Also aside from individual maturity, if in a relationship, it can very much depend upon how well balanced you are as a couple. Some couples have learnt a great deal about communication from previous relationships (as above) some need to take a little longer to muddle through. Myself and Mars had so little experiance with previous relationships, we fell into the latter group. With so many other things on our plate, we had to learn to comunicate about early on, if we had tried to swing, even say, seven years down the line, it would have been a complete disaster (and was). We were very strong in areas which can slay some couples, even those who swing, but we never had the opportunity to focus on our strengths and weakness concerning outside sex. We had other things to contend with. Now we have progressed past all the other bollox, we`ve had time to focus on how well we understand each other in a swinging environment, and are enjoying every bit of it :twisted:
Venusxxx
Two here! :bounce:
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Me-
What I meant to say was exactly what I said.
Oh shit, why did I say that?
Unfortunately I am stupid.
Where`s the shovel?
Kill me now :scared:
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I`ve had `proper` flu just the once, years ago. It wasn`t nice, I ached all over, severely. The second time I thought I might be coming down with the flu it turned out to be Glandular fever. That wasn`t nice either, especially when I turned bright yellow as a result! Spent the best part of last year sleeping, recovering from viral fallout, and had to shelve most of my plans for working and college. It whipped my arse.
I get flu jabs and have been immunised for a certain strain of pnuemonia. It`s well worth doing. I`ll be getting vaccinated against Hep B soon too, that is probably the most important one of all in this lifestyle. I picked up the info on it on Monday. Apparently it is 100 times more contagious than HIV. One hangnail up your arse and you could be infected.
Venusxxx
Eager, it could have been your flatmate! :giggle:
Venusxxx
Interesting, I`m the opposite. Although I don`t mind being talked dirty to thatmuch, it doesn`t really do that much for me. I prefer my partner to be rendered incapable of speech. Involuntary moans and gasps do much more for me, I REALLY get off on that. :twisted:
:edit: Unless it`s via the phone, then the whole package comes into the equation
Venusxxx
Before the Big Bang. Just to be bloody awkward! :mrgreen:
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Before too many personal accusations are flung around, I think perhaps that most participants of this sport tend to judge the stand alone effect of their own posts and not the overall effect the many can have on someone on the receiving end. Therefore, I`m sure there are very few people here who actually fall into the bullying catagory as an individual, but as a group, I think the idea is worth considering.
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The more can I understand about myself (and others), the more I can resist making knee-jerk, emotive, reactions to certain events, that HAS to be a good thing, if only to keep me out of trouble! :giggle:
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