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VenusnMars
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 54
Straight Female, 83

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Quote by okgent
you know its bothers me not a jit wat conclusions some posters might or might not be drawing about me-im not emotional wreck because i received a mildly negative tone from some-its just so funny to get the comments i did from some with my sauna comment-swingers are so often on here banging on about openess and liberation and how stuffy and prudish non swingers live there lives-and i get rebuffed because i may or may not be inclined to cut out the hassle and pay for a lay....!!!!!!

And I for one am grateful for that. It`s always good to know who enjoys the process of `getting to know a person better`, and who would merely be going through the motions for a shag.
Go spend your money if that`s what you want, and I will thank you for not being one of the latter.
Venusxxx
Quote by MikeNorth
Scandal, I expect (Venusn)Mars and KitKat to join in any time now.
Mike.

Beat you to it Mike :mrgreen:
Venusxxx
I`ve been known to edit butt zits out on my photos..can I join?! :mrgreen:
Venusxxx
Given the dimensions of my bathroom, anymore than two people in there would have to get down and dirty by default.
It`d be like a game of Twister! lol
Venusxxx
I warned you not to wiggle?! :shock:
That doesn`t sound like me :twisted:
Venusxxx
You won`t get bath anything at this rate Jas!
I`m sorry, I thought I was being polite when I sat at the tap end. I under-estimated the `sandpaper` effect redface redface
Sod the draining board, that would involve washing up, or putting away.....or something :shock:
Venusxxx
Quote by Mark
Anyways, this reminds me of NWMunch II. I was walking around with my badge on (courtesy Ice Pie) and occasionally people would actually bother to look at it. I'd be all smiles saying "hi", and trying to catch who they were. They'd be like, "Mark, who are you, don't recognise that Nick". I'd then be thinking, right, they said Nick, so they're from the chatroom, OK. "Well, I use the forum mainly, but nice to meet you.", "The forum? What's that?" rotflmao

Hahaha, I dragged Mars over to say hi to you at the last one, cept it wasn`t you redface. Looked just like you from a distance, so I went up to him, tapped him on the back, and broke into an `oh so friendly smile` and started to natter.....
Then the penny dropped.
Poor bloke probably thought I was some kind of nutter, he couldn`t get away from me fast enough! :shock:
Venusxxx
The guy from the Housing Association has finally turned up to replace my bath, yippeee......
My bath is in bits, the new one is sat outside on my lawn, his mate has turned up to haul the old bath away, all was good!
Until I overheard him telling his mate he`s unlikely to be able to finish the job today because his back has gone and he can hardly walk :shock: :shock: :shock: :huh:
Venusxxx /getting smellier by the minute
Oh shut up Mark! I was trying to dismantle the idea of a clique, and look what you went and did! evil rotflmao
Venusxxx
Quote by BiFemHants
We thought this was a site dedicated to all forms of "Swinging" The word "Site" inclusive of all what the site has to offer albeit the forum , the chat room and yes even the photo ads.

It is pet, it`s just that `clique` remarks begin to wear a bit thin when personally I try to give advice in good faith....especially to the newbies, who haven`t been in a position to read the same advice over and over again. Advice is also offered upon how to write a good ad, except it wasn`t needed in this case, and chatroom advice isn`t offered by me and I`m sure many others here because we don`t relate to it so well, not having used it so often.
If it helps, I can start including references to the chatroom when I welcome new members or offer advice when people ask for it?
It just seems a shame that in trying to help people to fit in, it seems to be reinforcing the idea of a clique.
Venusxxx
Quote by bluexxx
I'm thinking that people may still veiw me as a non-genuine timewaster confused
wink

Is a non-genuine timewaster someone who doesn`twaste time? Who the hell are you anyway? Thinking you can flounce around in here telling us what you think we may or may not be veiwing you as?!
Fuck off.
:P wink
Venusxxx
Quote by BiFemHants
Well said hun biggrin Sorry to the so-called regulars in here but we see this time and time again " Get yourself known in here, attend lots of munchies and then you might just be accepted" Bollox , sorry but as a swinging site, not all members have to join the "Forum Clique" or attend munchies. Its getting like, that unles you either do one or both, to many on here you are not a so called "Real, Genuine, Swinger. mad

Ooops sorry redface
I suppose when someone comes to the forum section to ask for advice or share a problem, then they are going to get advice about how it works for the audiance the thread is going to be read by....forum users
Of course nobody HAS to go to munches, or HAS to post in the forum, it just seems like good advice to us (the so called regulars) because it means we can get to know who is genuine and who isn`t before going any further and leaving ourselves open to the timewasters all too often complained about in here.
It works for us, so the approach is shared in good faith, but in future perhaps we should keep that advice to ourselves if it`s building yet another *yawn* division.
I suppose suggesting people could get to know people via the chatroom as well would be a swearword too? :uhoh:
Venusxxx
I get the impression Ice and I should be adding disclaimers. I`m not sure what the disclaimer should contain, but given the fact Neil started a thread, and credited Ice and I, I can guaruntee disclaimers are needed :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
Disclaimer: Venus can not be held responsible for.............anything :scared:
Venusxxx
Quote by easy
OK just to clarify.........
I DO NOT USE THE CHATROOM. THE OTHER EASY IN THE CHATROOM IS AN IMPOSTER!
evil evil evil evil lol

I know redface redface redface redface
Venusxxx
Quote by Tania
BT is full of cons. I prefer and better. Benefit of Virgin vs aol and other suppliers is that they do not impose a minimum 12 month contract. Been moving houses and had my broadband follow me (actually wait there for me to arrive) - no problems at all. If I ever left my provider, I'd go for aol as their customer service is amazing.

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or even this one!
fourth post down. In fairness the inability to dial out is a problem the fuckwits at BT can`t fix, but I knew what I was doing more than customer services at AOL did.
Venusxxx
Quote by well_busty_babe
my stunning planet,
one day you will be mine.
redface

Thankyou. I'll look forward to it :twisted:
love mars
Actually he bought me a Tesco`s value Valentine card last week when I was ill, made me giggle. We decided to save all our money for the Blackpool weekend instead.
We just had a row is all evil It happens.
Venusxxx
After talking to one of my mates yesterday, I was really disappointed to discover that although it is possible to track down these hackers and turn the tables on them, that neither he or any of his friends were prepared to take the risk because hacking now falls under the `terrorism act` and it`s simply not worth the risk. That in mind (and apologies if this sounds really niave I`m not clued up on this stuff) is there a chance you guys could get the police involved?
You might find this useful too

They have a section on Mac security.
Venusxxx
I find telling them `If you touch me there again I`ll rip your fucking legs off` worked wonders for me! :mrgreen:
I`ve only ever had to say it once, and it wasn`t at a munch or any other swinging event.
I did go clubbing another time however where there was a guy who wasn`t picking up on any of the hints. He kept gyrating up against all the girls whilst they were dancing, and when they moved away, kept pushing it. I started dancing with my brother in law in the hope this guy would get the hint. He didn`t, so Bro-in-law `had words`
I`ve never really had a problem with deciding how to handle unwanted attention. I walk away, if it persists I get verbal, and if it still persists, I`ll tell one of the guys I`m with. If I`m not with a guy, I`d tell bar staff.
Venusxxx
Oh Jags you didn`t?!
But he christened St Bungo! You`ll burn in hell for this you know! :shock: :shock: :shock:
Venusxxx
Working through some links now. Apologies to all if I`ve made any ignorant statements.
Venusxxx
Ta Blue, I`ve been meaning to PM you about this stuff, you were recommended!
Venusxxx