves no room for risque (I bet you`ll bloody find a way to get past that though!),

there`ll be no alcohol, and if I see anyone getting their bits out, then I get to shoot at the white bits. :twisted: (which is probably why Marms hasn`t signed up)
Consider yourselves warned! :giggle:
Oh, by the way, you probably won`t be able to snipe from trees (just in case anyone seriously wondered), I already asked at a previous paintball because that is just my style :twisted: Insurance is unlikely to cover tree climbing! *pout*
Venusxxx

6 Mar 2005

I think you made an excellent serious post the other day, the only problem was you posted once the thread had started to die, and people were beginning to banter anyway, so I don`t think it`s necessarily you as such. I dunno, I could be wrong, it`s the only serious post I ever remember you making!
/Venus looks around for a bigger shovel........
Venusxxxx

6 Mar 2005

Quote by easy
I agree. Definately a worn out keyboard problem. :P
No error code numbers or anything like that?
*suspects it's something to do with "hub" configuration, but not being an expert decides to keep quiet*

I think it was 408 but don`t quote me on it, I`d have to plug the net into the other PC to check.
Venusxxx

6 Mar 2005

Quote by tallnhairy
Ooo fun Some of what you mentioning not for the faint hearted. Proxy servers cachce internet pages and can be your route onto the net. Give me a buzz at home if you want and see what I can do...

Oh bugger.
This problem came out of the blue, although I have been downloading stuff. I don`t seem to have any viruses though.
TnH, I`ll need you number again, my last sim card died.
Venusxxx

6 Mar 2005

Quote by MikeNorth
Okay, okay, I'll eat my (vegetarian) humble pie right now. (And I'll certainly not start an (intended) serious thread on a Saturday night again.) I was not referring to people being indiscreet without the consent of other parties, I was not referring to almost everything that anyone on this thread thought I was referring to. Carry on just as before, everyone.
I was looking at certain threads around munches and parties, but I'm certainly not going to be specific about threads, posts, or people. And thanks Shireen, and the few others who tried to take what I said seriously.
Mike.

Oh bugger. That mean this thread is done then? I hate it when I miss the good ones! For what it`s worth Mike, I thought it was an interesting question. kiss

kiss

Venusxxx

6 Mar 2005

A HUGE thanks to Steve for organising a fantastic event for us all. It was great to meet up with some of you guys again, and as always wonderful to meet those we hadn`t previously, as well as be able to show off the male half of VenusnMars smile

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Libra, ta for the shirt hun, I`ll get it back to you asap, it really topped off my costume, it was great to be able to finally speak to you, and I didn`t have any trouble with you accent at all, honest! lol

lol

Jiggle, Mrs FC and Chris, (from Molly and Chris) and others of you, thank you for taking the time out to chat to Mars, he was finding it hard to dive in with the crowd cos he`s deaf in one ear and can`t hear well in crowds, it was great to see him happily chatting with you when he was far from the madding crowd! It was also wonderful to find out who `the guy in the checked` shirt was biggrin

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Molly, thank you for allowing me to dispose of the alcohol you weren`t able to drink because you were driving. It`s a dirty job, but someone had to do it!
Ice, you had me laughing more than once, but your Ken Dodd moment was the best, you daft bugger! Ta for the badge, it had `Lady` printed on it. WTF were you thinking?! :shock:
Marcuso, nice to meet the female half of Comparison, she seems like just the woman to keep you under some sembalence of control. Good luck with that girl!
Mr and Mrs TNH, always nice to catch up with you both. It`s been too long. We should rectify that.
Vix, you are without a doubt a gobby slapper. I love you. Reese, you make a wonderful dance pole, just don`t tell Steve, I got a slap from him when I tried poledancing around the candelabra, I don`t think me progressing onto people was quite what he had in mind! lol

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JasnTim, always a pleasure. Tim was a damn hero managing to get through the night as well as he did after a night shift, but not only did he get through, he was also as entertaining as ever, you should have sold tickets Jas. Pudding was nice too girl wink

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Marms, I don`t know where to start :shock: or finish, but thank you! rotflmao

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Fred and Mr FC, my hat is off to you both. Those women are without a doubt mad. You cope admirably.
Angel, so glad I was able to chat with you without a shovel in hand lol

lol

you are one of the SH crowd I got to know from way back, and I love catching up with you, you looked fantastic.
Now you all know I`ve left loads of you off redface

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, but I`m ignorant like that, and you all know it, but suffice to say, I loved bouncing off of you all (so to speak)
Highlights of the evening-
That moment at our table when one of the serving wenches asked where we were from.
`All over, we are internet friends`
`Oh, what kind of site, just a social one, or a special interest?`
/enter involuntary smirks etc
`Ooooh yes, a very social site`
`Oh! :shock: I`m not even going to pursue the question` :shock:
That moment during the entertainment when one of the players mentioned `whips`, and the entire side of the banquet hall containing the SH members just roared! rotflmao

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To those who worried about me when I was found meandering around the estate trying to find Mars and the car, thank you, you were so sweet to worry. I found him eventually, thank you for insisting you walk with me until you were sure I was safe. :inlove:
There were so many of you I wanted to say goodbye to properly. Sorry I missed you, I was so busy trying to find Mars so he could say goodbye too, most of you had already started making your way back to your hotels sad

sad

No matter, I`ll get you all another time! biggrin

biggrin

Venusxxx

5 Mar 2005

It`s a three hour journey and Mars is still working on his costume. So much for our margin of error. :huh:
Venusxxx

5 Mar 2005

I dunno if we could balance the team numbers properly in order to make it anything vrs anything SH or location based. Personally I think I will do a Venus vrs the world!
/runs off to find post WW III, sexy, but very impractical, leather outfit.
Venusxxx

5 Mar 2005

Quote by easy
Hmmmmmmm let's just have a quick think shall we.
19-tear-old-toyboy-halfwit-bouncer-easily-manipulated (according to Venus) gets banned.
We then have a 6 page discussion about his treatment on this site and how he was just manipulated into shooting himself (bit like blaming the gun manufacturers for shooting accidents but hey..........)
Now this bloke shows up and makes a concerted effort to get his ass banned.

Anyone else think there may be a remote connection?

Actually the discussion confronted a much broader trend and I think I and others did a damn good job of making some sense considering the example we chose to work with in order to bring up the issue. We didn`t make it easy for ourselves, and still managed to get some points considered (go us! biggrin

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).
I can`t believe you guys are using such an extreme, and not very relevent example yourselves, to try dismantle the point, that`s a little too easy and all too suggestable. I`m pretty sure anyone who can actually read wouldn`t think that I was suggesting we let anyone who posts like the above stay. Unless I was communicating really badly in which case I`d direct readers to read KitKat`s and NorthWest-cpl`s posts instead of mine.
Or maybe it`s one of those subtle `take the piss out of Venus` thingies lol

lol

, and I`m too wacked out from last night to get the joke? dunno

dunno

If so I`ll prolly get it when I wake up a bit, find some Mother Teresa pics and join in! If not, then purleeeeese, give me some credit! I`m quite capable of defining obvious trolling.
Venusxxx

5 Mar 2005

Actually I`m pretty good myself, no headache, just tired. Mars however, who did the sensible thing and went to bed, is a mess. He won`t move. :shock:
Methinks his costume tonight is going to be a safety pin job in places! rotflmao

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Sorry KC, I ran out of fags and am smoking all your menthols redface

redface

Cold Indian for breakfast! :bounce:
Venusxxx

5 Mar 2005

Oh, you are in the same place as me! Don`t need sobering up because I`ll do that in my sleep, but staving off a hangover is another matter! I`ve taken pain relief and should be drinking water......but I don`t know if I can be arsed with the water.
My last vodka and lemon was very weak, will that pass?!
I remember when hangovers weren`t an issue. Feeling old!
I`m off to bed.
Goodnight!
Venusxxx

5 Mar 2005

Quote by manofmuchfun
well, I was trying to be nice as per your theory that we should try and accomodate these people , but I cant see any sense in it ....just I wont take the bait anymore....but thats just me what about the others who will ?
so you agree this ones a wanker ?
not gone to bed then ? ...........I start at 3 am cos its the only time I get any peace ! till my phone starts !.......just woke up an saw this ! .......my lips are sealed !

I don`t actually remember saying we should try to accomodate people like him. This was a troll. The other guy was a dickhead who was encouraged to troll.

but thats just me what about the others who will ?

If other people don`t mind the fact they are accomodating something that thrives on attention because the entertainment value is greater, then that`s up to them. Personally I need a punchline to bounce off of, and didn`t see anything of any value, but that`s just my sense of humour. There`s a chance that the troll shouldn`t be encouraged because those he directed his lame offensive remarks might actuallybe offended, but these remarks were so over the top and stupid I don`t think anyone here would take them seriously.
I`m off to bed, I`m far too pissed to be making serious posts! lol

lol

Venusxxx

5 Mar 2005

If I look like a sack of shit at The Medieval Banquet, you can blame KcKat and Eager :huh:
That`s the second time that woman has passed out at my house! rotflmao

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Venusxxx

5 Mar 2005

Seems pretty simple to me. He gets banned, he broke the AUP.
And the hole in my theory is? dunno

dunno

Venusxxx

5 Mar 2005

Please?
Venusxxx

4 Mar 2005

Yes
Venusxxx

4 Mar 2005

With the exception of krazykayaker, gee thanks guys :huh: lol

lol

I don`t know what `hub` is all about, but apparently neither does Microsoft help (no great surprise there then) so I shan`t beat myself up about it! :P
Venusxxx

4 Mar 2005

I had a problem getting online via one of my PC`s this morning. The one by the bed :shock: :shock: :shock: . As I`m sure you can all appreciate, this is a huge problem for me. I`ve had to sit up today, and it`s rapidly wearing thin. Even more disturbing, I have had tostandup, and walkacross the room to the other PC. :cry:
Anyway, BT diagnostics recognised there was a problem with my Proxies:shock:, so I guess I will be paying better attention to barrier methods in future, but no harm done, it was automatically fixed but......
I can connect to the net, but am getting the message `access denied by access control panel` when I try to connect to sites. I have no bloody clue what that means. I checked out the content security which is disabled, so it can`t be that. I tried the help system, but the links to take me to the relevent area don`t work, and neither does the `Dcomcnfg` run command which seemed like the thing to be fiddling with.
Any help would be much appreciated, before I become too familiar with my legs. confused

confused

Thankyou
Venusxxx

4 Mar 2005

Quote by manofmuchfun

oh gawwwd ............I'm havin a rest today !

Lightweight! :giggle:
I have to, under protest, I have work to do! evil

evil

Venusxxx
an you escape to here ? ..............your addicted ! ..........
No shit Sherlock! wink

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It`s worse when interesting discussions like this crop up, then I forget to sleep and stuff! lol

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Venusxxx

4 Mar 2005

No. Peas are Timmy`s. Leave Timmy`s peas alone. He might get ugly :shock:
Venusxxx

4 Mar 2005

Fucking hell Ice. Careful. For a second there I thought you had become all warm and fuzzy-like :shock:
Please don`t do that again, you`ll dismantle my scalpel surprised

surprised

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Venusxxx

4 Mar 2005

Quote by manofmuchfun
oh gawwwd ............I'm havin a rest today !

Lightweight! :giggle:
I have to, under protest, I have work to do! evil

evil

Venusxxx

4 Mar 2005

Quote by KitKat
Why is it so often true, that by the time I have decided what I want to say - the conversation has finished!
*Note to self - must think quicker*
SH is many things to many people, but it can never be all things to all people.
For example:
I like navel gazing, I like labeling. I use them to make sense of the world around me, and ed to do thatt to feel comfortable. My style of communicating in a way that may seem meandering, repetitive, overly complex and pointless to others, is essential for me to be me.
If my style of communication resulted in a string of replies saying saying "We do not want that sort of thing here" - I would quickly leave. - This would not mean I was a bad person, just that I was in the wrong place.
Some who arrive on here are in the wrong place. What tends to happen is they get told they are bad people. It gets personal. Once that happens, they get defensive about their own right to individuality, and the whole thing snowballs out of control.
People make mistakes. It is right that they are told about their mistakes. Not by saying "You are..." but by saying "In here...". Once their mistake has been pointed out to them, (by one person, not over and over again) then they should be given the change to change if they wish.
If they don't wish to change, then they will either leave after deciding that they are in the wrong place, or stay to wind people up, in which case they will become a troll and be banned.
lhk
Kat

I missed this. Great post :thumbup:
The only thing I could add to that is that (imo) some people need more time than others to change their habits if they are willing in the first place that is. The more aggression they encounter, the less likely they are to do so, because they can become polorised on all fronts.
Venusxxx

4 Mar 2005

I can`t really add anything to what`s already been said except for my support. (((((hugs)))))
Venusxxx

4 Mar 2005

You are slacking G! rotflmao

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Venusxxx

4 Mar 2005

Quote by marmalaid
He won't be on his own, young lady; he'll be on mine :grin:

:giggle:
Do you think we shouldtellhim :twisted:
Venusxxx

4 Mar 2005

Quote by Silk and Big G
Now youre getting it !! As a long time judgemental bigot I have learned that the emotive knee jerk reaction is the ONLY way to avoid over blown introspection . Not only that but its usually the truest one (wether we care to admit it or not ) . So there ya go we can be politically correct , or we can be intellectually balanced , or we can be honest . What a quandry :-)
Peace

Lol, whereas I avoid being overly kneejerk, by introspection! I`d agree it is the most honest, also the most natural at the time, but if I learn to understand why I react the way I do to things, then I develop a fresh more emotionally balanced reaction to things. Not kneejerk, but still natural. The thing I strive for is not to be overly anything but to reflect upon things enough that all three can merge as much as possible. It most probably does seem very extreme to others when they see how I work, and it does come up and bites me on the arse sometimes, either through people taking the piss and invalidating it (which can hurt), or because I get fucked up on occassion by my own thinking, but it is very rewarding in the longrun, and works for me. I wouldn`t change it for the world. It`s who I am. I quite like that person. I`m certainly confident enough about myself not to hide the fact! I`m an open book. :mrgreen:
Venusxxx