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VenusnMars
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 54
Straight Female, 83

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/sighs...
Bilko, you have been spending far too much time with our Debbiewebs! :lol2:
Venusxxx
Um nope! Actually, I`m being a little unfair. I doubt it would even get that far, I`m sure our stories wouldn`t be sensationalist enough for them.......well, I know mine wouldn`t be!
But, yeah, given a long enough interview, they can edit enough to distort anything rolleyes
There are enough open threads here to set the story straight if they were willing, but then they wouldn`t have a story would they?!
Gotta love the tabloids. confused
Venusxxx
Quote by tictacs
Why not put your heads together and write a reply back to the indie/news of the world telling them its all what they make it out to be.
Setting the record straight

You tell them......
Swinging is not about having a quick shag with strangers, it`s also about making good friends, whom we would never shag without protection.

They report.....
Swinging is about having a quick shag with strangers, it`s also about making good friends, whom we would shag without protection.

:giggle:
Venusxxx
Quote by james02
I think if people wanted just friend ship they would go onto a chat site rather then a swinger’s site.
Or would they

Apparently not, given some of the people here I`ve met. That`s why it would be interesting to hear what they have to say. Obviously the sexually active swingers outnumber them a great deal, but there must be something nice about us all aside from our genitals! :mrgreen:
Venusxxx
Quote by james02
I haven’t been to any swinging parties as of yet.
But I do find this site interesting in the community it brings together, as well as the laths.
But I think in most peoples eyes the end resolt of this is sex

Interesting sentiment James, for when we first joined we thought that would be the case, but for us it has turned out to be very different to that. The sex is there when we want it, but if I had to swap one for the other, we`d choose the friendships, it has proven to be much more rewarding for us. Luckily, we don`t have to choose, as we prefer both! :twisted:
Venusxxx
Quote by Silk and Big G
No matter how progressed in your training you are , you will NOT succeed in decontructing me by stealth :-)

rotflmao rotflmao rotflmao
You turd! :giggle:
Venusxxx
Quote by Silk and Big G
For us its the insanity , and the camaraderie that ensues

I thought in yourcase it was just the voices :uhoh:
Venusxxx
The depth of the social side to swinging never fails to impress me, and we both have a few friends who attend munches and meet us socially but are not sexual participants at all. Many more we meet socially who are sexually active on the scene, but are simply not with us. Friendships are a huge factor on SH.
I`d like to hear more from the non-sexual participants of the scene, and those of us who have made great friends from here they`d never shag! Once sex is out of the equation, what is left? Why SH if sex isn`t what you are after ;)
Venusxxx
Quote by westerross
And less of the single right!!

Bugger, I knew that was a gamble, I even looked up some of your random posts!
Post about the Missus more! smackbottom
Venusxxx
Quote by westerross
Never mind all this hardware stuff. Half a pint o' Astroglide and I'll do it with one finger. Still I might have to use two hands to slide you up and down on Mars, Venus.

Gosh, I hope that isn`t a barely disguised attempt to overstep your role Tune?
/ambles off grumbling about the single men on SH........... rolleyes lol
Venusxxx
Mars
Gangbang movie! You're such a horndog! You can't
get enough sex! You've been around the block.
People might even go so far as to call you a
nympho. Chances are, you're a walking STD. Go
get tested.
Doesn`t surprise me in the least...The bloke nearly clicked on Mrs Rosie Palm and her five daughters because for a second there he thought the option reallywas referring to shagging six women in the bathroom rolleyes
Venusxxx
Quote by Silk and Big G
AAh now then , greater have tried and failed lol

Are you suggesting there are greater people than me out there? :shock:
Living dangerously mate evil lol
Venusxx
Quote by Vix
The only times anyone has been left out, in my experiences, are when I fall asleep. (No slur on anyone involved, I am ill.... it happens).

Not fooled....it`s cos you are an old fart! :giggle: wink
Venusxxx
It was this quote which I took the most offense to
There wasn't a condom in sight. Contrary to all my preconceptions about gorgeous people having gorgeous group sex, like in the movies, everyone there looked fat, tired and just a bit weird.

A. Why the hell is `fat` in the same sentance as `weird`?
B. I may not have played much, but I think I`d be pretty hard pressed to find a party where condoms are not the No.1 priority.
Venusxxx
Quote by fitlad63
if you are the right person i will have sex aswell

But we don`t need to be the right person to suck?!
Oh goody rotflmao
Venusxxx
Quote by BaldEagle
Kinky maybe, but small kids watching - a def no no evil . Something wrong with the test mad

Yes, it`s an online test! rotflmao
Don`t take it personally! kiss
Venusxxx

Bondage movie! You're into BSDM (Bondage &
Discipline, Dominance & Submission) and chances
are, you're fond of whips, chains, harnesses,
and tight leather outfits. You like to mix a
little pain with a LOT of pleasure, baby!
And I thought I`d skipped over the more extreme BDSM answers! rotflmao
Venusxxx
Given the heightest jokes Mars is now cracking (according to Scandal`s calculations his cock is almost the same height as me :huhsmile, I`m not entirely convinced this thread is as politically correct as it should be.
/flounces
Venusxxx
Quote by Calista
I will disagree with the wording in this ~ I can see the point that you are trying to make but abuse does not breed abuse. Whereas there are indications that being sexually abused may heighten a persons predisposition to abuse, but it is not inherrant, the person still makes a choice whether to act on that increased predisposition at which point they have to accept responsibility for their actions.

I totally agree. Decent people are capable of breaking the circle...or at least that is the line I`m comfortable with drawing in an increasingly grey area. I once watched a documentary about a guy whose sexual attraction was toward children only. He loathed himself, but couldn`t seem to shake the attraction. What he was capable of however, was recognising that the attraction was wrong, and as a result had never touched a child in his life.
Venusxxx
rotflmao
Mars said, `in that case you can clean up the house whilst you are at it!` lol
Venusxxx
Quote by LadyFeeBee
For goodness sake.....what happened to the sense of community spirit on here!!!!!!!!!
Venus, I'll step forward to help without any worries
the Laird
xx
PS The Lady ask's if she can also help? :twisted:

Two would be a wonderful idea. One to wipe our noses, and another to hold the bucket whist we cough up our lungs.......
Feeling horny yet?! rotflmao
Venusxxx
Quote by BaldEagle
If Mars can stand, a love swing wink

Nope, doesn`t look like he`s planning on standng anytime soon...... poke
Venusxxx
Quote by Ice Pie
If you have a baby bouncer, a few modifications/reinforcements ought to do the trick. biggrin

Now look here Ice! I know I`m only little, but you really are beginning to take the piss now aren`t you?! lol wink
Venusxxx