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VenusnMars
Over 90 days ago
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When someone invests that much time and energy in hating someone I think it`s because there is an unidentified underlying attraction which might go beyond justsexual?
I`m not sure I believe in just sexual attraction. I think sexual attraction might be made up of both physical and emotional attributes.
He sounds like he might have had some similar characteristics to you Foxy, perhaps it was a clash of the Titans sort of thing?! :lol2:
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I`m not sure I believe in just sexual attraction. I think sexual attraction might be made up of both physical and emotional attributes.
He sounds like he might have had some similar characteristics to you Foxy, perhaps it was a clash of the Titans sort of thing?! :lol2:
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Quote by foxylady 123
No I couldn`t. How come you could Foxy?
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Because it would only be sex and as long as the sexual chemistry was right, why not?I dont need to like the person.
I dont equate being sat on a honey pot as relevant because it dosnt apply, im beyond that being relevant, and im certainly not looking for a relationship, ive got that sorted too!!
It certainly wouldnt be any form of abuse lol
Not all sex has to be realtionships and they do say hate is next to love!!
Ok, but only being in the same room as them is only being in the same room!
I`ll take your word for it, but I`m having trouble grasping the concept of being in the same room as someone having more of repulse factor than having sex with them.
Venusxxx
Ignoring the last two posts.... 
Thing is, I have to dart it it the top (not the cup :smug
, and be buggered if it`ll crease right. I`m trying to tuck it under two of the boned bits. Mars thinks I`ll have to cut, and then sew it :shock:
PVC is very unforgiving, I`m seriously considering glue instead of having it rumple where I sew
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Thing is, I have to dart it it the top (not the cup :smug
, and be buggered if it`ll crease right. I`m trying to tuck it under two of the boned bits. Mars thinks I`ll have to cut, and then sew it :shock: PVC is very unforgiving, I`m seriously considering glue instead of having it rumple where I sew
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take me for who I am or get stuffed!
I agree %110 with you, I am straight, have been since I stared exploring sex, yet I am pretty sure there is a little of me thats bi-cur. one day I will explore that side of me, today tomorrow next year, who knows. But I cant ever be phobic about it, or say "you are wierd" to anybody because of their tastes, (unless its a peado in which case everybody knows what happens) gay, straight, lesbian, bi, so what, thats just a tag. If you like the person, then accept them for as they are, dont try to "cure their illness" because thats not being a friend, accept them.
Acceptance is the hardest thing to find anywhere, those who accept you for what you are are the people who will be the strongest friends in future. I am lucky I suppose, my family and close friends are very "liberated" because they accept people as people, non racist, sexist or any other "ist" for that matter, and that was how I was raised, the same way I have tried to raise my kids.
If I need help, I dont care if you are black, white, bent as a 9 bob note or straight as a die, same with friends. If acceptance of a person was more widespread then the world would be a happier place, in truth I pity those who cannot accept anything that differs from the norm.
A persons sexual orientation is nothing, its the person themself that counts
Forgive the thread hijack here, your apology thread aside, this is the most hypocritical turnaround I've seen in ages!! How dare you hound "married-but-cheating" people one day and spout live and let live the next!! In all the time I have been on this site I have never had recourse to respond in this way - but I'm incensed by this! Was your awakening from petty small mindedness really such an epiphany yesterday?
Ghostie, sexual orientation is completely different to the moral issue of married men cheating. This was probably the distinction kristoff was going by.
Venusxxx (not debating the dynamics of something already apologised for at all
) Wishmaster, the forum is kinda responsible for defining what a munch is for people who are new to the scene, as the main subject of the site is Swinging, and providing correct information to that end. If someone organises an event which does not meet this classification, then as site moderators they have to act accordingly to help clear up any confusion.
The definition of a munch, as far as I remember, is a social only interaction of likeminded liberated people regardless of gender or status.
Venusxxx
The definition of a munch, as far as I remember, is a social only interaction of likeminded liberated people regardless of gender or status.
Venusxxx
Quote by well_busty_babe
can also work the other way round!
i have met many physically "stunning" people, but the more they speak to me.. the less attractive i find them!
Oh god, me too WBB. I`ve met some whose vanity surpasses any personality they have, which is one of my huge turn offs. I have other personality turn offs, not always ones which are `nasty` characteristics either, just traits which will obstruct a `meeting of the minds`.
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<Hijack alert>
Venus before you post anymore could you just change your av back to the one with the paper bag over your head? Mrs Crankie just don't alert me !
<Hijack over>
Sorry Scandal, I lost it! I could pinch one from my website again?
If not, you can find one for me! :mrgreen:
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