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VenusnMars
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 54
Straight Female, 83

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Well, yeah. Women were oppressed, and now they're not. If men have trouble with that, well, too bad I suppose.

Is it just me, or does anyone else think that the person who made that statement has a huge chip upon their shoulder? No it`s not `too bad`, it`s not acceptable to take what we want without considering the bigger picture, a bigger picture which actually includes guys. It wasn`t acceptable to women when guys were seen to be doing this, so equality by default should dictate the sentiment be reciporated. `Too bad I suppose` speaks volumes to me about a person`s point of view not being discussed with them. Perhaps we shouldn`t let them vote either? I quite liked the `Are you serious?` comment also. There was enough material in that first post to encourage a discursive approach...why `Are you serious?`, surely not because someone had trouble believing that anybody might actually ask those questions. I mean, how dare they?!!
To be honest I don`t really have a very broad experiance of equal rights outside of my front door, but I`ve seen plenty of guys squashed for even daring to suggest that some aspects of `equal` rights might not actually be working. Maybe they are wrong, I don`t know, but the more I see them get slapped for even daringto question, the more I have to wonder myself!
The same attitude could be applied to almost any seemingly challenging question directed at any previous or current minority group......which these days may as well involve just about anyquestion, or joke etc. However, ignorance is not the crime, remaining ignorant is, and if people end up having to tread upon eggshells, not only will this be reinforcing ignorance, but possibly resentment too. Who knows, tippy toe people might have valuable points to make, without it involving us getting back into the kitchen!
:disclaimer: The above perhaps might be a little over reactionary in comparison to the source, but at some point rant mode set in! redface
Venusxxx
Quote by hagrid
Just dont let Venus near them ! she's a DOGGIST! (specially if they're cute ikkle dogs!) :giggle: :giggle: :giggle: :giggle: :giggle:

Given Blue`s AV. I`m not sure it`s in my best interests to be a doggist anymore. :shock:
Congrats Marcuso biggrin
Venusxxx
Kristoff, it was good of you to apologise, but as Sarge said, you certainly haven`t been the only one. No doubt you won`t be the last. However in such a social environment I at least recognise how difficult it is NOT to bounce off of the same people again and again, especially when you are new and trying to find your niche, if these people have adopted a bandwagon posting style, then it`s all too easily adopted. There are longer term members here who should know much better. I myself have said my piece on many of the topics Neil raised on that thread, most probably more than once. I just hope to god I haven`t made a hobby of it. This time I don`t feel the need to apologise, because my intentions and approaches were always offered with an independant and balanced sentiment (I hope). I have also tried to inject enough humour and irony to put a point across in a manner which wouldn`t provoke a road accident. A sentiment not appreciated here it seems. People just love rubber-necking.
Although I`m certainly not accusing Sarge of this, because I know him well enough that NOONE is immune for his point of view, somebody somewhere would have probably used you as an example....ironically because you are a newbie, and therefore fair game above all others.
I just think it`s a damn shame it is you who is doing the apologising here.
Venusxxx
Also the trend could prove to be self-defeating, for if faced with so much condemnation, how long will it take for married guys who play away from home to begin covering up to us? Just like the many others here who no doubt also feel like they are in the minority and keep thier heads down as a result?
Venusxxx
Naa, I`ll let you live :twisted: . Only up again cos I lost my damn ihaler, now the crisis has passed I`ll prolly sleep for days!
nite pet kiss
Venusxxx
Quote by Jas-Tim
I can't believe no one has worked it out:
Totally
Flummoxed
Wench
You're in a perpetual state of bewilderment as the world revolves.
Now get to bed
FFW
XXX

The world revolves?! :shock:
Venusxxx
Quote by foxylady 123
Cant you just get some stilletos?

Why would I want to? dunno
I like big hefty New Rocks now (thanks Jas) the juxtaposition works wonders! :mrgreen:
Venusxxx
Quote by hornyred and dino
maybe i should change my user name to scrawnyred n dino biggrin wink

Don`t you dare! smackbottom
Stand tall, er, I mean, up, and be noticed!
People will still accuse us of sitting down, but do we care?! Hell no! :bounce:
Venusxxx
Quote by hornyred and dino
the smallest swinger in town redface

Fun though isn`t it? wink
Do you like it when guys dangle you too? :mrgreen:
Venusxxx
Quote by hornyred and dino
size 8 , 5 ft 2 , 7 1/2 stone , get blown over by a light breeze , will float off if holding more than 2 party balloons,!!

Christ! You are smaller than me! :shock:
Competition! :twisted: :bounce:
Venusxxx
Quote by james02
James, well done! You are using a spell-checker aren`t you? smile
Venusxxx

I was thinking of investing in a dictionary
It would certainly help to define the words...but I somehow think you are loved just as you are! kiss
Venusxxx
Quote by Sgt Bilko
Pssssttt!! There's nothing above !! confused confused confused lol lol wink

pssst, I didn`t notice. I have a problem with `up`.
Venusxxx
Ignoring the above lol
I have company! Thankyou GenHerts! :bounce:
Clearly, to be fair, more labels are needed.
We also need one for larger sized short women, and smaller sized tall women, oh, and all the equivalents for the men.
Let it not be said I am sizest...........or sexist....they can sod off and make their own damn threads however! :twisted:
Venusxxx
Awww c`mon! There must be someone else out there as diminutive as me. Getting scared now :shock:
Looking for heights up to 5ft 2, dress sizes 8-12. We could take turns to give each other piggy backs at munches so we don`t get trodden on.
Venusxxx
Quote by Vix
Venus The Virago?

I want one where I won`t be everyone wants to be called Venus!
This thread isn`t getting enough interest.....maybe I`m too little to get shagged.
Think I might flounce :cry: wink
Venusxxx
I see three options here.
1. Leave the posts alone, and treat them like any other post which doesn`t meet personal criteria eg. ignore them
2. The site makes it a rule that Married men playing away can`t post.
3. People put up with reading the same repetitive topic which arises again and again whose main contributers are normally those who moan about the same repetitive topics arising again and again.
Disclaimer: No I haven`t bothered taking much note of the names in this thread, so it`s not necessarily directed at anyone on this thread. I`ve said my piece on this myself before I became bored with the topic. Also as sick as a dog, so I`m allowed to gripe period.
Venusxxx
Quote by Vix
Yeah, I have a tiny frame. It's just covered in a lot of lard.

But that would allow you to fall into both catagories, and that is not fair! I wasn`t about to make the label `Small boobed Women` cos I don`t consider myself lacking up top (what does the middle `B` in BBW stand for anyway?!)
I demand a label dammit! One that Vix can`t pinch! evil wink
Venusxxx
Quote by Countess
errrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr where do i begin............................i sort of ended up here due to easy who took a while to tell me he was posting!
He thought i wouldn't approve or would think he was swinging, neither of which are true.
We have both been asked numerous times" why are we here if we don't swing?" and have had a few offers to" burst our cherries" so to speak. Easy has his own reasons for being here, but mine are I was curious as to what it was all about. I would read the posts over his shoulder and find them funny informative and I began to bond with certain people.
It was after the first munch where I met some of those people who encouraged me to post under my own sign on regardless of whether i swung or not that made me do it.
If for any reason however we are not wanted as hard as it would be we would stop posting and attending munches. We have always maintained that we don't swing and have never lead anyone to believe we do.

Can we burst your cherries? :mrgreen:
Venusxxx