I`m much the same Rainbows.
Personality is something I won`t compromise on (ignoring the `stranger sex` stuff I`ve not explored nor want to get into here), but I do find that if a person`s personality clicks strongly with me, they begin to look more attractive as time goes on! I`ll start appreciating physical attributes I hadn`t previously noticed, but that does have it`s limits.
I think when it involves lovehowever, then that limit is non-existant.
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How important is it allowed to be here? Because I`m beginning to feel like a traitor to the cause! When I think about swinging with someone, it takes a combination of things to spark my sexual interest, and this willinclude physical attraction. I just thank god that my taste is not fully centered around the `Western Ideal`, or I`d be screwed....or not as the case may be!
Looks are unimportant to me when making friends however, and I have some fantastic friends here who I`d love to shag.....except that thier physical makeup doesn`t float my boat at all, and I can`t get past that. Then I end up feeling like a heel.
Am I the only one?
Venusxxx
Ooooooooh Sarge! Just in time! :bounce:
Franz Kafka.
Misunderstood literary genius or psychological anomaly? :mrgreen:
Venusxxx
Happy now. :mrgreen:
Sorry to everyone! (but not you Neil)
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Neil! You are a big girl`s blouse.
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Mark, you have the power. Let him back, but restrict his access to any one of my discursive threads (Dynamics, IQ/Kant, Equality....to name a few)
Not that I`m bitter or anything............:mrgreen:
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Actually I`m not ashamed. I`m all those things Flapjack isn`t ;) I think it was a great testimony to our marraige to have eventually been able see past it,work through it, and learn from it. In hindsight I know there are easier ways to acheive that kind of strength, but hindsight is sometimes a non-existant thing without experiance.
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Both of us, again a long time ago. Fortunately we recognised it as a symptom not a cause of something `not quite right`, fixed it and moved on, much richer for it.
Which is probably one of the factors toward why we now have the communication which allows us to swing.
Venusxxx
Yes, do quite a bit.........cheap foodstuff :mrgreen:
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