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25 Feb 2005

Quote by Tania
Ah, ok. Well you might like to think about how things sound before you type them, because that really came across as a criticism and a broad brush observation on how we raise our kids in this country.
I rankled :shock:
Venusxxx

Interesting word rankle. I had to look it up. Sorry you feel this way Venus. I did not mean to offend and I did say earlier on this is not a criticism, just a debate.
It`s ok, I don`t rankle easily! wink

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Cept we weren`t debating different approaches to disapline, so as it came out of nowhere, your example seemed to suggest that our approach (if there is such a thing) left doubt of who was in charge, and it came across as an accusation. It brought the patriot out in me......as well as the mum! lol

lol

Venusxxx

25 Feb 2005

Quote by Tania
LOL @ Libra
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Venus
That came from nowhere. Just an example of my mind processing different thoughts at the same time.

Ah, ok. Well you might like to think about how things sound before you type them, because that really came across as a criticism and a broad brush observation on how we raise our kids in this country. smile

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I rankled :shock:
Venusxxx

25 Feb 2005

Quote by Tania
Oh and by the way, in my country, we do punish children when they misbehave and we don't say 'will you please be quiet... please stop making that noise...can you please put this back on the shelf'. We just say 'be quiet! shut up!...put it back!' There is no doubt who is in charge.

Where did that come from?! dunno

dunno

Can`t speak for all parents in my country, but I try polite, and drop the `pleases` if they push it. There is no doubt that manners are expected to be extended and reciporated in my house.
Venusxxx

25 Feb 2005

I thought you were American Tania, now I`m guessing Canada?
Venusxxx

25 Feb 2005

Course you can pet, the more the merrier! biggrin

biggrin

Venusxxx

25 Feb 2005

And you`ll still be worrying when he`s 25! That`s what makes us good parents, the fact that we care. Aside from the boy, we have two teenaged girls, one nearly 17, the other nearly 14. I swear to god it`s their sole purpose in life to make us completely grey by the time we are forty! lol

lol

Venusxxx

25 Feb 2005

Quote by da69ve
I have a choice.....sit on my arse at home or walk the 15mins to the school to pick my son up....like i said it makes me feel better to do the school walk....what if something happened to him just for the sake of not being bothered to get off my arse,i could never live with myself.....when our eldest started secondary school he wanted to go to school by himself.....i can tell you we were nervous about that....but had to let him do it!

Tough call isn`t it? My son is not yet at High school, but he`s been asking for the past year when I`m going to allow him to do the walk by himself. I`ve only just felt confident enough to let him, much to his relief! If anything ever happened to him, it wouldn`t be my fault, or his, but the fault of the sicko who harmed him. He SHOULD be safe.
It doesn`t bear thinking about sad

sad

Venusxxx

25 Feb 2005

It`s like that around my area too Tania (edit- the quiet area, not Beirut!), but it`s worth bearing in mind that Sarah Paine was murdered just a few miles away. There no predicting it, all a parent can do is teach their kids to be as stranger-wise as possible, and try to walk that fine line between protection and independance. It`s different for every child and parent, you just have to try to judge it on your own child`s capabilities, and your own piece of mind.
Venusxxx

25 Feb 2005

I`d like to see people try *ouch* rotflmao

rotflmao

Venusxxx

25 Feb 2005

Urgh, letting your child walk home by themselves. It`s one of the hardest bits of independance to extend. I never had to deal with this one up until now, as when my eldest was old enough, her sister needed to be walked, and when she was old enough, her little brother.
Now both girls have left primary school, and the boy has no younger sibling for me to walk with him. We have only just begun to let him walk by himself. It`s a quiet village and school is about five minutes away, but I still crap it. He`s the baby of the family, and I tend to forget that in 19 months he will be travelling three miles to High School by himself every day. Some apron strings have to be loosened if he`s to be confident and independant enough to do this.
Don`t have to like it though evil

evil

Venusxxx

25 Feb 2005

Quote by warwick
Im not coming back in there MrsFC Venus scares me :shock:

Venusxxx

25 Feb 2005

Quote by Sgt Bilko
Couldn't have put it in better myself!! :shock: :shock:

You are getting closer by the day Sarge! :twisted:
Venusxxx

25 Feb 2005

Awwww bluddy hell redface

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Bugger off, you are spoiling my skank image! smackbottom

smackbottom

:lol2:
Venusxxx

25 Feb 2005

Quote by warwick
Im out :shock:

Can you come in again please Warwick? You are beginning to excite me :mrgreen:
Venusxxx

25 Feb 2005

I`m in! :bounce:
The shit starts here :twisted:
Venusxxx

25 Feb 2005

Great news! The guy from the site contacted me, and he says if we can raise the numbers to 60+ he will be quite happy to close off the site to the general public and let us have it for the day! :bounce:
On another note. Although I am quite happy for any of the any SH members to sign up, in light of so many who post a couple of times and disappear, if we reach maximum numbers, and there is neither deposits or contact made by those who have signed up as we draw closer to the event, I will strike them off the list in order to make room for those who are showing a more reliable interest.
I think that`s fair smile

smile

Venusxxx

25 Feb 2005

Not until you start crying..... :twisted:
Venusxxx

25 Feb 2005

Quote by warwick
Yup all we need now is Venus and its a full house
warwick currently hiding under his desk

:borg:
Venusxxx

25 Feb 2005

They cater for veggies (veggie burgers and salad).
Hagrid, you will be welcome to bring along your own equipment, but they will ask to check it over, just to ensure that it meets safety standards smile

smile

Venusxxx

25 Feb 2005

Quote by Sgt Bilko
I'd be constantly being told off for sucking my thumb!! :shock: :shock:

Duly noted. One day Sarge you`ll `come out` completely, and when you do........... :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :giggle:
Venusxxx

25 Feb 2005

Quote by tanqueraytim

But in reality I probably look like an arse
Venusxxx

well you def look very good in your avatar pic! :twisted:
I would do. The cam was set to take a picture every 10 seconds, left running for ages, and still I was only able to pick out a rare few shots worth sharing. Plus it was sepiaed (sp?)
That`s a hell of a lot of effort to look good! :giggle:
No matter, I enjoy how if feels, and that`s what counts. I`m not the poor bugger who has to look at me without the tweaking :mrgreen:
Venusxxx
But ta anyway kiss

kiss

25 Feb 2005

Lingerie is like pole dancing. Makes me feel as sexy as hell, I get off on what I *think* I look like, and the effect I think I`m having on an observer......
But in reality I probably look like an arse rotflmao

rotflmao

I should probably stop posting now. Too much red wine :uhoh:
Venusxxx

25 Feb 2005

One in Pompey soon I think. You`ll have to do a search.......cos I can`t be arsed :mrgreen:
Venusxxx

25 Feb 2005

Quote by JudyTV
In order not to be mistaken for a sub, Mars has just announced he will be turning up in his overalls, an ice hockey mask, and will be wielding a chainsaw.
Will this be Dom enough for everybody?! :uhoh:
Venusxxx

I often question why certain visions turn me on, I really worry myself at times. rolleyes

rolleyes

My own sexuality scares the crap out of me.
Judy
rotflmao

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I can`t wait to show him this in the morning! kiss

kiss

Venusxxx

24 Feb 2005

It`s always nice to be bought lingerie, but to be honest I prefer to buy my own, because I think I probably get more enjoyment out of it than anyone else. I`m a total scruff, and rarely wear underwear, but when I dress upin lingerie, I go whole hog.
Venusxxx

24 Feb 2005

Quote by Silk and Big G
I searched high and low all over the phone shops and internet , and I have one that is very difficult to get . It sounds like a phone and goes ' ring ring '

You should try E-bay for a brick like mine. It`d cost you about Well impressive it is. People can call you, it has a built in ring, and if you press a green button, you get to talk to them :shock:
It`s a bit clever too, has three games on it. :shock:
Venusxxx

24 Feb 2005

Quote by MQ
Feeling filthy tonight, so you can have the best picture I have of both mine and Mars` thighs :twisted:
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/personal/venusnmars/pictures/8.jpg
Venusxxx

Wow fantastic pic venus, incredibly sexy and erotic!
If you think that`s erotic, you should see what he`s planning to do with the Tiramisu tonight :shock:
Venusxxx

24 Feb 2005

Feeling filthy tonight, so you can have the best picture I have of both mine and Mars` thighs :twisted:

Venusxxx

24 Feb 2005

Quote by Scandal
What's a mothe..........

Take your pick lol

lol

Venusxxx

24 Feb 2005

Motherboard
Venusxxx